Do you Prefer Booked in Advance or Same Day Appointments?

[MrMattBig]

I’m a client and would appreciate a little perspective here. I Hire often and prefer same day appointments. That tends to limit me to rentmen profiles that say “available now.” Often the guys who have that turned on will refuse same day appointments. I always thought having available now meant you were ok with same day scheduling. Is that a wrong assumption?

Great input to my quest for the truth. I think I'm still not clear about all the turnarounds expressed here. However, if I count the responses to this thread it seems like there is some trend inclined to the "booked in advance appointments" side of things.

Because of the structure of RM, the way to get more views of your ad is to make yourself 'available' to push your ad towards the top.

Additionally, way, way, way more times than not, when a client inquires 'are you available' , two things usually happen. Either by time the logistics are worked out multiple hours have passed, or the inquiring client is 'at work' and will be available when they get out. So, escorts, whether consciously or unconsciously, get conditioned to advertise 'now' and expect those meetings to end up happening later.

 

Also, depending on the dynamic (whether cleaning out, getting to an outcall, various special requests) rushing to be ready can occur, and no one likes to be rushed. Also, we are human, sometimes it's nice to slowly get ready, watch some porn, get turned on by the anticipation of everything. And by waiting till the moment of, you also run the risk that another client like yourself beat you to it (never fails especially when I travel, I have to tell someone I am no longer available because someone else messaged 20 minutes before.)

Also with travelers, to maintain traveling, we have to develop the sense that the trip makes sense, which means putting appointments on the books beforehand. And with the basic human action of eating. I have told inquiring clients that I will be available later, specifically because I just ate a meal and don't want to give a subpar experience because I am full or bloated.

 

I do not think there is anything wrong with same day appointments in general. And some escorts will be only for or against them based on their preferences, experiences, and mentality on scheduling.

I always prefer to put a day in blocks: inquire in the morning for an afternoon appointment, inquire in afternoon for evening, and try to inquire at least 2 hours in advance.

[harlow]

Wow

Because of the structure of RM, the way to get more views of your ad is to make yourself 'available' to push your ad towards the top.

Additionally, way, way, way more times than not, when a client inquires 'are you available' , two things usually happen. Either by time the logistics are worked out multiple hours have passed, or the inquiring client is 'at work' and will be available when they get out. So, escorts, whether consciously or unconsciously, get conditioned to advertise 'now' and expect those meetings to end up happening later.

 

Also, depending on the dynamic (whether cleaning out, getting to an outcall, various special requests) rushing to be ready can occur, and no one likes to be rushed. Also, we are human, sometimes it's nice to slowly get ready, watch some porn, get turned on by the anticipation of everything. And by waiting till the moment of, you also run the risk that another client like yourself beat you to it (never fails especially when I travel, I have to tell someone I am no longer available because someone else messaged 20 minutes before.)

Also with travelers, to maintain traveling, we have to develop the sense that the trip makes sense, which means putting appointments on the books beforehand. And with the basic human action of eating. I have told inquiring clients that I will be available later, specifically because I just ate a meal and don't want to give a subpar experience because I am full or bloated.

 

I do not think there is anything wrong with same day appointments in general. And some escorts will be only for or against them based on their preferences, experiences, and mentality on scheduling.

I always prefer to put a day in blocks: inquire in the morning for an afternoon appointment, inquire in afternoon for evening, and try to inquire at least 2 hours in advance.

Wow the perfect provider. I definitely gotta plan a trip to Vegas!

[Ryan Roman]

Or what do you consider to be more serious when approached by a client?

I've seen some profiles saying they only take 'booked in advance' appointments.

While others say that they only consider serious those requests for 'same day'.

It wasn't like this few years ago. What changed: the market or the clients?

 

I prefer advanced scheduling, but have no problem seeing a client the same day.

[+ VictorPowers]

Advance is appreciated. If I am traveling I’m more open and available for same day appointments.

[mike carey]

Advance is appreciated. If I am traveling I’m more open and available for same day appointments.

Including midnight calls for 1am appointments!

[+ VictorPowers]

Including midnight calls for 1am appointments!

Mike Carey May be a kiwi anomaly. Mileage may vary.

[sincitymix]

I’ll be honest. I am a same day hire.. hell im a same day in the next few hours hire. My schedule keeps me busy and I usually do not have the ability to book in advance.

I do let the escort know this up front and if they can’t accommodate I’m ok and hopefully I can get them on the next free moment I have. Luckily pretty much every escort I’ve hired has been great... fond memories of Derek atlas answering the door naked Dripping wet from the shower when I arrived... because I was exactly on time lol

[Guest davebk]

I'm almost always a same day requester. For me, with travel and work, booking in advance would be very difficult. I don't like to put a provider in the position of having a cancelation, so I don't book until I firmly know I can commit, which is usually same day.

 

In the event I do book in advance, I always say "please don't turn down another client for me, as I can't guarantee I will be able to be free, but will let you know when I can lock it in." That tends to work, and sometimes I end up missing out on an appointment I really wanted, but I would rather do that than mess with a guy's income.