Eye Contact

[FaustOust]

How important to you is eye contact during sex?  

I like it, particularly in a position that lends itself to eye contact, but I have noticed that some guys, even then, close their eyes or look elsewhere. 

I remember once when a guy ordered me to look him in the eyes as I was blowing him.   It was very hot.  I think eye contact can be used to turn up the heat in a situation, and I am surprised how many guys seem like they are drifting off somewhere else with their eyes shut or looking somewhere else while doing the deed.

[+ ApexNomad]

6 minutes ago, FaustOust said:

How important to you is eye contact during sex?  

I like it, particularly in a position that lends itself to eye contact, but I have noticed that some guys, even then, close their eyes or look elsewhere. 

I remember once when a guy ordered me to look him in the eyes as I was blowing him.   It was very hot.  I think eye contact can be used to turn up the heat in a situation, and I am surprised how many guys seem like they are drifting off somewhere else with their eyes shut or looking somewhere else while doing the deed.

Eye contact is everything to me!! It’s connection. It’s control. It’s presence. It’s chemistry. I’ve had partners who kept their eyes locked on mine the entire time—especially in missionary. I swear it made everything more intense. Raw. Animal. One guy used to cup my face and pull it back toward his if I turned away just to breathe—he needed to see me he said. It wasn’t just hot, it made me feel completely wanted. And his! 

[+ Just Chuck]

In general, I love eye contact during sex.  I’ve experienced it as hot 99% of the time. And, I’ve seen 1% as a window into the mind of a crazy person.

[Nightowl]

Eye contact is great.  A lot of times guys just look at what’s going on below the belt but eye-to-eye contact is a completely different level of hotness.  Intense eye-to-eye when one of you has a dick in your mouth is the best of both worlds.

[BrickBuilder]

Depend on the scene.  

In general I really like looking into the eyes of the bottom as I am having fun penetrating him in a myriad of ways. Getting him to tell me about other sexual situations he has been in that he thought was hot.  I can read pretty well how he is taking it, feeling, etc by how his eyes react.  It is the first indication that there was a position, toy, something that did not feel right or that what we were doing was hitting just the right spots.    I also enjoy the eye contact when either of us is cumming (but most guys tend to close their eyes at this point or go unfocused).

BUT....if we are playing with any scene that has blindfolds and possibly restraints, eyes are not a option.  I tend to be very attuned to their breathing at that point.  Again its an indication of enjoyment and or anxiety and or limits.