Finding erotic massage

[+ azdr0710]

I haven't read all the replies.....

 

best way for me to find an erotic massage has been through PMs with other forum members here......however, sorry, but YMM still V and I'm afraid it might depend on the clients' looks and body.......being respectful and polite can go a long way, though, and being clean and not pushy can help, too......body language during the massage (slowly spreading your legs a little bit, arching your back, little murmurs of pleasure, occasional "that feels really good" utterances) might expedite things.......

 

a client can also ask in pre-meet planning if the masseur is naked during the massage, if he offers "erotic elements" (keeping things a bit clinical for discretion's sake), and if he offers any "upgraded" (or similar wording) services......

 

still, I often go into these masseur meetings not knowing if I'll get what I came for.......I know that if I really want it, a full-on "escort-level" provider, at those higher rates, is the honest way to go

[FrancisCA]

Its always great to hear the other side's POV because Im always wondering "is this what he wants?" or "Am I doing this right?"

 

My session are always nude (unless discussed otherwise), with light brushing over sensitive areas, mutual touch and happy ending.

 

Definitely being respectful, clean and overly touchy can change the experience. If you want more mutual touch, say so! I will gladly accommodate. But if nothing is said I will continue with how i normally do it.

[Inkdnaija00]

I go according the vibes. I have met masseurs that strictly stated that they provided sensual and/or therapeutic but turned to something better and great. I believe it is a plus that I am not only nicely endowed and just reserved, but I tip great as well and don't expect much and go with the flow.

 

Sensual, to me, means massage with some form of light sexual act while erotic is what it is, erotic which can go from frotting to other things, for me.

[Massageislife]

I go according the vibes. I have met masseurs that strictly stated that they provided sensual and/or therapeutic but turned to something better and great. I believe it is a plus that I am not only nicely endowed and just reserved, but I tip great as well and don't expect much and go with the flow.

 

Sensual, to me, means massage with some form of light sexual act while erotic is what it is, erotic which can go from frotting to other things, for me.

Inkdanaija, thanks for posting on this thread!

 

I don't generally go for masseurs only advertising therapeutic/sensual because I find myself using too much mental and emotional energy wondering where the massage might go because you're right: it sometimes takes off! I'm okay if an erotic massage doesn't go any further than us both being naked, me being able to touch him throughout, and he doesn't avoid my ass and cock altogether, but it almost always goes farther than that.

[Inkdnaija00]

Inkdanaija, thanks for posting on this thread!

 

I don't generally go for masseurs only advertising therapeutic/sensual because I find myself using too much mental and emotional energy wondering where the massage might go because you're right: it sometimes takes off! I'm okay if an erotic massage doesn't go any further than us both being naked, me being able to touch him throughout, and he doesn't avoid my ass and cock altogether, but it almost always goes farther than that.

 

Sometimes I am fine if goes no further as well. I also avoid masseurs with so many pictures of themselves because 9 out of 10, they lack skills! Nice body, skills and personality equals great to me

[Massageislife]

Sometimes I am fine if goes no further as well. I also avoid masseurs with so many pictures of themselves because 9 out of 10, they lack skills! Nice body, skills and personality equals great to me

Yep! They're all three equally valuable elements of the perfect massage experience.

[MassageLoverSD]

Great thread! I agree that being friendly and respectful go a long way to getting the most mileage out of an erotic massage. Let's face it, the hottest masseurs are probably constantly dealing with guys who push their boundaries. But at the end of the day they are looking for the same thing we all are--a nice, arousing time with a cool guy!

 

So I always go into massages with this mindset. I ask up front what the boundaries are, and as an earlier poster said, I let the masseur know I'm enjoying it by moaning and touching him in ways that he'll enjoy (when MT is on the table). Once I've gained his trust he tends to relax and be more generous with the erotic stuff I'm looking for! Just my two cents, but it has worked pretty well for me in the past.

 

Also, I definitely think price point makes a difference. I've found the more expensive guys to be more intentionally sexual. I always assume HE is a given with any guy charging $150+ for an hour, but I ask just to be sure. If a guy is at the higher end *and* has at least a dozen great reviews, I also assume he's going above and beyond to earn those reviews... It's been my experience at least.

[blightuponyou]

I am with everyone who says communication is key. Differences in therapeutic, sensual, and erotic can vary wildly from person to person, and therapists are people too. No one can read anyone’s mind.

 

I have had erotic massages that are a gentle pat on my buisness and then instructions to do it myself while he finished cleaning up. Then I have had therapeutic that started with me covered in a sheet and ended with us both cumming. My regular says he only does sensual, but then we go hot and heavy every time.

 

I expect at least HE with sensual and some fondling. Erotic implies to me that most everything is on the table.