Question for straight or bi providers

[Guest]

For those providers who identify as straight or bi, do you ever team up with a female for bi clients? And do you ever get many female clients? I've seen gay providers often team up with their boyfriends or with friends.

[Guest Calix_K]

Been hired by couples (m/f) but I find that it's more complicated on their end to confirm/commit to a booking than a single guy/girl. So I rarely entertain bi m/f couples beyond those regulars I see presently. I have worked with both m/f providers however I tend to lean more towards the male providers due to a higher demand.

[Guest]

Been hired by couples (m/f) but I find that it's more complicated on their end to confirm/commit to a booking than a single guy/girl. So I rarely entertain bi m/f couples beyond those regulars I see presently. I have worked with both m/f providers however I tend to lean more towards the male providers due to a higher demand.

 

Thanks for the insight! Very interesting, being Bi I've been wanting to meet up with a m/f couple and I know there are some porn performance who date/married other people in the biz. Recently on Mintboys where a couple of guys have dropped the option of a female present but there's always strings attached, they aren't attractive at all, or want insane money.

[+ VictorPowers]

I am bi and I’ll tell you that I have teamed up once with a female. The client provided her so I did not speak to her before the session. All went well. I have had one female hire me and a few “straight” couples. I do not market heavily that I am bi or into women so as you’d imagine, 99% of my clients are guys.

[JamesMorris]

So in the environment of a three some who controls the motions and actions the guys or the girl???

I am married bisexual and love to play with boys..... would like to have my wife join us one of this days

(She does not know I am bi)

[+ OliverSaks]

Start with a massage on the woman while the man watches, and go from there...

So in the environment of a three some who controls the motions and actions the guys or the girl???

I am married bisexual and love to play with boys..... would like to have my wife join us one of this days

(She does not know I am bi)

[JamesMorris]

Start with a massage on the woman while the man watches, and go from there...

Like that a lot!!! Thanks

[LivingnLA]

So in the environment of a three some who controls the motions and actions the guys or the girl???

I am married bisexual and love to play with boys..... would like to have my wife join us one of this days

(She does not know I am bi)

 

Have you had a conversation with your wife about this? I suggest starting there because she needs to be involved before anything happens. She might have zero desire to be with a third or she may want to be with a third without you. Given how often women are touched without consent or openly harassed in our society, it's important for her to feel heard, safe, and in control.

 

My wife and I have had conversations over the years, which is how we arrived at our current agreement and understanding around a decade ago. We do not play together. We are transparent to the level desired and we are clear with whoever we spend time with. Our marriage always comes first and we mutually agree to keep it that way. That's part of why I tend toward straight males to spend time with now. I had complicated situations with a woman once and a gay guy another time. It's been fun exploring this side of my sexuality.

[JamesMorris]

Have you had a conversation with your wife about this? I suggest starting there because she needs to be involved before anything happens. She might have zero desire to be with a third or she may want to be with a third without you. Given how often women are touched without consent or openly harassed in our society, it's important for her to feel heard, safe, and in control.

 

My wife and I have had conversations over the years, which is how we arrived at our current agreement and understanding around a decade ago. We do not play together. We are transparent to the level desired and we are clear with whoever we spend time with. Our marriage always comes first and we mutually agree to keep it that way. That's part of why I tend toward straight males to spend time with now. I had complicated situations with a woman once and a gay guy another time. It's been fun exploring this side of my sexuality.

Wow great advice thanks so much

[LivingnLA]

Wow great advice thanks so much

 

You're welcome. Out of curiosity, why doesn't she know of your bi interest? Are you worried she'll feel threatened? Is he particularly conservative? Have you cheated on her before? Discussing these kinds of issues can be tricky depending on the degree and extent of communication you've had so far. Personally and professionally, I encourage pretty open communication because it's really not possible to have solid trust without some foundational communication. Everyone is different though, so it's important to understand what will work for you, her, and your relationship. Some people prefer not to know, so long as they've given consent for you to "get your needs met" and they understand you will prioritize them and the relationship you've built together.

[Guest]

For those providers who identify as straight or bi, do you ever team up with a female for bi clients? And do you ever get many female clients? I've seen gay providers often team up with their boyfriends or with friends.

 

I've teamed up with female providers a few times (at times for bi men, at times for couples), and see women and MF couples more regularly. But the bulk of my business is guys.

 

"straight” couples.

 

lol, been there

 

So in the environment of a three some who controls the motions and actions the guys or the girl???

I am married bisexual and love to play with boys..... would like to have my wife join us one of this days

(She does not know I am bi)

 

Seconding the above motions to 1) when in doubt, focus your attention (gently) on the woman and b) talk the whoooole thing through with your wife first

[Guest]

All very interesting. Well if there are any providers out there who can hook me up so to speak let me know, lol.