Advice on asking MF masseur to go sensual

[mhsmhsmhs]

Hi all. I finally found a reliable, sweet, GREAT masseur via MF. In his ad he explicitly says "therapeutic" but I know from searching on this site that he used to do sensual work and maybe escorting back in 2023. I have been about a half dozen times now and it's never gone in *that* direction. He's been a total gentlemen -- and is licensed. What's the protocol and/or advice you'd have for turning up the temperature? I'd at least like him to be shirtless. HJ would be nice but eye candy alone is fine! Is it weird to just flat out ask? I mean, he's getting $500/month from me now that I go biweekly... Worst he can say is no, right?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

36 minutes ago, mhsmhsmhs said:

Hi all. I finally found a reliable, sweet, GREAT masseur via MF. In his ad he explicitly says "therapeutic" but I know from searching on this site that he used to do sensual work and maybe escorting back in 2023. I have been about a half dozen times now and it's never gone in *that* direction. He's been a total gentlemen -- and is licensed. What's the protocol and/or advice you'd have for turning up the temperature? I'd at least like him to be shirtless. HJ would be nice but eye candy alone is fine! Is it weird to just flat out ask? I mean, he's getting $500/month from me now that I go biweekly... Worst he can say is no, right?

Welcome to the Company of Men. There are multiple discussions on this subject. Take some time and peruse the existing  topics in "Questions About Hiring".

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/157724-how-to-know-the-signs-that-the-masseur-will-provide-extras/?do=getNewComment

 

 

Edited April 22 by Vegas_Millennial