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Hey guys, I know it is all in good fun, and good for a laugh. But making fun or ridiculing a masseur's appearance, whatever it is .....body type, fat/skinny, unattractive, ugly, etc. is not cool. I know mocking comments are made as a joke....but let's not have our laughs at their expense. I have seen this alot in posts, and find it sad. As gay men most of us were mocked growing up, so we know what it's like. Let's not bring that into the Forum. Aaron is a good looking guy, and looks like a sweet kid. Would hate for him to see this post body shaming him for how skinny he is. It would be great if we could stop trying to get laughs by insulting a masseur's appearance.

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Hey guys, I know it is all in good fun, and good for a laugh. But making fun or ridiculing a masseur's appearance, whatever it is .....body type, fat/skinny, unattractive, ugly, etc. is not cool. I know mocking comments are made as a joke....but let's not have our laughs at their expense. I have seen this alot in posts, and find it sad. As gay men most of us were mocked growing up, so we know what it's like. Let's not bring that into the Forum. Aaron is a good looking guy, and looks like a sweet kid. Would hate for him to see this post body shaming him for how skinny he is. It would be great if we could stop trying to get laughs by insulting a masseur's appearance.

Get a life and relax, as you stated its a joke....You need to be saying this in virtually every thread in the message center as there is always someone who's preferred sexual preference isn't going to be the fellow pictured. Relax and enjoy the show, don't fret so much and stay at home and stay safe.

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Get a life and relax, as you stated its a joke....You need to be saying this in virtually every thread in the message center as there is always someone who's preferred sexual preference isn't going to be the fellow pictured. Relax and enjoy the show, don't fret so much and stay at home and stay safe.

 

Thanks for the feedback. I do have a life, I am relaxed, I am not fretting, and I am staying home and staying safe. My point in my post was not about Forum Members having different tastes in men, as you alluded to. It was about mocking a masseur's appearance in insulting and degrading ways to get a laugh. I get that these comments are made as a joke. I just think we can get laughs in other ways without insulting each other's appearance, oftentimes in mean spirited ways. That's all I am going to say. I have to go live my life now, watch some hot porn as I "shelter in place," and enjoy my day. Hope you are home and staying safe also. We are all in this crisis together. Peace :)

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Get a life and relax, as you stated its a joke....You need to be saying this in virtually every thread in the message center as there is always someone who's preferred sexual preference isn't going to be the fellow pictured. Relax and enjoy the show, don't fret so much and stay at home and stay safe.

 

Completely uncalled for your language and attitude on this site. Jokes can hurt and they hurt a lot more than you could ever imagine… Most gay men know that and have experienced thishurt in their life… Maybe you have not but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t a universal thing for gay men...it is a universal thing for gay men and has always existed for centuries to make fun of gay men. Also your ability to write something nice and without hate is nonexistent. The site was not made to bash people…

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To compare an offhanded 'joke' like "he needs some sandwiches" to the ridicule and mocking of gay men is absurd. At most it deserves a bemused shrug.

 

You may not think the joke is funny or clever or even sensible. But to elevate it to this level of criticism is PC run amok. This is where the goofy term 'snowflake' may actually resonate.

 

For goodness sake, he even labels himself a "twink" in his ad!

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To compare an offhanded 'joke' like "he needs some sandwiches" to the ridicule and mocking of gay men is absurd. At most it deserves a bemused shrug.

 

You may not think the joke is funny or clever or even sensible. But to elevate it to this level of criticism is PC run amok. This is where the goofy term 'snowflake' may actually resonate.

 

For goodness sake, he even labels himself a "twink" in his ad!

 

I get what you are saying. But we are not sitting in a bar having a few drinks and some laughs. The purpose of this Forum is to exchange info and make recommendations on masseurs and our experiences. In the Terms Of Rules on this site it states "We will operate with the common decency that governs human interactions worldwide" and "We will always strive to treat each person with dignity and respect." That ain't happening here or in other posts. If you type "Owen LA" in the search box and read the 2 threads about him.....those threads were 10X worse than these comments. Someone even says he "looks like a fetus." Check out that thread. When I read this thread after reading Owen LA, it was the last straw and I had to speak up. We can't keep bashing and mocking these guys appearances for a few laughs. It is just plain cruel, and not the purpose of this Forum.

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I get what you are saying. But we are not sitting in a bar having a few drinks and some laughs. The purpose of this Forum is to exchange info and make recommendations on masseurs and our experiences. In the Terms Of Rules on this site it states "We will operate with the common decency that governs human interactions worldwide" and "We will always strive to treat each person with dignity and respect." That ain't happening here or in other posts. If you type "Owen LA" in the search box and read the 2 threads about him.....those threads were 10X worse than these comments. Someone even says he "looks like a fetus." Check out that thread. When I read this thread after reading Owen LA, it was the last straw and I had to speak up. We can't keep bashing and mocking these guys appearances for a few laughs. It is just plain cruel, and not the purpose of this Forum.

I get soooooo tired of the “buy him a sandwich” here in The Spa and elsewhere on the forum. If a provider isn’t your type, move on. How is commenting on your personal opinion of a person’s physique helpful in moving a topic forward.

Thanks @Dmitri

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