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[NYCab]

New to spas and and masseurs in NYC. Any advice for someone starting to explore the scene?

Edited October 17, 2021 by NYCab

[MmM]

Is Adonis lounge a private event where you have to be invited, or can you just walk in?

 

[Sixpack]

2 hours ago, manmed said:

Is Adonis lounge a private event where you have to be invited, or can you just walk in?

 

Walk in I think 

 

and get lap dances until you explode 

[BillyMan]

To be clear, the OP asked for spas and masseurs.  Yes, some of the Adonis guys escort, but for many I do no think the sessions qualify as massages.

OP,  if you want to explore the NYC spa and masseur scene, there are several threads on this forum you can research.  You can message forum members if you have questions about specific posts.  

Pd1_jap is right; do not pay upfront.  

Also, don't grab/grope the masseur.  Wait for signs that they are open to being touched.  Subtlety and "will he or won't he" are part of the game, part of the excitement.

Be clean, polite, and respectful. And tip for good services.  Lots of threads on that topic as well.

[Redwine56]

10 hours ago, Pd1_jap said:

1) Never pay upfront. 

2) Don't give any personal information upon first meeting.

3) Try going to the Adonis Lounge events. Many of the dancers also escort and it's a great way to checkout the merchandise before going all in. 

4) Remember, escorts are people too and can feel insecure even with six pack abs. So try and be polite. 

5) Have fun! So many take it so seriously. Don't get caught up in the drama and drugs.

You gave me a chuckle!  Points #1 & 2 are Spa advice and then you venture into Deli territory.  Good advice either way.

[Bluefin]

Don’t give any money upfront. (Worth repeating). Deposits, full fee etc before the session are not a thing. Run from those who ask.

The clock starts on a session when you arrive and stops when you’re getting up off the table. Rarely a masseur will short you on time or rush you to release and then claim the session is over. This is not a thing. A good provider doesn’t short you on time, a great provider doesn’t watch the clock. When this happens tip well and let him know you appreciate it. 

Communicate to to the provider what you’re looking for. If you’d like a session where the masseur is nude as well and allows mutual touch than ask if that’s what they provide. Some folks like the excitement of “will he, won’t he” - if that’s you, be okay with being disappointed occasionally. 

Be respectful. A masseur is not an escort and generally will have limits. If a session goes beyond a HE that’s a bonus that both parties have consented to. Tip accordingly.

“Your mileage may vary” (YMMV). Because a masseur is not an escort don’t expect “more” to happen in a session based on what another client reports. There are a lot of reasons/variables as to why one client might experience more than another.

Is you see a masseur that interests you, swing by here and search the threads for into - if he’s not talked about feel free to start a thread on him. Keep in mind you might have to be the first one here to “take the plunge”. If you do report back

Have fun!

 

Edited October 17, 2021 by Bluefin

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

6 hours ago, manmed said:

Is Adonis lounge a private event where you have to be invited, or can you just walk in?

 

If you are interested in attending one of the Adonis private events, you need to be on the Adonis email list and make a reservation to attend.  The address is not publicized, and only provided to those that have reserved a spot.  

[MmM]

21 hours ago, sam.fitzpatrick said:

If you are interested in attending one of the Adonis private events, you need to be on the Adonis email list and make a reservation to attend.  The address is not publicized, and only provided to those that have reserved a spot.  

Thanks!