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[Mocha]

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Edited October 1, 2019 by Mocha

[Pulgasari1991]

I went thru my messages over the past 2 weeks and marked thru the timewasters from my last tour. Most all of the ones who were, started with a message line of “are you in...”

What about the other tours, for what relates to your subject?

[Trick]

Is it just safe to say people who text asking, “hey, are you in (insert name of city with no intention of booking) should just be ignored? Mainly people who message touring escorts who are visiting their city.

 

Isn’t it reasonable and logical to ask a touring escort if they were in the city? Many providers post dates in cities they are not actually in. As a client, my first question is always, “Hey are you in (city)?”

 

I feel it’s such a vague question and says nothing about the person sending the message nor shows any interest in me as a provider.

 

Why would they ask you if you were in their city if they were not initially interested in you?

 

But once it comes time to confirm, they usually always end up being flakes.

 

Flakes? What if after having a text exchange you they just decide they did not want to meet you, does that make them flakes?

 

[Mocha]

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What about the other tours, for what relates to your subject?

 

Let me just be clear early, before someone comes along and derails the whole entire thread and sends it off course.

 

I’m not saying a client can’t or shouldn’t ask if an escort/masseur is in a certain city. I’m saying the ones who’s very 1st text message is nothing more than any variation of these. With no additional info asked or provided.

 

1. Are you in...

2. Hey (insert name of escort), are you in?

3. R U in (insert name of city)

4. U in (insert name of city)

5. U in (insert name of city) now?

6. Hi, (insert name of city)?

7. (Insert name of escort, no city).

 

I’m being funny right now, but I’m not making this stuff up. I been doing this travel thing since 2009, sometimes I still feel like every trip involves a new strategy.

 

It just boggles me how I put an ad in a city and almost right away people start hitting me up. I don’t mind being contacted right away, but contact me with some damn class. People act like they contacting a Grindr ad. I even had a repeat client hit me up few months ago the day I put my ad back in town. “U in KC?” he says. Sure enough, the meeting never happened because he was half assed about confirming the session, and I ended up telling him to kick rocks.

 

I made a mistake yesterday by contacting about 8 people who I missed between 4 cities last week, to rule out any error. It’s like why bother. These people have nothing better to do than to contact traveling escorts with the fantasy of meeting, but never end up doing it. Like why the are you even hitting me up, if you’re not invested in meeting as planned. And their responses when I try to get a resolve doesn’t appear to be fond of the biz.

 

Then some get miffed, talking sideways, saying I’m trying to scam or rob them because I ask to be reimbursed for their flaking out, despite me taking time to return their text in often inconvenient times (driving to a client, snuggled in bed, out with friends, etc.) Nobody called you. You called me. They wouldn’t say Uber or Lyft is scamming them when they contact a driver to show up because they charge or authorize their credit card right away, before the driver even gets there. Some don’t understand the concept that we are On the CLOCK the moment they text us. I don’t get paid to bullshit round the clock and answer vague text messages on the premise of “it’s just an inquiry”. As if you get to text Uber, “hey, how clean are your wheels? How long you been driving? Can you drive fast to the destination? How big is your stick? What’s your drivers license number?

 

I went to about 9 different cities over the past month and even though I’m eternally grateful for all the wonderful clients who did show up (even making some new friends on Venmo lol), it just still blows me how many messages from people there are who don’t follow thru.

 

 

It’s like every city I go to there’s always 1 person or 2 who’s got to try to waste time. Short of automatically sending the link to make a deposit on their very 1st text, it gets exhaustive. It’s one thing to chat with a provider about a future meet over email or something. That’s not an issue. But it’s quite different when someone texts my number with a sense of urgency, but then can’t be bothered to have the decency to give a response midstream.

[tenderloin]

From the consumer side, it can be quite confusing.

 

Some guys put up very specific dates (Boston 9/2-9/7, Hartford 9/7-9/9, etc.) and then don't follow their own itineraries! I once had a long back and forth trying to arrange to see a guy the next night in Chicago (where his post said he was) - when all else was settled, he started in about how we would procure his ticket for Dallas to Chicago..... Another New York guy had his page saying he was in Paris for weeks after he had returned.

 

So it makes sense to me that we consumers are first going to want to establish the provider's whereabouts before getting into any other specifics.

[+ poolboy48220]

I rarely check listings outside the Detroit area, but if I see someone I'm really interested in, I'll text asking if they have any plans to come to Detroit. I don't do that a lot. Otherwise, if their ad says they're going to be here, I'll text that I'm interested in meeting when they make it.