Escort Fees Question

[Guest RandyRon]

I have a couple of questions concerning escort's fees for which I would like input; especially from escorts.

 

First question: I want to hire another escort to join me and my usual escort for a three way. Should I expect to pay extra for this situation or both escort's usual fee. I'm not a skinflint. I just want to know how to handle this.

 

Second question: If you ask an escort to have dinner, lunch, etc. with you, is this time part of the hiring period and should I expect to pay for this time. Of course I expect to pay for the dinner, cab fare, etc.

 

I hate asking a lot of (dumb?)questions of an escort but I need the information so I'll be sure to have the cash with me. So few escorts take Discover Card.

[Prime Muscle]

"First question: I want to hire another escort to join me and my usual escort for a three way. Should I expect to pay extra

for this situation or both escort's usual fee. I'm not askinflint. I just want to know how to handle this."

 

First answer: You should expect to pay both escorts thier normal fee UNLESS you negotiate something else upfront. You also need to make sure it is ok with both escorts before you confirm the appointment.

 

 

"Second question: If you ask an escort to have dinner, lunch, etc. with you, is this time part of the hiring period and should I expect to pay for this time. Of course I expect to pay for the dinner, cab fare, etc."

 

Second answer: Yes, you should plan to pay the normal hourly rate for all time spent together, including dinner, UNLESS you negotiate something else upfront. Most escorts say thier fees are for time spent together not specific act.

 

 

Both questions are good questions but never hesitate to discuss these things (or any other thing) with the escort before confirming the appointment. I know talking about some of the finer details may put a damper on our planning but your first priority should be to take care of all the unpleasant niceties before hand so there is no confusion to spoil the fun when you finally get to meet. Besides, you don't want to stress yourself out before hand (or even worse all throughout the appointment) worrying about the business details when a quick upfront question would have resolved everything. Never be concerned about asking a potential escort anything upfront.

[ted]

Question one - both escorts need to know its a threeway, most like to know the other escort. If you do the matchup expect to pay each guys normal hourly rate. If one of them does the matchup you may get a break on one of the guys fee(probably not more than $50), particularly if they work as a duo a lot. It bears repeating, discuss your wishes with your escort before you meet to avoid unpleasant surprises.

 

Question2 - you are paying for his time so theoretically, it doesn't matter what you're doing. Practically, most guys rates come down on an hourly basis the longer the appointment; 1 hr=$250 2 hours = $450 3 hours=$600, etc. If you plan on going to dinner you are obviously going to spend more than an hour with him, so your rate will not be a straight multiple of his single hourly rate. Again if you know its someone you want to take to dinner discuss it up front with the guy.

I normally hire for 2 hours or longer - 2 hours if I haven't seen him before, longer if I have. I have been known to just invite the guy to dinner if the session has gone well and its time appropriate. This would particularly happen with someone new. I make it clear that its an "off the clock" invitation-because at that point in time I wouldn't have a lot of extra cash around, which they are quite welcome to refuse. Sometimes they accept, and sometimes they decline. If they don't have any plans or another appointment, and you got on well, they will often take you up on it, particularly if its someplace they want to go and convenient.

In Feb I did a three way with an escort I had seen several times before, and one I had not met before. The new escort actually charged slightly more than his normal hourly fee, since there were two of us. I told the new escort before hand that we were going to dinner after the session and that he would be welcome to join us if he so desired. The session went very well-(at least I thought it went well), I repeated the dinner invitation and he accepted.

[AaronScottDC]

>First question: I want to hire another escort to join me and

>my usual escort for a three way. Should I expect to pay extra

>for this situation or both escort's usual fee.

 

 

>Second question: If you ask an escort to have dinner, lunch,

>etc. with you, is this time part of the hiring period and

>should I expect to pay for this time. Of course I expect to

>pay for the dinner, cab fare, etc.

 

 

Nah, they aren't dumb questions.

 

First answer: Yeah, you will probably have to pay both escort's fees unless you find some guys who enjoy working together and use some kind of special two-for-one rate. And, I agree with Bobby, you should probably ask the 'scorts if they like working together and enjoy three ways before actually meeting them.

 

Second answer: A lot of guys have an hourly rate for one or two hour meetings, but then have special rates for "evening" meetings. I know I charge my regular hourly fee for the first two hours, but then have a special rate for meetings lasting from 3 to about 5 hours. This works great for guys who would like to go to dinner, or out for coffee/drinks.

 

So, just check with the guys you are interested in spending some time with and find out how they like to handle things. I hope you have a great time!

 

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Guest drummer]

I know a lot of guys hire escorts for multiple-hour, overnight, and longer sessions which entail eating out, attending shows, and similar activities. I have the impression that sometimes escorts and clients develop friendships whichentail going out to dinner and/or a concert or other social situations without a fee for the escort's time, right?

[Guest RandyRon]

Guys,

 

Thanks for all of your very helpful answers. I definitely will check this all out with the escorts involved. I'm trying to set up a threeway with my regular escort and he's been very helpful. On the money issue, this is always an area I don't like dealing with, but this isn't McCock where the prices are listed on the menu so I'll have to train myself to ask.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Have It Your Way

 

>On the money issue, this is always an area I don't

>like dealing with, but this isn't McCock where the prices are

>listed on the menu so I'll have to train myself to ask.

 

The issue of fees for threeways as well as the issue of whether meals after a session are on or off the clock have been discussed before. On a few occassions, I have been hired by regular clients, including one particular client who drives up from the South Bay area on what is essentially his lunch hour, and afterwards, I have accompanied him, at his invitation and expense, to lunch. He never pays for my time once we are done with the scheduled hour, but he understands that if I am busy or simply do not wish to accompany him at lunch, I will not do so.

 

At other times, clients have requested an entire evening, which has included a meal, a show, or something else. At least in my case, they pay a rate for the evening, not by the hour for each hour. Most, but not all escorts, do something similar. I know of one escort in San Francisco who was invited out to a musical performance, because he was both musically inclined and interested in the performer, who expected the client to pay for his cab fare, the performance, and the escorts time, even though the only thing this escort and the client did was go see this performance together. Needless to say, this client no longer sees this particular escort, who additionally never discounted his hourly rate for subsequent hours after the first hour.

 

As for threesomes, a good fit is always important. You might consider giving a tip to the escort if he does the work. When I arrange the threesomes for my clients, it often takes a great deal of time and effort on my part; coordinating three schedules is not easy and often involves a great deal of correspondence, telephone calls and other leg work.

 

You are starting off well by asking questions. Good luck and, more importantly, enjoy yourself!

[Matt_Vancouver]

Always ask questions

 

Never worry about asking 'stupid' questions of an escort, in all likelyhood, we've been asked it before.

It's better to get the finer details sorted in advance.. IE compensation... yeah discussing money kind of ruins the mood.. but trust me, a disagreement on the fee at the end of the date... kills the mood, lights it on fire, and stomps it into the ground...mood obliterated. ( you didn't know that could be done did you?)

Much better to ask all questions in advance, then you just show up, get worked over by two hot guys.. and no worries, no stress.. all fun.

Who knows, the escort may even buy you dinner.. it's not unheard of.. but everytime I do it, the guy I'm with reacts like I broke the client/escort code... it's just dinner: ) And on occasion I like to treat my clients, after all if it's a regular client of mine, they have more than earned it.

Matt(expect the unexpected... no I won't be wearing womens underwear... well not when others can see me... nothing makes you feel like a man more than a pair of hello kitty pink undies: ).. Nah, I'm more of a Spongebob man myself... WHOOOOOOOO lives in a pinnaple under the sea?? spongebob squarepants... purely potent pourous playfullness.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Randy,

They all have said it before... There is not such a thing as a dumb question. Apparently there is nothing left to be said but I do want to add something.

Concerning the Threesome deal, if they both are escorts, you should be paying only their normal rates. However, as an escort, the only way to know that the other guy in the threesome IS an escort too, is to know him personally, and to know that we work together and have that chemistry. Many escorts get attitude in front of another escort. They try to show that they "dont give away" things for free, that they dont kiss, that they do this or that, because many are ashamed of their profession. Some of them, when together with another eoscort, think that it is OK to make fun of the client while the client is not looking, making funnny faces and so on.

If you are totally confident about the escort you want to do the threesome with, then ask him who he want to do it with, and rely upon him. He will know who will treat you with the respect and attention you deserve.

Whenever I am called to do a threesome with a client I dont know, and an escort I dont know, I charge for a double session, since I dont know if he IS an escort.

 

Concerning the dinner time... Actually an escort is that: a companionship that will be with you at your will, and will acompany you in different moments and situations. I have been hired repeatedly by clients who love the opera and hate to go alone, to the theater, to dinner, to business parties and so on. Some of my clients have never had sex with me by their own choice, and they keep hiring me to go to that kind of outings, so yes, it is time only.

Personally, I thin that the "Friends" free time, free dinner, free coffee, should only happen when the escort suggests it and maybe after a long period of real friendly business together. I always thank the "free dinner on me" kind of invitations, but personally think that the minute the escort looses his passionate, friendly professional disposition and begins to cross boundaries, the business relationship might be harmed.

It is all about passion, attention and feeling wanted and special, isnt it?