ESCORTS! What would you do if you didn't get paid?

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Pay for play

 

>Chris..you are right!!

>

>Much too often the client is faced with this situation because the escort could not deliver what he promised.

>Also, when the escort was not what he said he was or his picture was of someone or was taken decades ago, the client

>actually became the victim.

>

>Now...let me ask the question... what would you do, Johns?

 

Many many good points have been made, especially the very first one by the very blond gentlemen. What is the benefit to the escorts to respond to this question? Clearly, the responses on the thread indicate that those who might respond with violence are not receiving a good reception. Like M. Lacoste, I too am neither small and am able to "defend" myself if necessary. Unfortunately, not all escorts are. The escorts should have good bullshit detectors with clients and make clear arrangements beforehand. Some I know insist on payment in advance. I think personally this shows both discourtesy and disrespect to the client. On the other hand, the clients (whom I never think of much less refer to as "johns") also need to ask questions and be clear: what they want, what they expect, what they need. The escort should not agree if he cannot deliver. I am, for example, often asked to bottom. I don't. I refer the client, however, to a number of other escorts, many of whom are "versatile" but when they have a client who wants to be as one of them put it to me the other morning "well plowed" they forward him to me. It works out very nicely, it's very courteous, we watch out for each other. I had to go rescue a friend, who was crying in the lobby of an apartment in West Hollywood, his boyfriend's car that he borrowed without permission had been towed and the client had refused to pay and told him to leave. He called me from his cell phone and he was inside the lobby because it was pouring rain outside. I came over, parked my car legally, walked in to the complex (the escort let me in), I dragged my friend to the unit and knocked politely. When the man came to the peep hole he refused to open the door. I told him that his number was on my friend's cell phone, I showed him the number and that the time was 90 minutes earlier of the call. I also told him my friend's car had been towed 20 minutes earlier from outside him building. And that I had already dialed 91 and only had to dial one more 1 to call the police but preferred to speak with him, would he please open the door instead of causing a scene for this neighbors (and this is at 2 a.m. mind you.) The client was clearly on some substance, he was sweating and shivering and the heat was on very high. I said to him, look at my friend, he is upset he is crying. The client says, yeah, so? I add, did he come over when you asked him to? Replies yes. "Did he do what you asked him to do?" Again the client replies yes. I said to the client. Did my friend not match his ad in Frontiers? Was something deceptive? He says well and I interrupt him and said to him well you did go through the session in any event, correct? He nods his head at this point and continues to look at me and the cell phone in my hand. I said to him, then what is the problem. Pay him and we will leave. He swallows reached into his bathrobe pulls out the money which he had clearly rubber banded from the rest of his cash and hands it over. I shake his hand I tell him to go wash up and get some sleep.

 

I drive my friend over and we bail out the boyfriend's car. That was another long problem but I won't bore you all with those details. This has never happened to me and this was my experience and solution on behalf of this friend. Who by the way, weighs 220 pounds, is 6'1 and is very muscular.

 

Again, and as always, good communication is your protection and your key. Be well.

[Guest regulation]

>This thread has two sides; what about clients who feel

>ripped off by escorts more of the "hustler" variety who take

>money beforehand and take off after 10 minutes? Seems the

>answer has been all along to avoid the unknown escorts,

>especially if they demand payment up front - but what do you

>do if they're already in your room or home and demand the

>money? Threaten them?

 

First, never invite an escort to your home or give him any personal information other than a telephone number or email address. Second, see escorts only in hotels in which you have a relationship with management, so that any problems that arise will be handled in the manner you would wish. If the situation escalates to the point at which management becomes involved, simply explain that you hired someone for a massage and that when he arrived he demanded money, made threats, and refused to leave. What's he going to say, "No, I'm really a hooker"?