RMasseur Messages : Photos

[LosAngelesBro45]

Good afternoon.

Ever since I made myself visible (masseurs can see who clicks there profiles), masseurs are sending me messages if I want to schedule a massage.  
 

Before, I would just text them directly (check the forum for details if any), schedule, have the massage and go my merry way.  If the massage/experience was good or bad or in-between, I owe it to experience.  
 

Question: Do you sometimes ask for a picture (either face or their appendage) to confirm that it’s the same person?  I haven’t gone the route of RMen so that might be more appropriate there   

It’s odd that when this one therapeutic/sensual (no erotic) masseur, with the tame private pics, would easily send an appendage and orifice pic (pardon the wordings hahaha). Then when I asked, your profile has that you are on prep, does it go that far.  Then he was offended that he does not sell sex and can only go sensual, mutual touch, etc — but the pictures he sent were sending a different message. He asked for a picture earlier before he sent the aforementioned appendage and orifice photos. Weird was my first reaction.  
 

So, in general, have you guys asked for a literal d/ck pic (I suddenly thought I was on grindr haha). 
 

end diatribe.  

[soloyo215]

I actually stay away or stop the moment I start receiving mixed messages. I believe that part of what I am paying for is clarity (within reason) about what I can expect. For that kind of games there are the other apps.

Also, since there's no standard for what "erotic" and "sensual" entail, clarity of expectations become more important. I don't think that sending pictures of "appendage and orifice" is a good marketing strategy for providers (just my thoughts).

[LosAngelesBro45]

The above replies are much appreciated.  This might also delve into the topic of YMMV… 

It was just odd, the scenario I mentioned above.  A friend, a younger friend, got the same “hi, did you want to get a massage” message from the same masseur, reciprocal pics where asked and exchanged and every requested pic were given.  Anyways, ymmv.  And this masseurs RMasseur’s reviews are nearing 100.  It’s that rare case of an actual RMasseur that sometime does RMen action (he does not have a Rmen account).
 

There’s plenty other masseurs out there lol