Too many thirst traps on RM

[muscmtl]

I always search for bb btms (using advanced filters) and make sure no strict fukn tops (sorry, just hate these guys) and no "safe only"

Send a quick message to the ones i like and I get "i don't btm" or "no bareback". I get the few assholes here and there but sent 10 messages recently and all of them gave me one od these answers...

 

Is RM invaded by thirst traps?

 

Steve

[KeepItReal]

I always search for bb btms (using advanced filters) and make sure no strict fukn tops (sorry, just hate these guys) and no "safe only"

Send a quick message to the ones i like and I get "i don't btm" or "no bareback". I get the few assholes here and there but sent 10 messages recently and all of them gave me one od these answers...

 

Is RM invaded by thirst traps?

 

Steve

I am with you on this one - I find it very annoying when ads are not accurate. What exactly do 'they' think is going to happen? I'm just going to settle for a VW Beetle when I am shopping for a Porsche? Sorry, no - I try to be respectful of everyone and their limits; but I expect the same respect in return.

 

The only thing worse than a deceptive ad is to over promise and under deliver. Here ends the rant.

 

[caliguy]

I always search for bb btms ...... no strict fukn tops (sorry, just hate these guys)

 

So you hate yourself?

[muscmtl]

"So you hate yourself. "..

 

Love that the instant someone says anythinh against the holy of holy strict top for pay or strict top for porn he's being attacked and yveryone likes that he's attacked. U all tragiiiiiic btms

[MidwestCoastal]

People have likes and dislikes. It's called 'freedom'. Just because someone is getting paid for sex doesn't mean they give up their own freedom.

 

I don't understand your point - someone should be forced into doing something just because its what you are willing to pay for?

[+ StLouisOct]

"So you hate yourself. "..

 

Love that the instant someone says anythinh against the holy of holy strict top for pay or strict top for porn he's being attacked and yveryone likes that he's attacked. U all tragiiiiiic btms

I’m a top and, although I haven’t experienced much of what you describe, I can see your point, but I thought you’re comment about tops left you open for a (perhaps witty) response. I sure didn’t see a clear attack.

[+ StLouisOct]

People have likes and dislikes. It's called 'freedom'. Just because someone is getting paid for sex doesn't mean they give up their own freedom.

 

I don't understand your point - someone should be forced into doing something just because its what you are willing to pay for?

I read his complaint to be that people misrepresent themselves, which is a pretty frustrating and annoying use of “free speech.”

[tennisjock]

Providers are humans as well and it also depends on the tone and delivery of the inquiry. I have found that some of my best experiences were with total tops who when it got down to it , after we met they were more than agreeable to bottom

[buckguy]

Invaded, no. Your complaint is probably one of the most common here, although it tends to revolve around "dafe" providers who bareback, but I wouldn't be surprised if "anything goes" doesn't always mean that, as well. Without specific examples of guys who perhaps have been encountered by other posters, your question is "academic" at best.

[former lurker]

"So you hate yourself. "..

 

Love that the instant someone says anythinh against the holy of holy strict top for pay or strict top for porn he's being attacked and yveryone likes that he's attacked. U all tragiiiiiic btms

 

Your first post was borderline offensive. This one is flat-out offensive with the border nowhere in sight. If you communicate with escorts in the same way you do in those posts, or with anyone really, I'd expect a cold response back at you.

[marylander1940]

I always search for bb btms (using advanced filters) and make sure no strict fukn tops (sorry, just hate these guys) and no "safe only"

Send a quick message to the ones i like and I get "i don't btm" or "no bareback". I get the few assholes here and there but sent 10 messages recently and all of them gave me one od these answers...

 

Is RM invaded by thirst traps?

 

Steve

 

You also like guys who are willing to rim their clients... Maybe you are too direct and explicit as you seem to be on here. That could sound bossy to some escorts

Edited October 19, 2019 by marylander1940

[Bearman]

You also like guys who are willing to rim. Maybe you are to direct and explicit as you seem to be on here. That could sound bossy to some escorts

 

I suspect it might be an English as a second language issue. And native speakers are reading into what's said meanings that were just not intended. I speak other languages and travel a lot so I see it happen all the time. So I give Muscmtl the benefit of the doubt. I think I understand his point.

[+ StLouisOct]

Providers are humans as well and it also depends on the tone and delivery of the inquiry. I have found that some of my best experiences were with total tops who when it got down to it , after we met they were more than agreeable to bottom

How encouraging. ?

[marylander1940]

I suspect it might be an English as a second language issue. And native speakers are reading into what's said meanings that were just not intended. I speak other languages and travel a lot so I see it happen all the time. So I give Muscmtl the benefit of the doubt. I think I understand his point.

Here:

 

Basic sex according to the OP.

(the thread was rightfully closed by the Mgt. because it was too nasty)

 

Never trust an escorts who wants to get high in order to have sex with you.

 

Site where clients can post: $100 A.S.A.P. bb bottom... a bargaining site!

 

and the final pearl:

 

So strange to read about people discovering barebacking now, in 2018. I have been barebacking since ever, having bareback orgies for over 30 years, which means that like me thousands and thousands of gay guys have have been doing the same. Within a month of its launch around 2000, BBRT had reached 100,000 members.

My problem as a client is that there too few escorts that bb to bother (anything goes). It's, 2018 and 'safe only" escort should be such a rarity that you have to pay extra if you want "unatural sex'

 

No strange is the fact that some dared to BB before PrEP!

 

wearing a condom unnatural? If we all have done it till PrEP arrive HIV would be history!

 

Well, before PrEP if you didn't use a condom it wasn't a question of IF you were going to get HIV but when... Sounds logical to me! People who BB between the 80's (once is was known how folks got it) and PrEP where playing:

 

[+ sync]

"So you hate yourself. "..

 

Love that the instant someone says anythinh against the holy of holy strict top for pay or strict top for porn he's being attacked and yveryone likes that he's attacked. U all tragiiiiiic btms

In this instance the response "So you hate yourself." may be an example of "tough love." The vigorous pursuit of life-threatening practices is difficult for most to reconcile. I believe we all here acknowledge the choice is yours, and I believe we all here wish you and your partners a safe journey.