Crossdressing/Sissy Play

[SubDaddyFL]

Hi guys, new here, hope everyone is doing well!

I'm pretty inexperienced with hiring providers and have specific kinks/fetishes I'd like to explore further. Obvious I'm sure from the title, but I enjoy crossdressing/sissy play. Love to be very submissive, so it's all part of the kink for me. I understand this is a somewhat niche fetish, but hey - we all like what we like I guess. 

Anyway, just curious if providers are usually open to this type of play? Not sure how to look for someone who's into it or just reach out to someone I'm considering and ask directly. 

Any input/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!

[56harrisond]

When contacting a potential provider just ask them, let them know what you're into and any scenarios you want to explore. By the way, there's nothing they haven't heard before.

[allin4cum]

don't know what the providers reaction will be but do know that I would react with an instant hard on. 

[+ Pensant]

On 1/1/2025 at 2:53 AM, 56harrisond said:

When contacting a potential provider just ask them, let them know what you're into and any scenarios you want to explore. By the way, there's nothing they haven't heard before.

You’ll certainly find a few who have experience in this. And I agree, it’s not that odd a fetish at all!

[pubic_assistance]

On 12/31/2024 at 9:11 PM, SubDaddyFL said:

Love to be very submissive, so it's all part of the kink for me. I understand this is a somewhat niche fetish, but hey - we all like what we like I guess. 

In my experience in the world of kink..this is NOT terribly "niche" at all. Being a dominant top myself, I am approached by submissive fem-boys all the time on my Grindr account. It may not be the most common interest amongst all gay men..but it certainly isn't an unusual fetish within the community of kink players. 

All providers are accustomed to inquiry about interests. So I would advise that it NEVER hurts to ask. Some will be amenable and some may tell you no. But as they say: "There is a key for every hole out there somewhere." You just need to ask. 

I would start with providers who list multiple other fetish interests. Those gentlemen are the more likely to be open to your own personal requests even if its not on their own personal checklist of kinks.

[Guest]

This is one of my favorite kinks.

Most bisexual providers will likely be able to accommodate this kink and do so knowingly. 

At the core of this kink IMHO is a desire be treated/perceived/validated as a female slut. There is an element of degradation/humiliation in that a man is turned into a woman for another man, but there is another side of this fetish than often providers ignore.

The best sissy play to me is when the provider hurts and mends you. Simultaneously giving you the pain you seek as the sissy object, but offsetting it later by giving you the affection and protection that is often reserved only for the fairer sex.

To put it simply, take me, make me, but don't break me. Make me YOUR sissy-f*g-thing but also make me feel like I am your ONLY sissy-f*g-thing. The romantic layer of this fetish is often misunderstood and overlooked. I know the good providers from the great ones by discerning which of them realize these subtle nuances.

If you are not naturally feminine (physically speaking), dressing up a certain way can really elevate the role play both for you and your man.