Shall we shower?

[orlandoguy]

What do escorts think about showering with their clients after sex? I always enjoy showering with the escorts I hire, as it's a way of continuing the body contact and connectivity we've just experienced -- plus, it cleans us both up. I love washing him off, and holding his wet body close for just a minutes more. Most escorts I've been with seem to enjoy it, but every now and then I've had one or two who gave the impression they didn't want to -- "I don't want to get my hair wet" or something lame like that...or, they were just like a staute in the shower. To me it's a great way to end a wonderful session, but I want the escort to enjoy it as much as I do. What are others thoughts on this?

 

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[Guest ript4hire]

The post-coital shower has always been one of my favorites ... a nice way to continue the moment and the intimacy.

 

I've been with many clients who kinda of freak out about it though.

They stammer that I can go on ahead without them ... that they are

going to shower later. I suspect it has something to do with body

image, and going from the artfully lit bedroom to the unforgivingly

lit bathroom ... but I may be wrong.

 

And a word to the wise - Gun Oil lube (my fave) is VERY dangerous in

shower situations. Make sure you are wiped off before you get near

that porcelain tub! :o

 

Eric

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Orlando Guy!

 

I love after-fun showers as much as Eric does. It is just the perfect culmination for a session and a good oportunity to explore the body in ways that you haven't yet.

However, it is a matter of taste, I guess.

 

You say in your post that you want the escort to enjoy it as much as you do... Then, if he declines, (Or doesn't look really enthisuastic about it)take the hint, and get a nice shower by yourself. Remember that men are suposedly less comfortable with touching after climaxing.

 

Also, it is possible that he doesn't have hair product with him, he doesn't have face moisturizer, and all... We are not suposed to break the image of "I am a 100% man, naturally hot... don't need no lotions and shit", but we do work with our body and exploit our image. So, if he tells you that he doesn't want to get his hair wet... I think it might be polite not to force him to do so. (Is he going home all deliciously coated in sex juice, though?) :9

 

To each, his own...

 

Happy showers!

[SAdler]

>I suspect it has something to do with

>body

>image, and going from the artfully lit bedroom to the

>unforgivingly

>lit bathroom ... but I may be wrong.

 

Three Words: Overhead Halogen Lights

 

What do hotels think they're doing

 

But yeah. I agree with Eric about continuing the moment ... it's a great transition. It usually marks the end of a session and that way it's not like "ok , well I'm leaving now, bye."

[Bilbo]

I certainly would love it if I could offer to shower with my bodywork clients afterwards. However, what is wrong with architects lately? I realize that we didn't buy the most expensive new home, but I have seen this problem in other people's homes - there simply is not room enough for two people in either of our showers!! How I envy guys who have those absolutely gorgeous shower stalls with benches in them and that will fit three or four people comfortably!! Ah, well, if you really want to get jealous about bathrooms, read Stranger in a Strage Land.

[Guest firem66803]

i've always thought that taking a shower with another guy can be even more erotic and sensual than what we finished in the bedroom. one of my most memorable experiences was last summer taking a shower with derek ross. we took a twenty minute shower together and not a single word was spoken. my dick had never been harder!

[BradBoyd]

Well, for me, a shower is necessary after playing around...usually I'm covered in some kind of fluid (at the very least sweat!). Anything is more fun with another guy, especially when nudity is required for the activity.

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[orlandoguy]

>Ah, well,

>if you really want to get jealous about bathrooms, read

>Stranger in a Strage Land.

 

hmmm, it's been years since I read Stranger in a Strange Land....I don't recall the bathrooms though--can you refresh my memory? :-)

[JT Brooklyn]

"Nick German".. was probably the Hottest Guy I ever took a Shower with. I think it went for 20 mins and this was after we Played! All those Muscles Smooth and Wet a definite "Woodie Bringer Upper"! LOL :+

[Bilbo]

Lazarus Long has this absolutely huge bathroom - Have I got the wrong book, maybe? You know me and names. - It's got like fainting couches for him and his friends (In his case, mainly women.) to sit on and gossip. It sounds larger than most anyone's livingroom anymore and most of a chapter is a discussion in it, and after a while you even forget where they are.

[Guest Merlin]

Showering together at the beginning of the encounter can be even more fun, since you get more turned on by feeling his body etc. In insures that you are both clean. Afterward, it is still enjoyable. But the shower afterward is in part for the purpose of reducing the chance of transmission of disease. Some escorts seem to prefer to shower alone afterward.

[jawjateck]

Hmmmmm....I'm just sitting here thinking.....what's it gonna take to get a corn-fed Iowa boy to come tour the deep south? :9

[escortaaron_m]

Yeah, it's think it's great...i am totally on the same page as you...it's a great way to wind donw..it offer another situation/ reason/ excuse for the client and the escort to feel each other up.

 

it can be terribly romantic. so yeah, i like it.

[poiuyt]

How about saunas? I used to use an old Finnish steam room/sauna in Berkeley (actually Albany), you had half an hour to yourself in the sauna room and then half an hour in a small room to cool off. You'd get natually lubed up in minutes. I always thought it had possibilities, but I don't recall ever seeing mentioned in a review.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Once Again

 

... it depends.

 

I personally enjoy showers, before as Merlin points out, to make sure we are both clean (something discussed on this site on many posts about hygiene and other matters) as well as post-coital.

 

In the cases you mention, some of the escorts may not want to shower precisely to not "ruin" their hair simply because they have other plans later that night which may involve another client or may simply involve something social. If they are in your hotel room, they would not have everything they may want post shower. On the other hand, I personally cannot fathom having sex, much less going out, without a shower first, but then I was never one of those escorts who booked back to back appointments like so many stacked airplanes circling overhead waiting to land.

 

In other cases, some escorts may want to decompress, they may want some time to themselves, which they might get in a solo shower. They may also feel you are trying to stretch out a session. As many escorts have stated on this site, however, many of them are willing to do what it takes to make the client comfortable at the start, as well as ensure repeat business afterwards, whether it involves spending some time talking to the client or spending some post coital time. It also comes across more graciously than the simply, "OK, we're done here, where's my cash, NEXT!"

 

My suggestion: when you book a session, explain to the escort that as part of the session, you enjoy showering afterwards. As with most things in life, or with an escort, a simple bit of communicating will resolve so many potential problems.

 

Best of luck!

[Steven_Draker]

RE: Once Again

 

I never walk out without taking a shower after a hot session ... and I don't wet my hair. I think that "I don't want to get my hair wet" thing is just an "excuse".

 

Steven Draker ~

http://www.hotsexystud.com/uk

[orlandoguy]

RE: Once Again

 

>I think that "I don't want to get

>my hair wet" thing is just an "excuse".

>

>Steven Draker ~

>http://www.hotsexystud.com/uk

 

Absolutely Steven. That was my thought, too. -- In the one case where an escort said he didn't want to get his hair wet, he had almost a buzz-cut. Now really.....

 

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(soon to be in Amsterdam, Anton :-) )

[JT Brooklyn]

RE: Once Again

 

I have seen and taken "Mucho Showers" with Guys. IF you don't want to get your Hair Wet, it ain't gonna happen! Unless you happen to "Drop the Soap". The One Guy that did say that to me, got a real long, "OH Really" look. So he just told me, his Late Evening Client likes it that way! We both laughed! So "Not Showering" definitely has a reason!

[BobbyThompson]

RE: Once Again

 

Indeed, hotel bathrooms are typically lit like a Denny's, not to mention the tiny basins.

 

I prefer to take a shower once I get home. The fantasy of the sexual shower is quickly superseded by the functional shower, which is getting our nasty selves clean. The reality of the shower...dropping the soap, one person standing out of the way of the water freezing his ass off, using that tiny little bar of soap...yeah, I'd rather wait until I got home.

 

What works nicely is one person getting in first, followed by the other after a few minutes, then the first person leaves allowing the second some private time. Functionality, meet intimacy.

[SAdler]

RE: Once Again

 

>I never walk out without taking a shower after a hot session

>... and I don't wet my hair. I think that "I don't want to get

>my hair wet" thing is just an "excuse".

 

Unless you have Jewish frizz -- even the slightest hint of moisture will fro that thing out whether you get it wet or not

[noviceny]

Showering with a guy is not really my thing...maybe with someone that I have a relationship with but not someone I would just meet for the first time.

[flguy]

Hey O.G. You will absolutely enjoy Amsterdam and I am positve that Anton will show you a great time. Plus for me this time of year the change to cooler weather is fantastic. If you are back in November come visit SW Florida for the HooVille meeting, Anton will be there plus some other working guys. See Ya and Enjoy

[Bob]

As a client I prefer to allow the scent of the experience to linger, especially if the escort has done his job well and slathered my body with a copious amount of his cum. It is pleasant to awaken in the morning with the aroma of our lust. It can also be fun to go out for a late-night snack and observe the reaction of a cute young waiter with a sensitive nose as he hovers over me taking my order.

[JT Brooklyn]

RE: Once Again

 

In my case Hotels are not my thing. So I can understand the "In and Out" Shower Attitude of some Guys. Especially the "Prissy-Pretty Ones". LOL

BUT when you have the Luxury of a Pvt House or Apt the situation definitely changes. Yes the Soap dropping, is not "Always" a Traumatic & COLD Experience for those Involved. If their Hot enuff to begin with! LOL :+

[augustman]

Bob you got me with that one. I have never thought of the scent of sex something I wanted to carry around all day unless it was something of my significant others. I would rather have that freshed fucked look rather than the smell.

 

I love the idea of shower before and after. Great way to break the ice. I usually ask during the set up if showers can be included. Funny I just had some fantastic sex with someone the past two days but his preference was separate showers. Since everything else was A+ I let that pass. The escort and I are usually very sweaty so a shower is a must, together is better than separate. I have had some of my best experiences in showers.