Assholes,Cyberchat Freaks, Gameplayers , No Shows- total waste of time!

[rickyricardo]

I am pretty sure this has been discussed in another thread. But I am asking this question again. Do escorts keep track of the game players, email lonely hearts, prank callers - no shows time wasters. I actually keep a spreadsheet of all phone numbers where people that call book appts an NO-SHOW to never book again. I travel extensively and you'd be surprise these very same game players forget they called you when you come back to there city (i.e. Philly, Dallas, NYC & DC cities with most timewasters) they call you again.

 

Then you have those that get off on sending you really graphic emails, very long describing in detail what they like. These are cyber sex email freaks or email lonely hearts club, easy to recognized because they are so detailed. In my experience these people when you get to there city they never call set up appt. TOTALLY FULL OF SHIT. I like to communicate through email but I can see why a lot of escorts DONT because of the bullshit of game players. I love my YAHOO account because it gives you so many options to block out email from people.

 

Which leads me to share this story. I got this email from a guy in NYC for right now I will not mention his name, but he sends you emails when reviews post. He is really graphic in how he wants to get fucked, he then calls you an talks to you about getting together when in NYC. Well I go to NYC often when I got there, needless to say he sending me email after email never confirming a solid appt, I then blocked him out from emailing me. Here the funny part, yesterday another review posted an I was coverboy of day. He tried emailing me, It bounced back, I am at the airport get a phone call from a guy to confirm my email address saying it bounced back, I then asked him "whats your email address" he replied with his email I immediatly recognized it an told him just keep trying it should go through..LOL.. I then programed his phone number in my phone under "Bullshitter" so I would not answer his calls. Just to show the extent of the gameplayers he continued to call me 7 more time after that call never leaving a message. He also went to my men4rentnow and sent me a response from there to email him back.

 

Myself an several other escorts that travel a lot communicate an share information about gameplayers, timewasters, and no-shows. I wish there were a board somewhere to post email addresses and phone numbers, names, cities to expose these creeps. Just a thought..

 

(sorry for such a long post)

:o :o :o

Ricardo Milos

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[Guest zipperzone]

That was a really interesting post. I'm glad to see that as a business man you are so well organized and on top of the time wasters that want to get their rocks off without actually setting up a meet. Good on you!

 

Next we'll read a complaint from him about how you never return his calls and are soooooooooo hard to reach.

 

What goes around, comes around. May he wilt in hell.

[rickyricardo]

and it does not stop there. Can you believe he is now calling me through a calling card now.. You'd be surprised at what extent these LOONY TUNES will go through to harrass an escort, play games. But they just dont know that the games they play are old an tired an professional escorts can recognize them a mile coming..

 

 

Ricardo Milos

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[Vincent_Michael]

I keep a copy of every e-mail that is sent to me, not to screw anyone but to have a data base of information on who and were people are e-mailing me from.

 

I dont want to screw anyone but I do think that there should be a 411 on clients of sorts, I do think that sometimes clients get away with allot while the escort is accontable to the end. Now I know I might push some buttons on this one but I do hear some horrer stories and I think maybe there should be a resorse page for escorts.

 

I personaly dont have pic seakers as often because I dont have any nudes to send out so I am sure the word gets around...

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Let me guess here...

 

Is the weirdo in question a certain 'Mr. Green'?

 

Rick has mentioned this guy before and i've also dealt with him in email form. Very interesting, but the exact reason why i don't publically give out my contact number. It's a strange, strange world out there.

 

In any event, stay safe.

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[rickyricardo]

>Let me guess here...

>

>Is the weirdo in question a certain 'Mr. Green'?

>

>Rick has mentioned this guy before and i've also dealt with

>him in email form. Very interesting, but the exact reason why

>i don't publically give out my contact number. It's a

>strange, strange world out there.

>

>In any event, stay safe.

>

>

>Warmest Always,

>

>

>Benjamin Nicholas

 

 

 

ey Benjamin,

 

No pa, the guy from NYC name begins with a C.. and his email address begins with it too.. That sounds like a perfect plan to pull number. Thats terrible that one will have to do that due to bad apples that spoil it for serious clients. I have not publicly pulled my number yet but I have a feeling that when my website launch I will have to do that.

 

good to get a reply from you Benjamin, I sent you email long time ago but never heard back from you. maybe meet you when I come to San Antonio..

 

Ricardo Milos

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[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Hiya Ricardo~

 

I'd be glad to 'feel your heat' anytime you're in SA or if we happen to cross paths. *evil grin* Here's wishing you the best in dealing with a somewhat stalker-ish admirer.

 

Amazing what people with a little time on their hands and added spite can do, eh? It baffles me.

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[rickyricardo]

ey Benjamin,

 

I shall be in SA soon. Well like my client said today which he had a good point after reading my post.. that here just as many flaky escorts as they are clients. From what some client have told me of horror stories w/ Escorts. I guess its on both sides. However Escorts can't ever harrass a client, really??? Well professional escorts will not do it at all. oh i sent you email Benjamin ....

 

Ricardo Milos

[Funseeker 22]

Ricky,

I had to smile at your post since you have the most awkward meeting arrangements of any escort I have ever seen.

Wished I`d kept your email but do remember that you required client to call you 3 hours before incall hotel appointment to confirm. If no call then you will call client 2 hours before to confirm. (You required a contact # for any appt). If no answer then "standbys" will be accomodated (lol). If anyone is a no show then they will be blacklisted.

You will not give a room # out until you get a call from the hotel lobby. You almost lost me since I didn`t think I had your phone # with me and then my cell service was spotty.

You have probably lost many appts due to similar circumstances.

P.S. Great Butt though. :-)

[Funseeker 22]

Hey Ricky,

I was out of town but didn`t yet see your reply to my question.

Maybe you bring on your own communication problems to some extent?

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Games People Play

 

First of all, YES this has been discussed before, yes there are a few places on the web where clients are black listed, although frankly unless the client in genuinely heinious (and I can think of one such person who created financial and other problems for a number of escorts who post on this site and escorts who who do not), it is not worth the effort. As Ricky indicated, someone who genuinely wants to hassle another person (I have suffered this as well), can find a number of ways to do and seemingly has no end to the amount of time, energy and expense they will engage in simply to annoy another.

 

Secondly, generally it is not a good idea to maintain e-mails or other such information on a computer for the simple reason that should your computer ever be lost or stolen (or, heaven forbid), you were arrested and the computer was taken in as evidence, the privacy of any prospective or actual clients would be, not merely compromised, but violated.

 

That topic has also been discussed on this site before and most escorts indicated that the would not and did not maintain such records just for such a reason.

 

>Wished I`d kept your email but do remember that you required

>client to call you 3 hours before incall hotel appointment to

>confirm. If no call then you will call client 2 hours before

>to confirm. (You required a contact # for any appt). If no

>answer then "standbys" will be accomodated (lol). If anyone is

>a no show then they will be blacklisted.

>You will not give a room # out until you get a call from the

>hotel lobby. You almost lost me since I didn`t think I had

>your phone # with me and then my cell service was spotty.

>You have probably lost many appts due to similar

>circumstances.

 

There are several fine lines here. I like to rely on my memory and I do. It has served me well. But I have a particularly elephantine memory, which many others do not share, and as a working escort, I can definitely sympathize with the reasons for creating such a system. On the other hand, as a working escort, I prefer to keep my life relaxed and stress-free, and I prefer to make an appointment with me convenient and pleasant for my clients.

 

I believe most escorts require a confirmation, either a day or two beforehand or the same day, to hold an appointment made in advance, particularly when made long in advance and/or one is traveling. There are obvious and appropriate business rationales for such practices that any client should reasonably appreciate.

 

However, blacklisting is something I would simply do; I am not certain what benefit derives from announcing that you might do that in advance for a failure to follow a process. I also think that there is such a thing as "paperwork simplification" which would make like easy for the escort and the client, yet keep business moving and facilitate good business sense and practices.

[+ Lucky]

RE: Games People Play

 

Furthermore, working escorts, as opposed to those who merely pose as escorts, should, in the event and the eventuality that a prospective client may indeed choose to pursue an appointment under the normal procedures set up by the protocol in this instance, must never let the client feel that the process is more difficult to comprehend than is necessary to facilitate the meeting of the two parties who choose to encounter one another as mature, consenting adults, performing acts and activities that are legal and not morally reprehensible to either party, unless that is the specific and stated intention of both parties. Without such a clear understanding on the part of either signatory to the agreement, the escort may find that the client does not follow through as desired, and, ultimately, the escort will not be a working escort despite his purported desire to be engaged henceforth as the same.

[Guest Adono]

RE: Games People Play

 

You left out "heretofore" and "notwithstanding."

[Funseeker 22]

RE: Games People Play

 

No !!!.

You probably just need to sign a release of liability form however I`m all for just the release

:-) :-)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Poseur

 

>Furthermore, working escorts,

>as opposed to those who merely

>pose as escorts

 

Those who can, do.

 

Those who can not, should attempt to understand the difference between striking a pose and assuming the position.

[rickyricardo]

no i have not lost clients w/ my confirmation procedure.. they understand the need for it.. Breaks up the gameplayers an serious clients have not problem.. Hotel room number not giving out unless your verified before appointment.. but most people have cell phones dont mind calling when they get to hotel.. I have never had a complaint with my system at all. What works for some may not work for others. A verification system is done also for L.E. , some guys dont care about L.E. well I do have concern there. To each its own in how they confirm appointments. You do what you feel necessary.

 

 

R.M.

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