Just How Busy Are Escorts?

[Guest albinorat]

>Al, interesting... do you think it's

>wise to mention the fact

>that you post reviews on

>this site in emails BEFORE

>you even meet? The only

>time I've ever mentioned this

>site is after a session.

>You may be giving the

>guys stage fright... <

 

Actually I never thought of that -- I usually mention I've seen their reviews here and have published some myself so they can see what I'm into. You're probably right, thanks.

 

>

>Also, we're not supposed to tell

>the kids they are being

>graded :-)

 

Well, I don't mention I'm going to write a review about THEM, and I by no means do invariably. If I'd like to, I ask them after a session if they'd mind if I wrote a review and if there are any activities we got into they'd prefer I didn't mention.

But I appreciate your cautions -- but I still think I have bad cyber breath (or they all hate fat people!!!!)

 

 

Al

[Guest Nice Guy]

This got interesting again. Mr.B, I tell them I have seen their reviews and they know I review some of the guys as well. I even give them my Name on this site, so they can see what I say and how I say it. They may know some of the guys I review, and that is just dandy. I want them to know when I email them that I am serious. They get so many prank emails it is mind busting. I was going through Brett Silver's emails (with him) and what a joke a lot of them were, not to mention a waste of his time.

ANYWAY... I have had one guy in Boston, who had FAB reviews turn me down. He didn't think "WE" would work. That was fine with me and saved me a bundle. However I contacted Lance/Phoenix after I saw a review of him and I am going to be in that city soon. He said... he loves a challange and doesn't like to loose. He was just charming in his response to my Email. I am really looking forward to seeing him. I might even fly him into Palm Springs before my trip to Phoenix... I thought he was that interesting. AND now that Brett and I are best buds and Matt and I are just friends, I need some new regulars in my life.

But I have started to Date again, so I might be retiring soon

[HooBoy]

>-- I usually mention I've

>seen their reviews here and

>have published some myself so

>they can see what I'm

>into

 

I have had some of the better escorts reviewed here tell me that they do not even pay attention anymore to a call unless they know they come from this website because the clientele tends to be more refined.

 

I never tell them who I am but I will tell them I saw their review here. It seems to get their attention and it's probably because of what the above paragraph. The gents that contribute to this site are not chopped liver or trolls you'll find in the AOL chatroom looking for cybersex.

 

I always assume that any money exchanged is for time only. Although, sometimes I will ask an escort to bring me some fine wine and I pay his price for the wine.

 

IMHO

 

HooBoy

Email: HooBoy@male4malescorts.com

[HooBoy]

I had the great pleasure of meeting and dining with Nice Guy.

 

Heck, I'd pay HIM! He's a hottie!

 

HooBoy

Email: HooBoy@male4malescorts.com

[marc anthony]

I always feel that I want to provide the escort as much information about me that I feel comfortable giving. Escorts are human beings too, and they have likes and dislikes. There could be no worse experience than having to share an evening with an escort who is totally turned off by the client and just wants to leave. And then paying for that experience. So I am straightforward and honest, and then I figure that if the escort accepts, he will be more likely to have a decent time himself! The wonderful thing about this site is that it really helps you narrow down the field of who you would like to send that initial email to! Escorts I have contacted on this site have been very responsive and straightforward (for the most part), while those that I contacted through my old AOL chat room days were much more hit and miss.

[Guest MrB]

RE: Just How Much Do You Tell Them?

 

To the charge of hijacking this thread, I plead not guilty. All I did was make a comment, who'd have thought you'd all jump at it.

 

I would like to point out for clarity that I never made the claim that we should keep this site a secret. Yes, it gets a guy's attention, it acts like a filter for them, and everybody wins. However, what I was trying to say was, I do not make wrongful use of the fact that I write reviews by 'blackmailing' a guy into a performance beyond his own usual standards.

 

If everyone else thinks it's OK, though, I'll reconsider. The idea has a lot of potential :-)

[Traveller]

RE: Just How Much Do You Tell Them?

 

Mr.B, great minds think alike. You're 100% correct. Afterwards, if at all.

 

Later.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

LAST EDITED ON Nov-20-00 AT 07:38PM (EST)[p]LAST EDITED ON Nov-20-00 AT 07:37 PM (EST)

 

My two cents -- for what it's worth...

 

I just cannot say enough that is good enough about this site... simply put it is fantastic!!!!

 

I have never had a bad experience with anyone that I selected from the reviews or that was recommended on the message board. In fact, they have all been very very good or better. Maybe part of my good experience is due to the fact that I make sure to inform the other party about me -- stats, expectations, etc. Only failed to do so in one case, an oversight, but he already knew something about me from this fourm. (To some I mention my screen name, to some I don't.) And I have had several escorts express appreciation about gettng that sort of personal info. I think the most important aspect of it is that it communicates respect for the other party -- my view anyway. And attitude is important I think -- I never hire anyone, I engage someone to share the pleasure of his company. Maybe semantics, but then again, maybe an underlying attitude that is projected intentionally or not... anyway it works for me.

 

So far so good...

[Rod Hagen]

Your are right Hooboy. Nice Guy is a blast...even if he does think I am too professional.

 

 

-Hagen

http://www.rodhagen.com

[adriano46]

RE: Just How Much Do You Tell Them?

 

MrB,

 

I have followed two paths.

 

When the experience was not what I had hoped for, I write to more or less share my view - and perhaps warn others, recalling that much of what occurs between a client and escort is based on chemistry, a lot on good acting, wishful thinking and meeting ones needs.

 

On the other side, when the experience has been very good, I often ask the escort (after the encounter) if he has any difficulty with my printing a description of the encounter. I leave the escort with the option of what I say - and don't say - within some limits, mostly out of respect for him.

 

It can work both ways too, as sometimes I find one or another who know my web alias checking what I say not just about them, but abouot others (I feel like an Olympic Diving or Gymnastics judge :-) ).

 

adriano

[HooBoy]

Most of the time they want to know where you found out about them.

 

I usually will tell them "that review site." I don't even mention the name of it.

 

Then if they want to know something about me, I'll give them a description of myself, but flags go down.

 

I let them know what I'd like to do most of the time. Sometimes I don't and if things don't work out, I take the blame. When they show up older than their looks from pics or their description or when they rip me off, then my hackles get raised, but as you probably have noticed, I do not do alot of reviews. I just don't have the time.

 

I do think I'm a fun guy and am self-confident, so most escorts have a good time with me, except the straight or dishonest ones.

 

However, I'm thrilled people have found the site to be beneficial and I know for myself, I would never hire anyone unless they came from here with either high marks or a grand answer to a sour review.

 

Bad reviews are not bad. They can be very good for a very good escort.

 

HooBoy

Email: HooBoy@male4malescorts.com

[Guest Nice Guy]

Rod, thank you for your comment. I want to state publically, you were one of the best all time evenings I have ever had. Your professionism, i consider a compliment. There are two ways to look at it. My opinion was based partly on our conversations and partly on your posts. One of which almost brought me to tears. AND that is why you need to be professional. It makes it easier to handle. Plus you have a b/f and from what i can tell you really like/love him. That knowledge immediately takes away some of a person's fantasy about you. Again a good idea, but I am a romantic at heart and therefore you took away MY fantasy about us. There is nothing wrong there, it is just me and my opinion.

I respect you to much to ever critize you for your positons. Your tops... and if that ain't whistlen dixie, nothing is!!!

[Guest Nice Guy]

Hoo, how sweet.... and gents Hoo is not exactly chopped liver!!!

Hope to dine with you again in the near future. Best to you>:

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

>Bad reviews are not bad.

>They can be very good

>for a very good escort.

>

Yes... in rebutting a negative review some escorts seem to shine while others just flame...