Requests for "erotic massage" or "sensual massage"

[Guest BigSquirt]

I know this has been discussed here in some form in years past, but I’d like to know specifically how escorts respond to requests from potential clients for an “erotic massage” or “sensual massage” –particularly when an escort doesn’t state in his ads that he’s a masseur or caters to those looking for a massage. Do established escorts frequently get requests like this? Do you accept appointments like this at a reduced rate? If so, do you spell out in advance what will/won’t take place?

 

I’ve always assumed that an escort’s hourly rate is for his time…including playtime, of course. Is it common practice to ask for or accept an “a la carte” request for “erotic massage,” with the implicit assumption that it’s less than an escort’s standard rate? Seems to me that asking an escort for an “erotic massage” or “sensual massage” is nothing more than a client angling to get an escort to reduce his fee. Am I off base?

[Guest BigSquirt]

Anton, thanks for your thoughtful answer. I’ve hired massage therapists, never intending or expecting any “bonus”—and got precisely what I was looking for, a stress release with no “erotic” encounter. Of course, I’ve hired escorts, too, never asking for or expecting a massage. I hire escorts for other activities. ;-)

 

Personally, I’d never ask someone who advertises as an escort for an “erotic massage”— it just seems to me like code words for “I really want to get it on with you—I just don’t want to pay your advertised rate.”

 

I was just curious about how escorts approach those kinds of requests. If I want a massage, I hire someone who advertises as such, expecting their fee to be less than an escort. If I want some “erotic” time, I hire an escort.

[Funseeker 22]

LA Escort/Masseur Rod Hagen does both and charges accordingly.

Appetizer/Appetizer plus Entree or A la Carte.

He is also certified or maybe just certifiable. :9

[Guest Jesse Dane]

I often get requests for "erotic massages" or the likes. When this happens I tell the client that I am not professionally trained in massage, but I do give a good rubdown.

 

However my rates are my rates. They don't change because i'm giving a massage. And to be perfectly honest, I find giving a massage to be more physically exhausting than many other appointments.

[Steven_Draker]

I love giving and getting a massage. Often clients ask me to start with a massage or the sensual massage is part of the session. However, I do not reduce my rate for that reason. I am all about full service. :9

 

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[Bilbo]

I don't charge any less for my erotic bodywork than I do for my leather games. Like Jessie said, it is just as much work, if not more so, and to do it properly required more training. (Can't resist a plug here - if you want a bodyworker who has been very well trained in the erotic side of things, I suggest that you look for someone who has taken classes from Body Electric. It's not the only thing that they train us to do, but if you've had their training you probably know twice as many moves than if you haven't. http://www.BodyElectic.org )

[Juan Vancouver]

hey Bigsquirt...

 

(Love the name, by the way... sweet memories) :9

 

I often receive requests for "massage only, and see how things go from then on". Specially from "straight" men, or women, or people who dont have a lot of practice either with men or with escorts. Of course I give the massage in my skimpy underwear, using both my hands (and other body parts) and in the end, most of the times we have ended having a full-on delicious experience.

 

Since I do have profesional trainning in massage, I also see many of my regular clients when they just want a serious massage. (Just given by me naked... and with the promise of something else in the end.) I also have been hired for a two hour massage... just massage.

 

Since my rates are for my time spent with you, to me it is exactly the same whether you want to go to the Opera, go to have dinner, do the Rumba, get a massage or be tied up to a bed while I shower your body with rose petals. So I do not reduce my rate if I am doing something that might be perceived as "easy" just because it is not sexual.

 

But I have heard a few gentlemen totally angry on the phone when they find out that massage is the same price than full service. What I say is that if you just want a massage, you wold be better off going to a good spa. I do not have a massage table. And my cock rubbing you all over your soft parts might prove too distracting....

 

I guess that it all depends on what you are looking for.

 

I hope that answers your question.

[+ Tygerscent]

Interesting topic you bring to light. I have had guys want to hire me for various reasons. I provide companionship, camaradary, Intimacy on all levels but do not charge a specific fee for one thing over another. I can provide for them all but it is my time that the client is hiring me for and not any particular activity. Some Escorts go by the acfeteria plan... they have a show up fee and then charge according to what the client might like for them to do. GGGGGRrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.... I don't condone that at all! It takes advantage of the Client. I provide a fee schedule and then give discounts from there according to travel, holiday specials etc... (generally things that are at the Client's expense where we don't really participate in time together... they should not have to pay for that).

I have to keep some kind of rate for my time though as this is how I earn my living... (pay my bills, insurance, dental, optical, rent, food, car, gas...)

There have been guys who have tried to appoach me asking for discounts or special rates for the sake of getting a better deal. I discount for specific things... but a client who wants all the hot luvin' and attention he can package into 45 minutes and then pay a fraction of what other clients are paying full price for really rips off the other clients and is inconsiderate of the Escort's time as well.