A Versatile/Bottom - How Versatile?

[Daverwr]

This subject has been thrown around a few times here, but I want to hear from the experts. How Versatile are Versatile/Bottom listed providers? I realize it varies with each person. However, I’m an exclusive bottom so when I’m shopping I disregard the versatile/bottom listings. Obviously, I’m looking for a top, so I just assume these guys would not want to fill the bill, so to say. Am I wrong? Am I loosing some great candidates to fulfill my needs all because of my definition of versatile?

[Guy Fawkes]

Yes you are. Tell them that your an exclusive bottom and see what they say.

[Lee_jeff]

I believe most versatile/bottom are really bottoms.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Cue the multitude of posts claiming that anyone who is 'versatile' must be a bottom-in-disguise.

 

Versatile means I get fucked and I also fuck.

 

Be straight forward and tell them what you prefer and what you're wanting.

 

Communicate, confirm, repeat... We really need t-shirts and bumper stickers here.

[+ FrankR]

Cue the multitude of posts claiming that anyone who is 'versatile' must be a bottom-in-disguise.

 

Versatile means I get fucked and I also fuck.

 

Be straight forward and tell them what you prefer and what you're wanting.

 

Communicate, confirm, repeat... We really need t-shirts and bumper stickers here.

Wish granted! ?

 

[big-n-tall]

I tend to believe that if someone lists themselves as versatile/bottom, it means that they are versatile but have a preference to bottom. They are willing to top (thus the versatile part) , but again they prefer the bottom bunk.

 

So to the OP if someone intrigues you enough and they list as top (obviously), versatile/top, versatile, or versatile/bottom do contact them. You may indeed be missing out on some truly great guys who are willing to top you good.

[Lee_jeff]

I really doubt that versatile bottom can be a good top, at least based on my experience. The escort just does not want to lose the business but normally they are low performer on top side

[big-n-tall]

I really doubt that versatile bottom can be a good top, at least based on my experience. The escort just does not

 

That is your opinion. I won't knock you for it but you yourself choose to limit your options based on your particular experience. What works or doesn't work for you may be the opposite for the OP.

 

The OP asked the forum. I gave my opinion that he shouldn't generalize and limit his potential opinions. He has no idea what the chemistry between the "versatile/bottom" escort he chooses and himself will be until he takes that chance. If he's never tried how will he ever know what going outside his typical range will prove?

 

@Daverwr if you find a versatile/bottom (or any escort that lists any variation of versatile for that matter) that initially floats your boat, communicate with him exactly your expectations. If his response intrigues you further, decide from there if it's worth the meetup. I understand your hesitation but you won't know until you try. Don't sit on the sidelines assuming.

Edited May 30, 2020 by big-n-tall