When an Hour Isn’t an Hour

[humboldt]

Hi,

 

I was hoping that some of you might be able to provide me with a little insight about reimbursement etiquette.

 

On several occasions I have hired escorts for one hour. The problem is that, despite communicating that I would like to hire them for an hour, we’ve gone over time. One of the reasons is that I often offer escorts a drink just to loosen up a bit and chat. I let them know that I’m ready whenever they are. On two occasions, the escorts chatted for over an hour before we began, and the whole session ended up being much closer to two hours. What is an appropriate reimbursement?

 

On the one hand, there was a one-hour agreement; the money is always visible upon their arrival; and I’m letting them call the shots in terms of time – so should I then really reach into my wallet and put double the money into the envelope?

 

On the other hand, I am paying for their time – so if we end up spending two hours together instead of one, it seems fair that I would double the amount.

 

I’m really at a loss here. What I did in both instances was give them a hefty tip, but I’m not sure that was entirely appropriate or enough.

 

Any suggestions or insights?

 

THANKS!

Isaac

[MikeBiDude]

For me, this is one reason why as a client I like to arrange and discuss a "session" rate rather than a strict hourly rate. I too like to have some conversation, maybe drink, etc. for a bit before starting in. And, on that occasion when the escort is into a slower romp and having fun, the session rate has already been discussed and he/we knows what to expect. That said, I also tend to be a generous tipper (tipping the subject of many other threads) and tend to still tip on the session rate, especially if the escort has gone "above and beyond" the call of duty! :9

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO..You Hire for an Hour..60 mins= 10 mins.. Chit-Chat...40 Mins.. Actual "Fun" Activities..10 mins.. Shower Bye- Bye! That's Why If I am gonna Hang with a Guy. It definitely is 2 hours..Of course not as much as I would like at NYC Rates being what they are now! Everything runs Smooth. Lots of "FOREPLAY"..Hot Sex..Chit Chat ETC..No Stress on either side! Time is Based on 1-2-3 Whatever "HOURS"..Not well, here's $20 Bucks for 15 mins..Actually at $250 an Hour in NYC Market..You owe $62.50 LOL It just doesn't work Out, My Friend..Most Guys I Know..Don't carry a Calculator with their Lube & Party Hats! LOL

[BobbyThompson]

Hi...

 

If your escort didn't mention that your hour was up, or control the session by those time restraints, I don't think you're responsible for double the rate. If he demands that you pay him, he's full of it. It is his job to pay attention to time, not yours.

 

If he only stayed like ten minutes longer that he was supposed to, don't worry about it. Though if he stayed closer to two hours, it would be both fair and nice to give a tip, a portion of his second hour rate perhaps. Though it sounds like you've already got it covered. :-)

 

Best of luck!

Bobby

http://www.AllAboutBobby.com

[happyguy2]

I agree that communication is essential, I have always regretted it when I didn't properly and openly discuss matters with an escort. However, am I imagining this, or a long time ago, did I read in the mc the opinion that the hour started when the first body contact was made?

 

In the case of offering a drink beforehand, though, when I make the offer, it is usually after the sesion, and I always add: "Can I offer you a glass of Champagne? but its off the clock."

 

Furthermore, I usually make the offer while I am handing over the money. Very few guys have refused a quality glass or two with me, on my balcony ....

 

Anyhow, am I imagining this or did someone say that the hour begins when the physical contact does?

 

hg

[+ deej]

>Anyhow, am I imagining this or did someone say that the hour

>begins when the physical contact does?

 

Oh, I'm sure it has been said. At least once.

 

But remember, you're paying him for his time.

[JT Brooklyn]

"Champagne on the Balcony"..Very Cool.. In Brooklyn it's a Cold .."Heineken on My Stoop"! LOL :+

[Guest Jesse Dane]

>Anyhow, am I imagining this or did someone say that the hour

>begins when the physical contact does?

 

 

Deej had it right. You're paying for an escorts time. Hence the moment he arrives the clock starts ticking. Now I am never one to watch the clock to the minute and most my appointments go over by about 10 minutes or so. But saying time starts when bodycontact starts implies that you are explicitly paying for sex, which is not the case. You are paying for an escorts time.