Drugs

[Guest Mister Sensible]

What's "drug/disease free" really mean to you? And I just don't mean in terms of a simple definition.

 

I'm in the curious position of being a 40-something gay male who has never had any STDs ever, not even of the insectoid variety. I consider condoms my friends, and have a sensual view of the entire male body that allows me and my partners to enjoy all sorts of very safe pleasures if condoms don't happen to be present. The very idea of having someone fuck me (or me fuck someone) without a condom is bizarre, freaky, scary, terrifying. Not even my boyfriend of 15 years gets into my ass without the love glove, and healthwise he's in much the same state that I'm in. That's how careful I am.

 

This isn't to say that I wouldn't hire an escort that happened to be HIV+. I might, but would simply enjoy a somewhat different selection of the many sexual pleasures available to us as rutting, horny men. It's even less to say that I'd discard the condom if I "knew" that the escort was completely STD-free. The idea gives me the screaming shiver.

 

I'd imagine that a professional code of conduct for escorts would have as its first item, Thou Shalt Not Harm Thy Client, so when I hire, I hire carefully, and after much investigation and dialogue. I trust you guys not to give me crabs. I trust you guys not to beat me up. I trust you guys not to intentionally give me a lingering medical problem that will bother me for the rest of my days. In one word, I trust you guys to be as sensible during our bodies' sexual discourse as I am.

 

However, nothing quite compares with the astonishing pleasure of having my ass most righteously and seriously fucked, Fucked, FUCKED! by an expert top after I've sparked up a Big Fat One and inhaled very, very deeply. <cough> I don't drink, nor do I smoke tobacco, but Jah's Love for the right occcasion is heavenly blessing indeed--together with a nice snort of good poppers. (Oh yes, ride me to the moon, uh-huh...blast off!)

 

Now, some of you guys proclaim to be "d/d free", which doesn't particularly impress me. You're still not going to get anywhere dangerously moist and slippery with that beautiful huge tool unless it's well wrapped. You'd also not win any points with me if you arrived reeking of alcohol and cigarettes. It's a nice marketing tool, sure, and few would look twice at a website offering a "Disease Ridden Druggee!" for one's pleasure. It does offer a certain assurance (false in some cases, I'm sure) that you're going to take care of my needs without making me regret the time we're sharing. Fine enough. That's what I want too, and I don't want you to regret the time you've shared with me either, and I quite enjoy helping fill your wallet as you fill my fantasy.

 

What's your take on the issue? I've shared a Big Fat One with some of you to no ill effect, and to much mutual enjoyment. I've smoked alone because some of you don't, and that's okay too (more for me). I'm a bit old fashioned, so can't see the attraction of 21st century party drugs. (I'm not really into parties anyhow.) What's your comfort level with a witty, red-eyed client like me?

 

Mister Sensible

[Guest jeffOH]

To me, Drug and Disease-free means Disease-free and NOT fucked up on Drugs so much that you can't perform. I have no problem with clients drinking, doing drugs or snorting poppers. But, please don't be so fucked up that you puke all over me or pass out while I'm fucking you.

 

I don't smoke cigarettes or drink, but I do enjoy pot quite often.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[+ nycman]

>But, please don't be so fucked up that you puke all

>over me or pass out while I'm fucking you.

 

PLEASE!

 

I just got that image out of my head from yesterday's thread!

 

....lol

[Guest Mister Sensible]

Okay, I won't.

 

I'm just thinking of pleasant enhancement, certainly nothing that would bring on a high level of psychic disorientation or physical reaction.

 

Isn't vomiting a rather rare fetish? I seem to recall it being referred to as "hot lunch".

 

Mister Sensible

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Dungeons & Dragons

 

I always thought it meant D&D the game....

 

You have a sensible outlook. I always asks clients on line at some point if they would act differently if I answered yes instead of no to the "D&D" question. I also tell them I hope they realize that guys on line lie, whether they are escorts or not. This has all been discussed a great deal on this board and I believe the consensus has been that most of the time most escorts are very sensible about anything that would put them out of commission out of self interest as it means lost income; there is no such thing as workman's comp is escorting. As has been proven on this site many times, when it has happened, at least amongst the escort well reviewed on here, we have owned up to the situation and advised everyone accordingly.

 

However, we all have to take responsibility for ourselves and it appears like you do so with great care and understanding.

 

As the other part of your questions, I think drug-free tends to mean party drug free, however poppers are often considered by many a drug and pot is scene as both a drug and as a mood enhancer like alcohol.

 

When a client is doing drugs my issue is their safety and my own. A secondary issue is whether this is going on in my home, like an instance where a client was injecting himself in my bathroom without my knowledge. On at least two occassions, I have asked clients to leave, at one point calling a cab for one who was inerbriated as he was in no condition to drive himself.

 

I personally like smoking pot but do it rarely. I do think that for those guys who like to smoke pot and have sex, it can be a very sensual experience but it is not something I would want to do everytime I have sex.

[guyinsf]

As to what "disease and drug free" means generically, I assume that someone is claiming not to use any illegal substances (at least while he is working) and that he does not have any STD's. We all need to remember, however, that it is possible to have an STD and not know it (particularly not immediately), and unprotected anal sex isn't the only way to pass along an STD. An escort (or any other sex partner) could pass along an STD without even knowing it.