Favorite providers?

[shadowcatzxxx]

Having just finished an extraordinary session with an outstanding masseur-turned-escort couple, a thought occurred to me.

Have any other members (not necessarily as old as I am) discovered one or two providers who are SO special that you chose to hire no one else?

After heaven only knows how many years of hiring - including many perfectly enjoyable experiences, thanks largely to this board - I have FINALLY stumbled onto what, for me, is a couple of providers who fit my needs/desires so perfectly, that it makes no sense (right now) for me to even think of hiring anyone else. (Not that I won't keep window-shopping, mind you.)

One of these is the Brazilian guy I mentioned in another thread. He and I have what for me is unprecedented levels and intensities of connection. I have been throwing around the word "love." I mean, as others have pointed out, he is VERY good at his job ... IMHO, to the level of an Oscar-winning performance. Thanks to the wise words of other forum members, I am continuing to use my discretionary income to provide for the needs of my little head here ... without allowing that little head to overrule the big head when it comes to emotions and commitments..

The other is a couple, one Brazilian (see a pattern here?) one European-American. These two guys are truly extraordinary, individually, and as a matched pair. Several times during a 2 hour + session, they somehow managed to give me the feeling that I was genuinely a member of a throuple! Really, really amazing. and their sexual skills, combined with the fact that both have some massage training, make time spent with them truly transcendent. And they are both really, really nice young men.

I feel phenomenally lucky to have found these guys. In both situations, the services I receive are at premium prices, which allows them to stick largely with a relatively small number of regulars. Both providers are also smart; each is in the process of working and studying for advanced degrees. It seems to me that keeping the circle on the small side, though certainly not risk-free, reduces epidemiological exposure, when compared to working ones way down the list on RM.

My only problem now is deciding on my pleasure budget.

Anyone else have experience with this kind of situation?

[+ Pensant]

I think many of us prefer a small cadre of regulars for the reasons you’ve mentioned. So far this year I’ve only been seeing one regular and our relationship has grown into a combination of off-the-clock adventures and occasional on-the-clock ones. That said, I’m checking out two new providers this week who I’ve had my eyes on. A little variety and additional regular options are good to have. 

[big-n-tall]

In a word... no.

Do I like having regulars? Absolutely! However, those regulars (no matter how outstanding they are) I only see when and if they come into my area. If I stuck to just 1 or 2, I'd only seem them probably once or no times a year. There are 2 providers I see who come to my area multiple times and I'll see them when I can but I can't always with my work schedule and business/personal travel. So I try to keep regulars to a small number but it's probably always going to be more than just 1 or 2.

Similarly to what Pensant stated, one of the regulars I see multiple times a year we've gotten extremely close. We do on the clock and off the clock adventures (sexual and non-sexual), when we can.

Even with all that, I still on occasion try out new people.

Edited May 21, 2023 by big-n-tall