Caution with this Atlantic City guy

[alexslaveboy]

https://rent.men/EHTFella_HMU

So just a warning for any NJ Philly guys looking at this new guy in the link above 

 

I reached out when he first popped up on RM and we chatted via rentmen messenger.  He seemed genuinely interested in my scenario and wanting to meet up.  

So I booked a room at Harrahs AC and we were texting leading up to the meeting then he asked me about my age height weight etc the day of the meeting ( mind you that I told him to check out my RM profile for all my stats and what I wanted in a session) he never bothered to check it out so that should have been warning sign 1

Anyway I sent him a headless photo because I didn't feel comfortable sending a face picture since he hadn't shared his with me 

Warning sign 2 

So we're texting as I was checked in in AC. He said he's on the way he says he's parking he says he's arrived 

But there I am standing at the casino entrance at the parking garage 5 minutes then 10 minutes 

Texted him no response 

Called him right to voicemail 

Message him on RM nothing 

Go upstairs to the corridor leading to the parking garage see a muscular male in red gym shorts on his phone but not sure what to do as there are a few people around so I go back down the stairs wait a minute or so 

Go back up and he's gone 

Call him again straight to voicemail 

Text him again nothing 

A few minutes later he's blocked me on RM and on his phone 

Thank goodness I didn't send this loser a deposit 

If he wasn't interested in a 54 year old a little guy slightly chubby with glasses then he should have been upfront about and not waste any time and energy 

So if this clown intrigues you proceed with caution 

[Muscleaddict333]

Why didn’t you just do a quick FaceTime confirmation call? I always insist before meeting anyone new.

[Jeffster]

He’s allegedly straight. What you look like should not be an issue for him. It’s not a Grindr hook-up.

Besides, he’s only got one pic….which shows nothing.

Looks like a possible fake to me.

[Luv2play]

I always start a convo with a new provider using messaging on RM. In my first contact I state my interest and give some basic info on myself. I always say he can look up my profile on RM. I can check whether he has done that. 

If things progress satisfactorily we often switch to texting if he is good with that. I never make a hotel booking until we have a confirmed date. I always give him my first name by this point. Things have always worked out for me using this approach. 

Currently I have a date set up in a few weeks with someone I have seen several times before and he is providing the hotel room for an overnight with me. He trusts me but he is staying over for several days in that hotel so he has other business in town.

Its a nice arrangement as we have some mutual interests outside the bedroom and are spending most of the first day together and then a leisurely breakfast the next morning. We have done this before and he is extremely generous with his time. As I am in picking up the tabs. Lol.

[alexslaveboy]

11 hours ago, Muscleaddict333 said:

Why didn’t you just do a quick FaceTime confirmation call? I always insist before meeting anyone new.

Wouldn't do facetime he seems very paranoid. Perhaps warning sign 3

[alexslaveboy]

11 hours ago, Jeffster said:

He’s allegedly straight. What you look like should not be an issue for him. It’s not a Grindr hook-up.

Besides, he’s only got one pic….which shows nothing.

Looks like a possible fake to me.

He did text me 1 other headless picture.  I am not absolutely sure but could be a catfishing person or maybe a pimp skimming his messages 

[alexslaveboy]

8 hours ago, Luv2play said:

I always start a convo with a new provider using messaging on RM. In my first contact I state my interest and give some basic info on myself. I always say he can look up my profile on RM. I can check whether he has done that. 

If things progress satisfactorily we often switch to texting if he is good with that. I never make a hotel booking until we have a confirmed date. I always give him my first name by this point. Things have always worked out for me using this approach. 

Currently I have a date set up in a few weeks with someone I have seen several times before and he is providing the hotel room for an overnight with me. He trusts me but he is staying over for several days in that hotel so he has other business in town.

Its a nice arrangement as we have some mutual interests outside the bedroom and are spending most of the first day together and then a leisurely breakfast the next morning. We have done this before and he is extremely generous with his time. As I am in picking up the tabs. Lol.

I am very similar to you in how I setup my sessions as well start on RM chat then text then a phone conversation.  Most of my favorites whether active or retired I still keep in touch with 

Usually no problems or issues with 99% of who I meet

In the probably 300+ sessions that I've had in the past 5 years I've only had 2 no shows.  

This guy EHT clown and AnthonyFlex from NYC  ( I did foolishly send him money for Uber and of course he never showed up) which is why I never ever send any money upfront any longer 

[Lazarus]

Did the guy you saw in the corridor leading to the parking garage resemble the back of the guy in the pictures  & was he at least attractive? (Assuming it was him.) 

[alexslaveboy]

6 hours ago, Lazarus said:

Did the guy you saw in the corridor leading to the parking garage resemble the back of the guy in the pictures  & was he at least attractive? (Assuming it was him.) 

I was thinking that it definitely would have been him 

He had a beanie on but hair was dark had a black hoodie so upper body was unrecognizable but had definite muscular legs so led me to believe it may have been him.   Based on our conversations he's definitely very close proximity to AC so it's not like a long drive to AC 

If you or anyone ends up meeting him  do me a favor and find out why he bailed on poor LittleAlexNJ 😣

[alexslaveboy]

And again like Jeffster mentioned this wasn't a date 

I'm not looking for kissing cuddling or anything BFE 

Strictly was asking for muscle worship and wrestling domination which he was open to as a straight guy 

[coriolis888]

What a scoundrel!  

Too bad you cannot leave a negative message on his rentmen advertisement, which he richly deserves.  

His behavior is inexcusable. 

[alexslaveboy]

On 1/11/2023 at 2:55 AM, coriolis888 said:

What a scoundrel!  

Too bad you cannot leave a negative message on his rentmen advertisement, which he richly deserves.  

His behavior is inexcusable. 

Thanks!!!  Yes I did buddy list him prior to him ghosting me so I commented there since I am not a premium RM member I can't leave a review 

Just wanted to warn others about potentially being treated the same way 

I still get furious when I see his profile pop up 

[+ DrownedBoy]

You missed the first warning sign:

His RM ad has only 1 photo, he's been on RM for less than a month, and he has no reviews.

Inexperienced RM flake a lot. It's just a crapshoot with them. Some are completely and utterly clueless.

Edited January 15, 2023 by DrownedBoy

[caramelsub]

33 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

You missed the first waning sign:

His RM ad has only 1 photo, he's been on RM for less than a month, and he has no reviews.

Inexperienced RM flake a lot. It's just a crapshoot with them. Some are completely and utterly clueless.

I agree. So many red flags here. Who would hire a guy with no face pic, no nudes or shirtless pics, and most importantly no reviews?

[+ DrownedBoy]

We should really start a "ghost alert" thread for escorts who do this.

There's nothing wrong with hiring a new guy - everyone starts somewhere - but new guys who don't learn the rules need to be filtered out quickly.

Example: I just set up something with new talent. At the time he was supposed to call, there was no response, so I told him I'd have to cancel within 15 minutes, which I ended up doing. He finally got back an hour later, at which point I informed him I had already hired his replacement and he needed to be more professional.

One thing I noticed - Latinos tend to be the worst offenders when it comes to being late. I know Mexico has a far more laid-back approach to punctuality than the U.S., but when in Rome....

Edited January 15, 2023 by DrownedBoy

[coriolis888]

4 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

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One thing I noticed - Latinos tend to be the worst offenders when it comes to being late. I know Mexico has a far more laid-back approach to punctuality than the U.S., but when in Rome....

Time means nothing to many Brazilian escorts.  I visit there often and rarely is an escort on time or even within one hour of our scheduled meeting time.   

Meeting in the saunas avoids waiting for late providers.