muscmtl Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 I check guys all the time on RM, i.e., muscle bareback bottoms who kiss/rim and suck, just to give me hope that they exist. It never fails that if I get a "Hi, how are you" or "thanks for checking my profiles" he's thousands of miles away. Never ever as someone within fuckin distance said anything, as if there was some "if client's too close and I react then I'll have to put up, which is bad" rule Anyone else? TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 If you want, you can set your RM privacy preferences to "they can't see that I looked at their profile" or similar wording Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BananaBagel Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 The same thing happens to me. The farther away, the more likely to DM me. Sometimes it seems like an auto responder. muscmtl 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muscmtl Posted July 26, 2022 Author Share Posted July 26, 2022 2 hours ago, azdr0710 said: If you want, you can set your RM privacy preferences to "they can't see that I looked at their profile" or similar wording Thanks but thats the very last want to do I love dm TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 Same for me. The locals mostly ignore it but the further away they are, the more likely the dm. muscmtl and jtwalker 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BtmBearDad Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 It happens to me frequently too. Lately, now that traveling for work is back, and will be picking up, I’ve run a few searches for where I’ll be heading - more reconnaissance at this juncture. I get the DMs, I advise why I looked at them, and they’re fine - usually signing off with a “hope you get in touch when you’re here”. Only one rando that after viewing his ad I knew I wouldn’t engage, after my reply to his DM came back “why are you wasting my time if you’re not here for now?” Thus confirming my initial assessment from his ad that despite his looks, his intos, he wouldn’t be someone I’d engage. HoseMaster, muscmtl and TorontoDrew 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ StLouisOct Posted July 27, 2022 Share Posted July 27, 2022 I hope the responses are automatic! Imagine how many notifications RM guys must get telling them guys have looked at them. Answering each one would be quite an ineffective chore. And I’d sure question the intelligence/sanity of a guy who responds only to those coming from far away. Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted July 27, 2022 Share Posted July 27, 2022 18 hours ago, muscmtl said: I check guys all the time on RM, i.e., muscle bareback bottoms who kiss/rim and suck, just to give me hope that they exist. It never fails that if I get a "Hi, how are you" or "thanks for checking my profiles" he's thousands of miles away. Never ever as someone within fuckin distance said anything, as if there was some "if client's too close and I react then I'll have to put up, which is bad" rule Anyone else? If you want to talk to someone, initiate the conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muscmtl Posted August 1, 2022 Author Share Posted August 1, 2022 On 7/27/2022 at 6:57 AM, jtwalker said: If you want to talk to someone, initiate the conversation. No, that never works... I'm very precise on my profile of what I want as a client so it's always exciting when an escort read it and DM me (well maybe I live in Disneyland thinking that they actually read it.) i only had one idiotic DM, from huge dick Castro of course, who didn't understand what "do you bb btm" meant. But then again, living the uber privilege life of gigantic-dick-muscle-black-top why would he. It's like Will & Grace's Karen asking what's the subway??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted August 1, 2022 Share Posted August 1, 2022 You may have to import what you want…. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted August 1, 2022 Share Posted August 1, 2022 38 minutes ago, dbar123 said: You may have to import what you want…. I live in a big city. Don't want to pay import fees when I can buy locally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gymowner Posted August 2, 2022 Share Posted August 2, 2022 Same reason that hot hot guys on scruff and grindr hit you up with "hi handsome. You are just my type" being 2000 miles away. Because there is no chance of moving forward whatsoever with meeting. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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