BigHandsHK

[kyleham]

https://rentmasseur.com/BigHandsHK

I searched the forum and found nothing. Anyone have any recent experience with Carmine? He fits all the boxes! Big hands, tall at 6'4 and handsome!

[+ EVdude]

Must have moved. He was previously BigHarlemHands. But still no reported experience. Perhaps another name? 

[Voracious]

Looks promising.   Looks like he only works Sun-Tues, but I will take the plunge and report back. 

[ontheroad]

Has anyone tried him?

[ultraswim1]

Bump

[Voracious]

He wanted deposit upfront, and I prefer not to use cash apps.  So no-go.

[MichaelM]

BUMP

[+ EVdude]

His IG account says:

Available Saturdays - Tuesdays
World Wide Plaza Hells Kitchen
9th Ave & 50th st

Carmine Soprano (@carmine__soprano) • Instagram photo

WWW.INSTAGRAM.COM

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carmine__soprano on March 26, 2025: "Experience pure bliss with the best hands in NYC. 14 years perfecting my...

 

[Jack Vernon]

This guy stood me up today - first time I've ever been ghosted by a provider.  Earlier in the week I set an appointment for 2PM today.  He gave me his address, but no apartment number and just said to ask the Doorman for Carmine.  Seemed like a slight red flag but I know the building and figured a doorman is a good sign. Texted him earlier today to confirm with no response - another red flag but I head to his building as agreed upon.  When I asked the doorman for Carmine she sent me straight up to his apartment after confirming my appointment time.  That made me feel slightly better for a couple of minutes until I get to his door and see five Whole Foods delivery bags sitting there unclaimed.  I rang the bell anyway - no response, no noise from inside.    I texted him a pic of his door with the bags to let him know he ghosted me but no response yet.  I've never left bad review on RM - he has 25 five-star reviews - but I feel like I should.

[NipLuvr212]

24 minutes ago, Jack Vernon said:

 I've never left bad review on RM - he has 25 five-star reviews - but I feel like I should.

That is inexcusable, and YES - you should!!

[Jack Vernon]

1 hour ago, Jack Vernon said:

This guy stood me up today - first time I've ever been ghosted by a provider.  Earlier in the week I set an appointment for 2PM today.  He gave me his address, but no apartment number and just said to ask the Doorman for Carmine.  Seemed like a slight red flag but I know the building and figured a doorman is a good sign. Texted him earlier today to confirm with no response - another red flag but I head to his building as agreed upon.  When I asked the doorman for Carmine she sent me straight up to his apartment after confirming my appointment time.  That made me feel slightly better for a couple of minutes until I get to his door and see five Whole Foods delivery bags sitting there unclaimed.  I rang the bell anyway - no response, no noise from inside.    I texted him a pic of his door with the bags to let him know he ghosted me but no response yet.  I've never left bad review on RM - he has 25 five-star reviews - but I feel like I should.

Update - I get a response from him over two hours later:  

Hey  I’m SO sorry.  I was up editing for a project deadline until 8am - I slept thru 2 alarms.  Really really sorry. I’d like to make it up to you and offer you a make up session for $99 instead of the 200.  Please let me know when I can have you back

❤️❤️❤️

Please don’t hate me, I’m a nice guy ❤️

I told him no thanks. 

 

[CuriousByNature]

6 hours ago, Jack Vernon said:

Update - I get a response from him over two hours later:  

Hey  I’m SO sorry.  I was up editing for a project deadline until 8am - I slept thru 2 alarms.  Really really sorry. I’d like to make it up to you and offer you a make up session for $99 instead of the 200.  Please let me know when I can have you back

❤️❤️❤️

Please don’t hate me, I’m a nice guy ❤️

I told him no thanks. 

 

No second chance because you believe his explanation/apology wasn't genuine?  Or is there another reason not to try again?

[Voracious]

14 hours ago, Jack Vernon said:

Update - I get a response from him over two hours later:  

Hey  I’m SO sorry.  I was up editing for a project deadline until 8am - I slept thru 2 alarms.  Really really sorry. I’d like to make it up to you and offer you a make up session for $99 instead of the 200.  Please let me know when I can have you back

❤️❤️❤️

Please don’t hate me, I’m a nice guy ❤️

I told him no thanks. 

 

Bummer.  Just curious: had he asked you for a deposit?  Or perhaps he has moved away from that construct.

Edited August 16 by Voracious

[Jack Vernon]

8 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

No second chance because you believe his explanation/apology wasn't genuine?  Or is there another reason not to try again?

The validity of his excuse isn't important to me, I simply don't have any interest in running the risk of him wasting my time again.  There are plenty of other providers out there.  

[Jack Vernon]

14 minutes ago, Voracious said:

Bummer.  Just curious: had he asked you for a deposit?  Or perhaps he has moved away from that construct.

There was no discussion of a deposit.  

[MichaelM]

Well.  It sounds like he was sincere    Does anyone have any actual massage experience with him  ?

Curious what his private pics look like