Protocol

[mikeyspark]

Can you describe how you handle discussing limits and expectations with masseurs? I feel I've been pretty vanilla, never really touching them when I could. What's your experience when it comes to the provider and touching?

[allyouknow]

I always ask if it is ok to touch  - they will then let you know to what extent. 

[BaronArtz]

It depends on the massage you are booking.  If it is therapeutic, I would not touch unless if he invites me.  For sensual/erotic sessions where you may be offered MT and HE, it is expected.  But even then, you should start gently and see how he reacts.  I wouldn't be suddenly grabbing his cock.  

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 5/17/2025 at 3:37 PM, mikeyspark said:

Can you describe how you handle discussing limits and expectations with masseurs? I feel I've been pretty vanilla, never really touching them when I could. What's your experience when it comes to the provider and touching?

Already discussed at length in "Questions About Hiring":

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/160124-broaching-the-subject-of-preferred-activities-with-provider/

 

 

[mikeyspark]

I guess. That's mostly just fighting. 

[Capitano]

10 hours ago, BaronArtz said:

It depends on the massage you are booking.  If it is therapeutic, I would not touch unless if he invites me.  For sensual/erotic sessions where you may be offered MT and HE, it is expected.  But even then, you should start gently and see how he reacts.  I wouldn't be suddenly grabbing his cock.  

I agree!

At this stage, I don't hire unless they confirm that they are fine with being naked and lightly touched. With face down, I just gently touch their calf muscles when face down. If they get sensual with massaging my glutes (which I really like and need because I run) I reach up and gently touch their thighs. If they double down on sensuality, I touch their ass. If they step back, I do too. I touch their dick and balls once I am face up and they touch mine, I see it as the green light 🙂. I do think it's tacky and disrespectful to be grabby unless specifically asked to do it, but that's rare anyway.