Humiliation

[Stripped]

Anyone else enjoy being humiliated? Like being stripped and tied, forced to stay naked, or things like that?

[White Hall]

Hi yea.  Humiliation with findom

[Danny-Darko]

Plenty of escorts into that type of play, and since you have to pay them well the findom adds in! 

[pubic_assistance]

12 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

Plenty of escorts into that type of play, and since you have to pay them well the findom adds in! 

Power-play escorts are limited.

GOOD power-play escorts are unicorns.

Very limited community of skilled gentlemen. Most of the skilled players are female.

London and Berlin are the two cities with the largest selection of skilled male power-play/ BDSM  providers

 

[Danny-Darko]

8 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Power-play escorts are limited.

GOOD power-play escorts are unicorns.

Very limited community of skilled gentlemen. Most of the skilled players are female.

London and Berlin are the two cities with the largest selection of skilled male power-play/ BDSM  providers

 

I don't disagree, but somebody looking for "findom and humiliation" is probably looking for abuse. So a gentleman wouldn't be considered. I've yet to see a findom that does so "gentlemanly".  Many escorts do "roleplay". It's just a thing of finding one he clicks with. And yes, I'd agree there are more skilled women players. I even saw it in San Francisco decades ago where they mixed and mingles among the Gay BDSM, Leather "community".  Even played with many gay/bi men which was an eyeopener for me when I arrived a younger less experienced man. 

[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, Danny-Darko said:

somebody looking for "findom and humiliation" is probably looking for abuse.

Yes, and no.

A skilled fin-DOM creates an environment of desire and satisfaction is offered but at increasing price for a taste. A gentleman knows how to keep a man on edge for weeks until he is cashed out.

Most young finDOMs don't foster a relationship and simply smack you around and empty your wallet once or twice. There's no art in that.

[Danny-Darko]

2 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Yes, and no.

A skilled fin-DOM creates an environment of desire and satisfaction is offered but at increasing price for a taste. A gentleman knows how to keep a man on edge for weeks until he is cashed out.

Most young finDOMs don't foster a relationship and simply smack you around and empty your wallet once or twice. There's no art in that.

I agree with you 100%. But that seems to be exactly what he is looking for. All the young Findoms I've seen do is verbally abuse gay men, show them their feet, flip them the bird and demand money from them. The "shocking" (for lack of a better word?) thing is the amount of men that are into precisely that! Not to be judgmental on some people's fetishes. But who knew?! I think the skilled BDSM Master to Findom is like comparing apples and oranges. And there's a market for everything it seems. I think the poster can find somebody "safe" to satisfy his needs on RM. 

[MikePDNA51]

Have been reading heavily about findom and dominatrix. Understand why it is harder for men to perform.  Often women will claim the guy is "dumb" who is paying for everything.  For example, a women in Miami gets a guy to pay for her vacation to Greece, apartment, and $10,000 meal with friends.  On a moral level I, a man,  would not do this unless it was agreed upon by the client.  Women are not boring, look at the real housewives franchise.  

Guys who want financial dominated need to make this clear!  My boundaries 1) How long does this need to continue.  2) What kind of space are we having 3) how abusive 4) what kind of financial abuse 5) Do you have a spending limit

 

 

[pubic_assistance]

18 hours ago, MikePDNA51 said:

Guys who want financial dominated need to make this clear!  My boundaries 1) How long does this need to continue.  2) What kind of space are we having 3) how abusive 4) what kind of financial abuse 5) Do you have a spending limit

In all BDSM work, boundaries should always be set up before the play time ensues.

But there are always those people who have such an emotional.attachment to abuse that they will go forward with no agreement. Sort of like skydiving without checking to see if you have a parachute