No kissing, etc.

[Onamission]

I am new to this scene. I seem to find most masseurs say there is no kissing. Additionally, many say they don't cum, although we will. Is that the "norm" out there? Just curious what to expect.

[CMail01]

You’ll see YMMV a lot on here. That’s “Your Mileage May Vary”. It’s all about the connection and vibe between you and the masseur in that moment.

[MrMattBig]

I would venture to say that it might be hard to find a masseur who will kiss and cum.

Those things fall more into the escort realm, and if they did everything they would most likely be escorts and not masseurs. If you are looking for a massage to evolve into something where kissing and cumming will occur, I would suggest find a masseur who also escorts, and expect to pay an upcharge. Or, hire an escort who will start with a massage and evolve it from there.

[Rvarghcrna]

Most masseurs meet 5-6 guys a day especially if they go beyond massage, they are not going to cum for 5 guys, may be the last guy if he is lucky and the masseur is horny, if they cum for the first guy they cant make no money , I

[Trick]

I recently met a provider who advertises on MasseurFinder who was willing to provide escort services. When I asked him why he doesn’t advertise on Rentmen, he said that advertising as a masseur allows him to “screen” clients with whom he would be comfortable having sex with.

[Trick]

Most masseurs meet 5-6 guys a day especially if they go beyond massage, they are not going to cum for 5 guys, may be the last guy if he is lucky and the masseur is horny, if they cum for the first guy they cant make no money , I

 

I should rethink my practice of booking the first appointment in the morning hoping the provider has “recovered and restocked” from the previous day’s output. Maybe I should book nights now.

[MrMattBig]

I should rethink my practice of booking the first appointment in the morning hoping the provider has “recovered and restocked” from the previous day’s output. Maybe I should book nights now.

 

Depends on the provider.

I can do 3 times 3 days in a row before needing a day of rest. But a night time appointment would be just as fulfilling, but just just not as much "stock" to give.

[Rvarghcrna]

It also depends on the client and the chemistry between the two . Some clients get better experience than others if they have nice a$$ and big?

[KrisParr]

My “go to” masseur started out on the first visit with a hug at the end (and a HE for me); the next visit, was a little more two-way, but he didn’t cum and a quick peck on the lips when we ended. Third visit was even better with a mutual oral session, climax, etc. and the fourth visit started with a wonderful passionate kiss and then it got even hotter. The point being that it takes time and relationship to get to the goal. Don’t assume all masseurs are eager to blow a load, plus there has to be two-way chemistry, and a little extra $ often helps, plus respect. Just sayin’

[+ FrankR]

I recently met a provider who advertises on MasseurFinder who was willing to provide escort services. When I asked him why he doesn’t advertise on Rentmen, he said that advertising as a masseur allows him to “screen” clients with whom he would be comfortable having sex with.

Did he tell you this before or after you met in person? I am guessing after - thus you had passed the “screening” process...?

[hypothetically]

I am new to this scene. I seem to find most masseurs say there is no kissing. Additionally, many say they don't cum, although we will. Is that the "norm" out there? Just curious what to expect.

 

Seems you’re looking for an escort.

[Trick]

Did he tell you this before or after you met in person? I am guessing after - thus you had passed the “screening” process...?

 

I think I did! I went in expecting only a massage, but I brought some extra cash just in case I got lucky. I also “cleaned” up before going to him. When I turned over, he asked me if I wanted a release. I said I wanted more than that. Long story short, he upcharged for a full service and I was okay with it. He said he wasn’t gonna cum because he still had several appointments after me. After some time topping me, I could sense his body begin to quiver followed by, “I’m gonna cum, I’m gonna cum”. I think I really really got lucky.

[Onamission]

Thanks for all the great replies. Seems like there are 2 possibilities out there. Those that would for the right chemistry or the right $. Then there are those that just don't provide that service, period. I like the massage aspect and not really looking for an escort. Like I originally said, just wanted to know what others had experienced.

[BeefyDude]

You’ll see YMMV a lot on here. That’s “Your Mileage May Vary”. It’s all about the connection and vibe between you and the masseur in that moment.

Thats why I have been PM'ed about a masseur and the want me to go into all sexual stuff. I won't. 1) im private 2) I don't want to say yeah we did this and that then to find out the guy i told it doesn't happen - and he gets all mad at me...

[Rvarghcrna]

VERY True, some guys get more sensual depending on the chemsitry

[+ WestGuy]

Thats why I have been PM'ed about a masseur and the want me to go into all sexual stuff. I won't. 1) im private 2) I don't want to say yeah we did this and that then to find out the guy i told it doesn't happen - and he gets all mad at me...

 

I agree with this approach. I have had a couple of guys PM me about their experiences with certain providers I had recommended, when their experience did not match my experience with the same guys (I.e., their experience was less sensual). They weren’t angry but were disappointed. So I usually “undersell” that aspect and put in a lot of caveats about how long I have known the provider, our chemistry, etc.

[Trick]

I agree with this approach. I have had a couple of guys PM me about their experiences with certain providers I had recommended, when their experience did not match my experience with the same guys (I.e., their experience was less sensual). They weren’t angry but were disappointed. So I usually “undersell” that aspect and put in a lot of caveats about how long I have known the provider, our chemistry, etc.

 

I tell providers about this forum. Sometimes I even show them what’s written about them. I usually ask for permission to share my experience with them. Some say “ok”, some say “please don’t”. That gives me an idea if they have a universal approach to clients or they go by chemistry and other factors.

[Massageislife]

I tell providers about this forum. Sometimes I even show them what’s written about them. I usually ask for permission to share my experience with them. Some say “ok”, some say “please don’t”. That gives me an idea if they have a universal approach to clients or they go by chemistry and other factors.

 

I really like this approach. After several years of massage, I&very begun writing on this site. I like the respect of asking a masseur--especially a regular--if they're comfortable with my sharing details. You guys are teaching me a lot!

[Massageislife]

I agree with this approach. I have had a couple of guys PM me about their experiences with certain providers I had recommended, when their experience did not match my experience with the same guys (I.e., their experience was less sensual). They weren’t angry but were disappointed. So I usually “undersell” that aspect and put in a lot of caveats about how long I have known the provider, our chemistry, etc.

 

I understand your point. I was a little "hurt" to find out that a masseur who was pretty unfriendly to me, made love to another client, but I still value hearing about how sensual/erotic a masseur has been with others.

[Onamission]

The last masseur I had is actually the one who told me about this site. He was very helpful in directing me here.

[+ EVdude]

Loyalty has dividends. Find a masseur you like for his massage abilities and keep going back. In my experience, there have been many happy returns.

[Guest europeanman]

What kissing has to do with massage?

[qwaszxxx]

What kissing has to do with massage?

 

Agreed - massage is about.. massage. I'd expect something more intimate from an escort. Don't think I would be comfortable if a massage therapist (even a hot one) tried to kiss me.

[Trick]

What kissing has to do with massage?

 

In my case, A LOT! Over the years, I have developed a fetish with massage. It is very hot and seductive for me going into an appointment not knowing where it will lead. Then you begin to look out for the hints, subtle or otherwise - brushes on genitalia (yours and his), the sound of his shorts/underwear being taken off, the “aha” moment when it’s time to turn over. Then the negotiations over how to proceed. There is a sense of thrill and excitement for me in all this.

[Agachado]

I agree with this approach. I have had a couple of guys PM me about their experiences with certain providers I had recommended, when their experience did not match my experience with the same guys (I.e., their experience was less sensual). They weren’t angry but were disappointed. So I usually “undersell” that aspect and put in a lot of caveats about how long I have known the provider, our chemistry, etc.

I am more reticent now to PM and describe my experiences with masseurs who advertise and who comes up here on the forums. The extras flow from chemistry, frequency, language spoken, and in general the relationship that builds over time as a client, especially Kissing and Cumming I really cannot expect that to be transferable to all clients.