Overnighters

[VaHawk]

I have my first overnight session with an escort next weekend and am wondering what the usual expectations and preferences are for the following:

1. Do escorts prefer to receive their fees at the outset, the next

morning or during the evening?

2. How often and when can a client expect to engage in sexual

activities?

 

Thanks as always.

[ted]

You really should have discussed all these points with your escort already, but since you haven't and you've already booked...

 

Fees- generally I pay all at the end of the appointment, but since I won't do an overnight with someone I don't know, thats not been an issue. For a first time meeting I would think a chunk up front -not more than half - with the balance at the conclusion should be acceptable to both parties. Beware of the total fee up front, although some reputable escorts do ask, that has been a danger sign. And most times, the monetary aspect is handled briskly and discretely, so I would not expect any mention of fees during.

 

Expectations- minimum would be an evening and a morning romp, and depending on the chemistry and want you want, sometimes the night in between can be very short.

 

You are the client, so make your wishes known. I encourage you to talk to the guy this week to explore your expectations and his limits, with the hope that they are very compatable.

[Chuck50]

I can tell you I haven't done less than overnights except only one time. I get to know my escorts early on and establish a good repor with them and then we have lots of fun either overnight or for a couple of days. the one time it was less than that it was suppose to be an hour and ended up being over 3 hrs from start to dinner to finish and now we are good friends. HUGS Chuck.

 

THe real answer is get to know them or ask questions don't take anything for granted. Ask Ask Ask Ok Hugs Chuck

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

An Escort Answers

 

>You really should have discussed all these points with your

>escort already, but since you haven't and you've already

>booked...

 

...

 

>You are the client, so make your wishes known. I encourage

>you to talk to the guy this week to explore your

>expectations and his limits, with the hope that they are

>very compatable.

 

Excellent points and an excellent answer;and almost as much verbiage as I might have taken.

 

It is possible to request and expect more sex, just be prepared to pay a slight premium for this. I am being hired for an overnight in San Francisco that will involve 3 hours or more intimacy at the start, sleeping together and then more in the morning. This has been pre-arranged and discussed. Generally, as both response thus far have stated, the best thing to do is to communicate your expectations and proceed accordingly.

 

UPDATED - http://www.gaydar.co.ukfrancodisantis

[VaHawk]

Thanks guys, the advice is appreciated. I have exchanged several emails with the guy and we have agreed to a night romp and next morning romp during the session preceeded by dinner and cocktails. I was wondering if this was the minimum a client can expect for an overnight. I'm not too worried about the guy as he has several reviews (all good) on this site. Thanks again for your help.

[hiJinX]

>2. How often and when can a client expect to engage in

>sexual

> activities?

 

As others have said "ask".

When I was investigating an overnight 3way with a couple of escorts and brought up being sexually prolific (6-8 times a night when motivated) and they were both like "lets try for a new record",

Your mileage may vary. Good luck.

[VaHawk]

Thanks for the laugh! With you as competition I guess I'll have to shoot for the silver medal.

 

LOL