Is there a proper way?

[Guest backbaygayguy]

I've almost always used envelopes, for my own personal convenience. I first started meeting escorts in NYC while traveling, and it was easier to keep the cash ready in an envelope. If the money is separate, I won't spend it and then have a problem getting enough cash out of an ATM.

 

At the end of a (good) session I'm out of it (in a nice way) and the last thing I want to do is count bills. I also have some money handy in a second envelope for a tip, if I decide to give one.

 

Also, I usually keep the envelope in sight on a table where we both can see it, as a reminder so that I don't forget to give it to the guy.

 

I'm not offended if the bills are counted. Guys frequently accept the envelope without looking into it -- I usually request that they check the amount to make sure that I counted correctly. Hey, this is a business transaction -- a waiter or the check-out person at the food store always counts the bills and checks the total, and I did too when I had sold items retail for cash when I had a design business.

[adriano46]

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I do most of my hiring in Europe and my own custom is to have an envelope ready on the dresser or table in the hotel room with the escort's name on it. The envelope is partially opened. If it is my first time with an escort, I usually have the bills slightly showing so that it is clear the proper amount is all there (usually in Euros or dollars).

 

Only once was I taken aback when a John showed up with the escort and demanded the cash in hand right at the doorway as he "delivered the goods". I was embarassed and felt ashamed at this - as did the escort, who conveniently gave me his personal phone # and we met often after this without the "John's fee" and crude manners.

 

Another time I had a duo with two escorts whom I had never met. I had prepared two separate envelopes clearly marked, but had also prepared tips in other envelopes as it was possible it might go to an overnight (this was left open-ended when the date was arranged). [being a stranger to the escorts, I always keep my wallet, passport and money well hidden away in a safe during a visit.]BOTH escorts ended up spending the night and in the morning the first left with both his envelopes while the second stuck around to get some more sleep. When he showered and left, to my surprise he had taken only the "tip" envelope but not the "fee" envelope. I had no way of contacting him as I had arranged this all via internet and was now traveling without a computer.

 

Fortunately I did have the other escort's number (they vaguely knew each other before our date) and he kindly called the guy and asked him to meet me near my hotel. I handed him the forgotten fee and we ended up making quite a few successive dates in subsequent months.

 

The upshot of this is when I prepare the "tip" envelope (which is always kept in reserve and not always given) I now keep it hidden in a separate place and usually only take it out while the escort is showering before leaving.

[Chuck50]

I use a nice card and envelope with their name on it and hand it to them a little before they leave so if they want to count or say something they have time. No one has yet. But of course I like those little touches too. HUGS Chuck

[Alex Berlanti]

I have been paid in both naked bills and an envelope, and also in advance and after our session, allthough I have never asked to be paid in advance. Maybe I've been lucky that I've never been shorted on my fees. And I also never count my fees in front of the client that I'm with, to me that's rude and shows a sign of distrust. But as far as payment goes, to me either way is fine.

 

Best Wishes.

 

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[marc anthony]

Maybe I've been lucky that I've

>never been shorted on my fees. And I also never count my fees

>in front of the client that I'm with, to me that's rude and

>shows a sign of distrust.

 

I have had a couple of escorts that were new to me (and I was new to them) count the money before they left. I didn't feel offended at all. To me, that was a sign of distrust of the person BEFORE me, as they haven't known me long enough to form any kind of sense of trust yet. Since you have never been short changed, it makes sense that you feel no burning desire to count the money. We are all creatures (victims) of our personal experience.

 

That being said... if an escort that I have hired REGULARLY started counting the money in front of me... I would have a problem with that.