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  • 1 year later...
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Thanks for the heads up @big-n-tall

I was praying he returned. Kind of similar to you, we had spoken about an upcoming booking but then he retired. I must connect with him expeditiously when I'm back there in a few weeks. 

  • 4 weeks later...
  • 3 weeks later...
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Welp... at this rate, I'm starting to wonder if we're ever actually going to meet. 😂 He seems like he'd be a great time, but every time we've made plans, something happens and they fall through.

The first time, he was supposed to be coming to my area. A few days before the trip, he canceled, saying he was having car trouble. He told me he'd reschedule both the trip and our meetup once everything was sorted out. About a month later, though, he left the business altogether.

He came back this May, I reached out again, and he once more made plans to come to my area. We confirmed everything and were all set. Then, about a week before we were supposed to meet... another cancellation. This time there wasn't an explanation, just that he'd reschedule the trip—and our meetup. He mentioned early July, probably around the 6th. At the moment, his ad is frozen again.

I don't think he's intentionally giving me the runaround, but I honestly don't know what's going on. I'm sure he's in demand, but damn. 🤣 Normally, after two canceled meetups, I'd chalk it up to bad timing, let it go, and focus on seeing regulars instead.

The only reason I'm willing to give it one more shot is because his communication has consistently been excellent, and we have a genuinely fun, playful rapport whenever we're talking about meeting up. We really seem to click.

If he comes back and we try to make plans again, I'll give it one last chance. But if it falls through a third time, that'll be my cue to move on. No slight against him... however, three strikes is enough, and I'd rather spend my time with people I know follow through on their plans.

Edited by big-n-tall

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