Barebacking trend among escorts?

[Guest curious]

I have used the services of only two escorts so far, and each has without asking gone condomless. One wanted to come in me and the other wanted me to come in him. Both wanted me to take them orally and vice versa. I didn't put up much of a fuss because I think it's a lot hotter with an unsheathed cock, but am nonetheless now a little squeamish (after the act)about the disregard for safer sex. Does safer sex still exist?

 

I am especially concerned about an escort's HIV and STD status since I know the more popular ones have been exposed to a good number of clients and if they are willing to put themselves at risk with others, who knows how disease-free they really are? Or do they care?

 

I know one of the escorts I used is married and so it made me wonder.

 

Would appreciate any thoughts.

[+ Lucky]

I hope you are curious enough to search the archives on this well-worn topic. The consensus is that barebacking is bad. I agree.

[Guest Hole_4_Hire]

You call yourself "curious" but I'm not sure that's appropriate. If you participate in barebacking I can only suggest you change your name to either "clueless", "uncaring", or "uninformed".

 

I've never understood how someone could allow that to happen with their body. It just doesn't make sense to me.

 

Hopefully you'll publish a review of the escorts so we'll all know who to avoid.

[Guest Charon]

Translation:

 

Hi, I like to play in traffic.

[Chuck50]

Curious

 

Please tell us who you were playing with so we know who to avoid. It might sound like fun but it is dangerous and most of us know that at least those of us who lived in the age of HIV/AIDS and those of our loved ones and family who became infected/Died. What once sounded cool and felt great I am sure is now not looked at the same way. To many of the generation who saw their loved ones die only know this more clearly than I. We can't forget what really happens even when we think it feels good and seems to be fun. We MUST FACE THE REALITY.. HUGS Chuck

[Guest Not2Kinky4me]

I too would know who to avoid.

That is reckless irresponsible behavior.

EOM.

:'(

[Guest Kalifornia]

Not even a real post. You and another poster always come up with the best stories. Reread what you wrote dude. You are in conflect with your statements.

 

Personally I hope you do bareback and continue to do so. If you are so disrespectful to write such a post, well maybe you shouldn't throw stones from that glass house.

 

Mark -Kalifornia

[Guest fukamarine]

>Not even a real post. You and another poster always come up

>with the best stories. Reread what you wrote dude. You are

>in conflect with your statements.

 

I re-read the post and can't find the conflict. Please enlighten me!

 

fukamarine

[Guest Not2Kinky4me]

The idiot did not realize I made a typo (deletion).

 

I meant to say "I too would WANT to know who to avoid"

 

I dont know why but occassionally, my cursor moves backwards and with a stroke of another key, it sometimes deletes words. My fault for not proof reading.

[latinolover]

Last month I met up with an escort in Madrid who I have been with many times before when I visit Spain - in fact we have become friends of a sort. During this most recent visit, I saw him every day for three days: on the third day, just as I was ready to fuck him, he said 'you can fuck me with no condom if you like' to which I instantly replied 'no, no' to which he instantly replied 'just testing you - if you'd said yes I'd have given you a big slap and told you off because you should never do that!' What is going on here? Who is testing who? Is it possible that he suggested that because he is HIV+ so he doesn't care? Was he trying to find out if I am HIV+ so I don't care? Any insight most welcome please.

[+ Lucky]

Did you ask him thee questions?

[latinolover]

Hi Lucky,

 

No, the answer is of course not, that situation took me by surprise so I decided to mull things over for a while and try to work it out, and, having failed, made this post to try and get some help.

[+ Lucky]

Oh. Well,then. My opinion is that he really wanted to bareback, but did a quick rebound when you said no.

There are times when we feel like throwing caution to the wind, and it helps to have a stable partner to keep things on track, as you did.

[Flower]

> Is it possible that he suggested that

>because he is HIV+ so he doesn't care? Was he trying to

>find out if I am HIV+ so I don't care?

 

This is an aside, but one should not "not care" just because he is already poz.

 

This seems to be a common fallacy readily accepted by many poz guys, and not thought about much by negs, but just the opposite is true.

 

A poz becoming re-infected by another Poz of a different strain, creates a synergistic adverse effect--that is, the degree of damage is not just one + one, but rather, a much greater number than 2 for comparison sake.

 

There are only limited regimens of Rx drugs to fight HIV and aids, and having a multiple-strain infection makes it nearly impossible to maintain and your life expectancy goes way down very rapidly, as opposed to a one-strain infection, which can be maintained for decades.

 

 

I am Flower :*