Introduction to the biz of the biz......

[NashC81]

So I found an out-of-town young hottie on Craigslist and I am having him down for a weekend. He seems to be a nice guy, but still pretty much an amature who advertises only on CL. I am not sure how up he is on how things work, I low-balled (not to bad) a figure to start the negotiation and (to my suprise) he took it. (Which isn't horrible for me, I am not wealthy).

 

Anyway, I do care for everybody in my life no matter what the role, and I am afriad that if he isn't careful he might be taken advantage of. Would it be out-of-line for me to introduce him to the various site, hook, general rates?. He also uses his regular email and phone, should I encourage him against that? Is it my place?

 

We are both young (he is 18 I am 25), would it be wierd for me to 'father' him on this?

[NashC81]

So I found an out-of-town young hottie on Craigslist and I am having him down for a weekend. He seems to be a nice guy, but still pretty much an amature who advertises only on CL. I am not sure how up he is on how things work, I low-balled (not to bad) a figure to start the negotiation and (to my suprise) he took it. (Which isn't horrible for me, I am not wealthy).

 

Anyway, I do care for everybody in my life no matter what the role, and I am afriad that if he isn't careful he might be taken advantage of. Would it be out-of-line for me to introduce him to the various site, hook, general rates?. He also uses his regular email and phone, should I encourage him against that? Is it my place?

 

We are both young (he is 18 I am 25), would it be wierd for me to 'father' him on this?

[+ deej]

>would it be wierd for me to 'father' him on this?

 

Ask him. :-)

 

Some guys are right where they want to be and will be offended if you try to tell them how to do what they're doing. Others will appreciate the advice. The only way to know is to ask him.

[Guest Jesse Dane]

I'd offer a little tip or two and see how he takes it. If he is receptive to your advice then go ahead and give him more.

 

So many young guys just have no idea what they are doing when they first get started (myself included for my first couple months). A little help can go a long ways.

 

One of my long term goals is to eventually start some sort of day long seminar that new escorts could go through to learn to do their jobs as safe and efficiently as possible. I look back at certain things early on in my career and really want to help other guys not make the same mistakes.

[SAdler]

I think we need to discuss this seminar together while we're in New York together When do you get here and why haven't you called to make arrangements yet dear?

 

::muah::

[Guest Merlin]

When you low ball an escort there is a good chance that he will change his mind and no show, even if he agreed.

[Rod Hagen]

>I'd offer a little tip or two and see how he takes it. If he

>is receptive to your advice then go ahead and give him more.

 

I love that paragraph.

 

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[Guest PWIT]

>>I'd offer a little tip or two and see how he takes it. If

>he

>>is receptive to your advice then go ahead and give him more.

>

>I love that paragraph.

 

Me too!

 

....little tip

....see how he takes it

....receptive

....give him more

 

Took a lot of control not to spin off some quick witted comebacks. I'm really disappointed in Rick Munroe, think he is loosing his smart ass status! :7

[Juan Vancouver]

The loving truth goes a long way...

 

Hey man,

 

First of all welcome to the site. I know that it sometimes take a little braveness to post for the first time. And specially considering that this is an interesting, almost touchy subject.

 

You have been given nice advise already, but I would like to disagree a little and be the devil's advocate.

 

My personal feeling is that if you invite him for two weekends or more appointments paying him a low rate, and then out of concern you told him:

 

"I just don't want you to be taken advantage of and be paid too little." And then he realizes that he has just been paid too little -twice-, then he might not take your comments at heart.

 

The way I would deal with this -and have dealt with this when dealing with young, inexperienced escorts, is this way: After the session, when it comes to paying him, pay him a little more than agreed, (And if you want not as much as the going rate), and let him know that -in this case- you were low-balling him to start a negotiation, and then let him know that there are sites in which he can get a clear idea of what he might be able to charge.

 

This way he might be more than glad to come back to you. He will be doubly happy for having received two unexpected gifts: the extra cash and the knowledge. And if he isn't that serious, or if he is one of those kids who believe that he can make more money by charging extremely low fees, then he will just go his own way without thinking twice about it.

 

And you won't have to be worried, or guilty or think that you "could have helped him..." Because you already did.

 

I hope that your experience with him is fulfilling, fun and pleasurable. It is a risky proposition to have a weekend with an amateur, but I can certainly imagine the appeal of hopefully finding an unkown gem.

 

Receive a tight hug and my best wishes.

[NashC81]

Cool guys. Thanks for the advice!

[Guest Jesse Dane]

>I think we need to discuss this seminar together while we're

>in New York together When do you get here and why haven't

>you called to make arrangements yet dear?

>

>::muah::

 

Check your email. ;-)

[Rick Munroe]

>I'm really disappointed in Rick Munroe, think he

>is loosing his smart ass status! :7

 

No, the smart ass is still nice and tight...definitely not "loosing." I was just at the beach all week and haven't been online much. I've got to get some use out of these new bikinis for the sake of the trademark tanline. ;-)

[Guest PWIT]

>"loosing."

 

hmmm...was that a misstype or freudian slip on my part?

:7