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[Hungbig9]

9 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Eh.  Wishing bad for people is just as shitty.  He'll either learn or he won't.  

Just walk away from it.  No use in being angry.

Be the bigger person.

It isn’t being a shitty person. When there are 100 recounts of the same story, it isn’t speculation anymore. It’s just how he behaves. People like that need life lessons to change behavior. And in the gay community it’s especially true/pervasive since we like to give pretty people an exceptionally unbalanced lens of which to operate. It isn’t reality, and you are essentially advocating to allow bad behavior. You might have a slight bias in that regard.

Edited January 17 by Hungbig9

[builder boy]

4 minutes ago, Hungbig9 said:

It isn’t being a shitty person. When there are 100 recounts of the same story, it isn’t speculation anymore. It’s just how he behaves. People like that need life lessons to change behavior. And in the gay community it’s especially true/pervasive since we like to give pretty people an exceptionally unbalanced lens of which to operate. It isn’t reality, and you are essentially advocating to allow bad behavior. You might have a slight bias in that regard.

Totally agree.  It’s enabling bad behavior.   He was so rude and dismissive with me that I wouldn’t walk across the street to meet him now.   Better choices.  

[CuriousByNature]

24 minutes ago, Hungbig9 said:

It isn’t being a shitty person. When there are 100 recounts of the same story, it isn’t speculation anymore. It’s just how he behaves. People like that need life lessons to change behavior. And in the gay community it’s especially true/pervasive since we like to give pretty people an exceptionally unbalanced lens of which to operate. It isn’t reality, and you are essentially advocating to allow bad behavior. You might have a slight bias in that regard.

It may be natural to wish bad on those who do us wrong, but all that really does is lower ourselves to their level, or below.  If his behaviour is as bad as has been stated, he's already multiplying the negative effects for himself all on his own.  

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On 12/31/2024 at 10:20 AM, pubic_assistance said:

There are lots of people who use Grindr as an additional platform for escorting. I've had more than one handsome fellow hit me up on Grindr.

The routine is always the same. Calling me "daddy" and telling me how hot I am...then when you suggest a meet, the price list gets posted.

Or its corollary "I'm looking for gen."

[Hungbig9]

10 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

It may be natural to wish bad on those who do us wrong, but all that really does is lower ourselves to their level, or below.  If his behaviour is as bad as has been stated, he's already multiplying the negative effects for himself all on his own.  

I am not wishing bad on him. I’m wishing life teaches him swift hard lessons to make him a better person. The whole gay perspective of ‘be kind’ is infantile. Yes, be a good person; no, that doesn’t mean you get to do what you want without consequence.

[CuriousByNature]

5 hours ago, Hungbig9 said:

I am not wishing bad on him. I’m wishing life teaches him swift hard lessons to make him a better person. The whole gay perspective of ‘be kind’ is infantile. Yes, be a good person; no, that doesn’t mean you get to do what you want without consequence.

Kindness is not infantile.  And it's much less subjective than, 'be a good person'.  By whose standard or example should we compare ourselves to determine whether or not we are 'good'?  Mother Teresa's?  Jeffrey Dahmer's?  Anyway, this is becoming a discussion for a different thread.

And you did wish bad on him. Please see your quote from yesterday, below.

On 1/16/2025 at 6:05 PM, Hungbig9 said:

And I always hope people like him learn that lesson the extremely hard way - because it’s what they deserve.