Terminating Clients: How, When and Why

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Escorts, how do you terminate your long- term client relationships. Do you just stop returning calls, start saying that you are not available, or do you tell the client straight out that you are no longer interested?

[Guest fukamarine]

>Escorts, how do you terminate your long- term client

>relationships. Do you just stop returning calls, start saying

>that you are not available, or do you tell the client straight

>out that you are no longer interested?

 

Why would an escort WANT to terminate a long-term relationship? Presumably the client is not a creep, if it's been "long-turn" so why turn down the bucks?

 

fukamarine

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[Guest fukamarine]

>I noticed that TB/fukamarine has a negative rating from

>someone called Stalban. Who the hell is that? He never posts

>but he slams our fuk buddy?

 

Why did you point that out to me. It's completly ruined my weekend! I'd slash my wrists if only I could scrape up enough money for the razor blades :-(

 

 

fukamarine

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This has been dealt with in other ways on this board, but briefly, Fukamarine is correct, it would rarely be an escort who would terminate a long-term relationship. In my opinion, it would be the client, wanting a change of pace, or some other reasonable cause, to terminate the relationship. As was pointed out elsewhere, it is always appropriate to explain politely the reason for ending the relationship. Yes, it is a commerical relationship, ultimately, but a good escort and a client who has engaged his services that frequently, will have established some form of a bond, and the appropriate response would be to say, "I want to explore being a bottom with an aggressive top," "I need to save money," or whatever the reason may (or may not) be.

 

Now, there are reasons why escorts may stop seeing a client and they are similar to the reasons other have stated for refusing a request: (1) behavioral practices requested which the escort could not or would not engage in; (2) rudeness, inconsideration, etc.; (3) financial reasons; or any other rationale reasons which each escort would individually determine just as a client would do so in hiring.

 

In my own case, I have turned three clients into friends because I felt that was the more appropriate place to take the relationship. This was partially due to their emotional attraction to me beyond what would be appropriate, in my eyes. In one other instance, I declined further appointments with a client due to his behavior towards me during the session.

 

However, hopefully these types of concerns will be addressed and dealt with in communciation prior to the setting of an appointment. This is another example where good and complete communication between the escort and client is the key to a good experience for all concerned.

 

 

 

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RE: An Escort Answers

 

>This has been dealt with in other ways on this board, but

>briefly, Fukamarine is correct, it would rarely be an escort

>who would terminate a long-term relationship.

 

Let me try this another way which might be admittedly hard for current escorts to shed much light on. If you left the business, would you tell your long-term clients, or go cold turkey? Would the reason for leaving the business be a factor? For instance, the escort might have had sudden success or increased demands in his "day" job. He might want to focus exclusively on longer high value-added appointments involving travel opportunities. It could be the commencement of a new relationship etc. (Another possible reason for erratic behaviour might be increased drug use that has nothing to do with the client at all.) I guess the question is when you decide to take down the Ads and cancel the phone line, do you or should you tell your former regular clients?

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>>This has been dealt with in other ways on this board, but

>>briefly, Fukamarine is correct, it would rarely be an

>escort

>>who would terminate a long-term relationship.

>

>... I guess the question is when

>you decide to take down the Ads and cancel the phone line, do

>you or should you tell your former regular clients?

 

I would. It is also my opinion most of the escorts who participate here (Gabe, Matt, Rick, Jeff, Rod, Devon, Bilbo, Jon Dean, etc.) as well as those who are well-reviewed and treat this in as business-like a manner as possible would as well. Would we all offer our reasons? Perhaps not.

 

Should we? Obviously, I believe we should. I have the home phones of most of my regulars and many of them have my private, unlisted home phone line. I have established a certain rapport with these gentlemen and I was raised a certain way, thus not to say anything at all would, to me, be not only unlikely but simply rude.

 

As clients have discussed on this site, those escorts who may have substance abuse, emotional or other circumstances, which may not allow them to focus on their clients or even take care of the day to day responsibilities of their life, would not only be unlikely to respond on this site, but they would more than likely not contact most of their clients as their circumstances changed.