Overnighters

[luv2rim]

When hiring an escort for overnight when do you pay him the fee? Half to start? The rest the next morning?

[Chuck50]

I pay the next day as he is leaving have never been asked to and most likely would not want to be asked. Although most of mine have been after a well established email and or phone connection. And yes some are now repeats and that helps as well. HUGS Chuck

[Rick Munroe]

I often find it slipped under my plate of hash browns, sausage & omelette as I hungrily devour my room-service breakfast after an early-morning suck-fuck-fest. I'm often sleepy & try to hide my crankiness but I do perform well in the morning & that's when I usually get my stash. }>

[Flower]

>When hiring an escort for overnight when do you pay him the

>fee? Half to start? The rest the next morning?

 

Since, with very few exceptions, an overnighter only takes place with me after I've met, liked and formed a bond of trust with someone, it hasn't ever been an issue and payment is made the following morning.

 

I've formed tight friendships with 2 escorts especially and with either of them, right from the get-go it never was an issue, but many times I'll pay in advance by depositing into their bank account at my hometown branch of their bank when it helped or charging some merchandise on my cc and having it shipped directly to them either shortly before or shortly after our weekend--in one case 2 months after our trip, since he was taking his (very sweet:) time finding a particular piece of furniture.

 

There are scoundrels in both the client and the escort camps, but as a matter of practicality, it is the client who has paid for the room in his name and credit card and in most cases it is the client that stands to be embarrassed the most if a big fuss were made -- at least in out-calls -- therefore, to that extent, the escort has his security in a way. Whereas we have all heard of a few situations where it was alleged that a not-so-reputable escort got paid up front and then had to go to his car for a toothbrush or whatever and never came back, the client has no such reciprocal security with an escort that he doesn't know either by previous meeting or by reputation.

 

But trust is a two-way street and the escort needs to feel comfortable with it too--especially for an overnight fee, as opposed to a 1-hour fee. When I have felt it to be an issue, I have mentioned in an email when first making the date that I only pay at the end--by bringing it out early, I think the escort realizes you aren't trying to hustle him.

 

Flower :*