Help! Newbie here looking to try masseurfinder (or similar). What tips do you have before I take the plunge?

[imma]

What I want is to eventually top and kiss. I understand that kissing is usually rare for a masseur, how about topping them? Also, how do I communicate these to see if this is something they're down for?

[+ FrankR]

What I want is to eventually top and kiss. I understand that kissing is usually rare for a masseur, how about topping them? Also, how do I communicate these to see if this is something they're down for?

If you are looking to have sex, you should not be searching for a masseur; that is not what they are in the market for. You will be disappointed 99% of the time. You should search for an escort. If massage is a fantasy, search for an escort that also provides massages as foreplay. Instead of masseurfinder, look at rentmen.

[dutchal]

If you want massage + kiss + top him, search on rentmen for guys who are bottom, bottom versatile or versatile, mention massage and say they are into kissing. And then, when you contact them, get confirmation that they'll do all of what you're looking for. Also don't expect a spa quality massage unless they are in fact trained and experience in massage.

[Agachado]

What I want is to eventually top and kiss. I understand that kissing is usually rare for a masseur, how about topping them? Also, how do I communicate these to see if this is something they're down for?

Many Masseurs on Masseurfinder also have profiles on Rentmasser or Rentmen, mintboys, etc. These generally represent a progression from Therapeutic to Sensual to Erotic/Escort. You never know without asking, so just express your expectations or desires when you first contact a masseur.

[+ 7829V]

What I want is to eventually top and kiss. I understand that kissing is usually rare for a masseur, how about topping them? Also, how do I communicate these to see if this is something they're down for?

Agree with all the others. Try rentmen.

[510guy]

And if you try to communicate this with someone from a masseur site chances are you will be turned away if you didn't check if they actually perform extras.

[jeezifonly]

Many Masseurs on Masseurfinder also have profiles on Rentmasser or Rentmen, mintboys, etc. These generally represent a progression from Therapeutic to Sensual to Erotic/Escort. You never know without asking, so just express your expectations or desires when you first contact a masseur.

Yes! Do cross checking to see how they present themselves between escort ad and masseur ad. It will give focus to your questions once you narrow it down.