411 on SteeleD In NYC

[chriss]

https://rentmen.eu/SteeleD

Longtime following of this forum and always appreciate the insight offered. First time posting. Searched and didn't see any prior threads on this provider. He will be traveling near me soon. It's a relatively new profile and only one review. Curious if the community has any information or experience.

[mikefl81]

Bump. Any other info on him?

[JGGrahamDC]

I am supposed to meet up with him tomorrow, but right now it’s a 50-50 if I go through with it. I’ve seen some really good things, but I’ve also seen a couple red flags.

[+ ApexNomad]

One of my biggest pet peeves is when I’m left guessing. If he has “ask me” boxes for position, orientation, or safety, just list it instead of making me assume. If he can list over 34 things he’s into, he can handle the basics.

And if you’re on the fence about meeting now, less than 24 hours before a meet up, at least have the courtesy to cancel now in advance so the guy has a chance to rebook with someone else. One of the worst things is a last-minute cancellation without a valid reason.

[JGGrahamDC]

UPDATE: I had a great time. It was worth it. 

[SoCalBaseball]

9 hours ago, JGGrahamDC said:

UPDATE: I had a great time. It was worth it. 

Glad to hear that you had a good time. I've been eyeing him for a while too and I might give it a try next time I'm in Raleigh. Definitely a great build, a few red flags but nothing major. Outcalls only suggests he might live with a boyfriend or husband and might not be that emotionally available enough for a passionate sesh, but I'll try to chat for longer to try to get an insight into the situation. I love providers who are single. I find them more available and more passionate. hahaha

[CaliMuscle]

Any updates on him? Feel free to DM me. 

[guru68]

On 10/8/2024 at 2:25 PM, JGGrahamDC said:

UPDATE: I had a great time. It was worth it. 

One of his pics implies that he's a power bottom - is that correct?

[musclefucker]

Had him over as a sub bottom, excellent time. He asked for 500, I'd say it was worth it. Let me abuse his holes and did everything I told him to do. Would recommend.

[Jay898]

100% Would recommend. Incredible Bottom and top. Truly vers in every way.

[mikefl81]

He’s advertising as a top now. Believe he previously listed vers or ask me. 

[Oakman]

Listing as “bottom, top or vers” can actually reduce desirability for vers guys or “switches.” Clients prefer specialization, particularly for expensive purchases. A client looking for a sub bottom is going to prefer providers who focus on that in their ads. In marketing this is the notion that If you want a great steak, you go to a steak house, not a restaurant that also serves steak among other things (even though both steaks may be of equal quality).

By omitting position preference, a vers provider leaves that up to the client’s imagination. It takes just a little conversation for a vers provider to figure out which role is needed and then turn that on as if it’s the thing he’s most into. 

[omgazn]

On 1/22/2025 at 6:07 PM, Oakman said:

Listing as “bottom, top or vers” can actually reduce desirability for vers guys or “switches.” Clients prefer specialization, particularly for expensive purchases. A client looking for a sub bottom is going to prefer providers who focus on that in their ads. In marketing this is the notion that If you want a great steak, you go to a steak house, not a restaurant that also serves steak among other things (even though both steaks may be of equal quality).

By omitting position preference, a vers provider leaves that up to the client’s imagination. It takes just a little conversation for a vers provider to figure out which role is needed and then turn that on as if it’s the thing he’s most into. 

100% agree on this point. How is his skill now that he only tops?

[xquire]

Bump. His profile says he's dominant. Is he a top? Does he kiss?

[Muscle Lover 2]

I was in NYC, which I believe is his hometown, in February.   We chatted.   I told him what I like, which included kissing, and he said "we are compatible."   Our schedules never synced, and his rate was a little high for me, so we never met up.

[+ Gar1eth]

On 1/22/2025 at 5:07 PM, Oakman said:

Listing as “bottom, top or vers” can actually reduce desirability for vers guys or “switches.” Clients prefer specialization, particularly for expensive purchases. A client looking for a sub bottom is going to prefer providers who focus on that in their ads. In marketing this is the notion that If you want a great steak, you go to a steak house, not a restaurant that also serves steak among other things (even though both steaks may be of equal quality).

By omitting position preference, a vers provider leaves that up to the client’s imagination. It takes just a little conversation for a vers provider to figure out which role is needed and then turn that on as if it’s the thing he’s most into. 

I guess I'm the odd one out (wouldn't be the first time). For me as a top (back when I was hiring), listing 'Ask Me' for position -and possibly also as orientation-would make me more inclined to skip the guy unless I thought he was so handsome I just had to check. In fact in many cases I'd be using the search function with inputs of bottom, versatile, top/versatile. So I'd never see the 'Ask Me' ads to begin with. 

[PIKEMASTER]

he says he charges less for mild services I said I was more vanilla so agreed to a lower rate.

though I have yet to see him

Edited March 21 by PIKEMASTER

[xquire]

15 minutes ago, PIKEMASTER said:

he says he charges less for mild services I said I was more vanilla so agreed to a lower rate.

though I have yet to see him

Please report back on your experience as I'm interested to know what he's like!

[xquire]

Any updates here?

[omripeled]

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