Tips for new client

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16 hours ago, Anthony said:

there's also a safety issue I'm worried about.

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On 6/22/2023 at 10:09 PM, BiDude420 said:

3) I find a variety of men attractive. I don't care about looks. Guys from any race or ethnicity. I tend to like guys who are skinny, toned or muscular. Just want someone with a great cock (7" or more I guess?) and a nice ass.

For someone claiming to be not into physical looks, you are pretty much expecting everything to be perfect. You are gonna have a tough time finding all that in one guy who is also willing travel to a remote suburb.

Typically suburbs around big cities are starved of providers who tend to congregate toward the gay center of the main city. For example if you have 100% chance of meeting a guy in West Hollywood, then it goes down to about 30% just 25 miles away in the Orange County even if you are willing to shell out more $$ for travel. 

 

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On 6/29/2023 at 6:52 PM, Coolwave35 said:

I’d be happy to bring you to the Adonis nude party next month in nyc. Since we live 15 minutes from each other, I’ll drive you and then give you the low down on who would fit your bill. Surely there is someone you’ll like and I’ll tell you if they’re a hustler or legit. 

awhhhh im jealous can you take me to Adonis for my first time also? 🥰 ill be in brooklyn from next month on and i just got the email with the lineup for tonight and holy fuck they are ALL so hot. if any of them are escorts id probably be trying to take at least 3 of them back home with me 😜 (any word on Valentino, Derick, Aneudy, or Ezequiel?)

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On 6/21/2023 at 3:23 PM, KennF said:

You have already gotten a bunch of good advice.  Sounds like you're in mid-Suffolk, so that could be the biggest obstacle.  We both know that people in NYC'ers are not likely to have cars.  They see someone from Suffolk County and don't bother. 

To overcome this, you may want to consider changing your approach and in your original contact let them know you'd like to bring them out to Long Island for a visit/day/trip/weekend.  Or, let them know you're willing to meet them in NYC.  Or, let them know you're arranging for car service.  

As for finding the right one or filtering... I leave as many filters off as possible.  Many guys skip over certain settings.  If you filter in Body Type: Jock, and a nice jock-type doesn't check the "Jock" box, then you'll miss them.  Look for guys that have had longer term active profiles by looking at the Member Since or Joined On dates.  Also, the number of profile visits will give you an idea on how long they've been around.  New profiles tend to be chancy and if you want a serious professional, you want someone who knows the industry.

But as for the which app... RM is probably the best place.  Just don't limit the area or distance.  At least half of the guys are traveling around the country.  In the hetero market, there are lots of choices next door, no matter where you live.  In our market, the guys are willing to travel more, but they need to see you as serious and direct.

 

Just my tuppence.

I second the leaving out filters ! idk how some of these guys decide if they're "muscular", "athletic" or "toned" and even the position filter doesn't help much as a lot are "ask me"

but yes, rentmen is the way to go! Unless you're outside the US, then also use hunqz or other local sites.

where can you get female escorts online? I've been thinking of doing an MMF thing

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On 6/22/2023 at 8:17 AM, ThroatCummer said:

@BiDude420 if you can provide us with a couple of links to guys who are your "type" and you are willing to do what @KensingtonHomo mentioned above about making it a date night, I have someone to refer that will completely blow you out of the water. 100% reliable, awesome, and everything you're looking for.  He will be in New York City a lot next month, but that isn't his home base. 

I’d be interested too, if you know a great BFE guy visiting NYC.