Birthday Party in LA, hiring gogo dancers?

[Pd1_jap]

I'm having a milestone birthday this year. I want to throw a big slutty party. Does anyone have a recommendation for how to hire gogo dancers? 

I've never organized a big party before. What is the going rate for a gogo boy? 

Thanks.

[d.anders]

On 5/3/2025 at 2:26 AM, Pd1_jap said:

I've never organized a big party before.

If you don't have any experience, perhaps a "big slutty party" with hired "gogo dancers" is a bit of a reach. If you don't have lots of money, you need connections, and those typically cost lots of money. I'm confident L.A. has its share of gay party planners/organizers. They would be your best source for reliable info.

[+ DrownedBoy]

You could just call a gogo bar. Or hang out in one and ask who's up for stripping.

[Whippoorwill]

I have hired Travis Thailand for massage, and he described himself as a pole dancer. He also does/did porn as Travis Yukarin…if you google that you will find a lot online…performing in clubs, at parties/festivals etc. He was a lot of fun in the massages, very friendly and easy to talk with. If he’s a type you like, easy to contact on RentMasseur. 

[maninsoma]

I have no advice, but just something to clarify during your research: Are you looking for guys who will only be expected to dance in a Speedo or thong or something, or are you looking for guys who do more than that?  Also, are you planning to pick up the entire tab for your guests' entertainment or is the notion that guests could negotiate their own deals for "private dances?"

[Pd1_jap]

On 5/5/2025 at 8:10 AM, maninsoma said:

I have no advice, but just something to clarify during your research: Are you looking for guys who will only be expected to dance in a Speedo or thong or something, or are you looking for guys who do more than that?  Also, are you planning to pick up the entire tab for your guests' entertainment or is the notion that guests could negotiate their own deals for "private dances?"

I'm not getting involved in the pimping business. 

I was thinking they could tip the dancers but don't want to go so far as to say they can pay for services on premises. I'm starting to think that just getting bottle service at the Abbey might be the best route. 

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[maninsoma]

5 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

I'm not getting involved in the pimping business. 

I was thinking they could tip the dancers but don't want to go so far as to say they can pay for services on promises. I'm starting to think that just getting bottle service at the Abbey might be the best route. 

Makes sense to me.  I think your description of your fantasy as a "big slutty party" made me think you were hoping to arrange an orgy.

[Pd1_jap]

3 hours ago, maninsoma said:

Makes sense to me.  I think your description of your fantasy as a "big slutty party" made me think you were hoping to arrange an orgy.

An orgy would be great. Love the idea. Maybe get bottle service and a hotel room for after.