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[Guest jim]

o.k. guys i am glad that you had a good time with my question(dilemma) but me having the sense of humor i do i'll at first laugh too. now to get a little bit deeper, this is a serious inquiry. a little about myself.... 35 yrs. old 5ft.5in. 190 lbs. blonde blue italian, lite skinned considered cute by woman. i always dated woman but over the last say 5 years i am increasingly attracted to men. i fantasize daily about sucking cock, nothing else. no kissing no anal no reciprocation.just sucking cock. i am turned on by tall well built guys with large cut dicks. on more than one occasion i have gone down to video stores in the west village and cruised the "buddy booths" yet i never completed the mission i set out to do. is there anyone out there who has ever been in this predicament and has some good advice on how i could get over the hump.

[marc anthony]

Jim: If all you really want to do is suck the dick of a really handsome well built guy with no expected reciprocation, may I suggest a visit to the Gaiety. You can enter the place for $15. You can get turned on watching the show and you can decide which boy (man) is most appealing to you. Most of these guys are pretty gorgeous. Then you can go into the lounge and arrange a private with that guy. Most Gaiety dancers don't do a whole lot during privates, but virtually everyone will allow you to suck their dick without reciprocating. The usual price for a Gaiety private is $200... and the Gaiety is in Midtown across the Marriot Marquis.

[marc anthony]

Oh... and by the way, this site has a weekly feature that reviews all the dancers at the Gaiety. You can read that and get more information. Click on the "Gaiety" link above.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Jesus, Mary and Joseph

 

Or is it Peter, Paul and Mary?

 

As a high priced, high class "Ho" even I am one to believe that $200 for a blow job is a bit much. For whatever reason, I often get instant messages on line from gentlemen wanting sensual massages and to either give or get head or both. I attempt to explain the difference between a sensual massage or massage plus and what a full service escort such as myself will offer. If they wish to hire me, I do as they request but only after pointing out that they could achieve their goal at a lesser expense.

 

I have to live up to the high standards I try to impart to the baby hos.

 

Love is no substitute for sex.

 

http://photos.yahoo.com/franco4hire

[Chuck50]

Thats a hell of high price blow job. Get an escort there cheaper and you will at least have some fun and be able to talk and all. Not that Gaiety is bad but just heard so many let downs from guys there. HUGS Chuck

[marc anthony]

Franco and Chuck: I agree with both of you that $200 is expensive for a blow job. I also hire "full service" escorts because I like more than just that. But "Jim" wants that and that alone, lives in NYC, wants a safe 1st experience from someone who is guaranteed to be gorgeous... the Gaiety sounds perfect to me (for him).

[chrismac]

The buddy boothes on 8th Ave near Times Square aren't bad either: they're cheap (you just need a few dollar bills to feed the video box), and you don't need to worry if the guy is great looking or not; all you see is a DICK. You can pretend he's the most gorgeous guy in the world, or your grandpa, or whatever turns you on.

 

Suck, suck, suck-away!

 

Some guys are so big their organs get stuck in the rather small slots allotted for such activity. That's when you want to see who's behind the big stick ;-)

[chrismac]

Of course, I've never seen this myself. But friends tell me...

;-)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Any friends of yours

 

>Of course, I've never seen this myself. But friends tell

>me...

>;-)

 

Rod Hagen likes college boy virgins. As for me, give me a man with a big cock who wants to get fucked. Tell your friends I can cook them a nice meal with a great wine for all the information they care to impart....

[chrismac]

RE: Any friends of yours

 

>Tell your friends I can cook them a nice meal with a great wine for

>all the information they care to impart....

 

Let's do it this way Franco:

 

I'll get all the details from my "friends" and tell you myself.

 

By the way - I only eat my vegetables raw, just to let you know.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Raw and In The Flesh

 

>By the way - I only eat my vegetables raw, just to let you

>know.

 

Polenta with home made sauce, salad with garden fresh, organic produce, mineral water and rice pudding - brown rice, soy milk, non-dairy.

[chrismac]

RE: Raw and In The Flesh

 

>Polenta with home made sauce, salad with garden fresh,

>organic produce, mineral water and rice pudding - brown

>rice, soy milk, non-dairy.

 

That sounds along the lines of what I eat, although polenta is a little high on the glucose scale - but I'm not religious about it as a guest. And I may even agree to a meal after 6pm for special occasions ;-).

[Will]

Jim, for what it's worth to you, I offer these things that I've learned from my own experience -- both wise decisions AND mistakes!

 

First, although you may fantasize about sucking cock only, it could be that your understandable shyness about gay sex in general would melt away in the heat of passion and you'd want more. So I'd suggest making sure that the other guy's menu has more items on it than just being serviced.

 

Second, whatever your fantasy and whatever you turn out to do, I hope you will respect yourself enough to treat this with at least as much importance as you would treat buying yourself a new pair of dress shoes. While it's true that you can get it for free, or at very low cost, when it comes to commercial gay sex, you get what you do -- or do not -- pay for. It seems to me that $200 is a small price to pay for assuring yourself, as best you can, that you will have a fun, unhurried, and thoroughly satisfying -- in every way -- experience.

 

Third, I believe in professionals, and in the particular square inch of the universe occupied by the likes of us, there is absolutely no substitute for a first-rate escort. Fortunately, you are located in New York City, where there are scores of desirable men available to you. The question is how to choose one.

 

Fourth, then, I'd imagine that you might take one of the following two options: (a) Decide that for a first experience, it might be best to have a sort of interactive massage, which will relax you, put you at ease being naked with another man, and allow you to move in any direction you feel like. There are plenty of escort/masseurs reviewed here who would be perfect for this. (b) My own hope is that you will choose to spend some time with an escort. Any escort who has a number of strong reviews on this site will be honored to be your "first" and will treat you with the affection and respect you deserve. He will go only as fast as is comfortable for you; and he will respond to your own feelings almost before you're aware of them yourself. There are many, many escorts who would be perfect for this kind of experience. The way to find them is through the geographically-arranged "Escort Reviews" section of this site. You can tell a great deal about them not only from what the clients say about the escorts, but from what the clients say about themselves.

 

Fifth, if you should look for an escort, try to find one who's been reviewed by newcomers like yourself. You'll be able to discern who is or isn't right for you. As for body types, age, and so forth, New York is a cornucopia of beautiful, intelligent, funny, hot escorts.

 

Frankly, I envy you!

 

Good luck, and let us know what happens.

[Guest JustANametoPlay]

$200 may or may no be too much to pay. There are many that pay the same or more for just worship. If it is what you want and you enjoy the experience hard to put a price on that.

 

If you are in NYC the place has many wonderful guys that can be great for your first time. Two such men are Rick Munroe and his partner Derek Ross. There are many others but these are two I can reccomend from experience.

 

Most importantly remember this is about YOU not them. While it is difficult at first always discuss expectations, including whether they will ejaculate or not if that is important to you.