chunky guy

[Topseeka]

Question for escorts based in london (and clients) I'm a bit chunky with a small belly (but working on it) how do escorts deal with clients who are not tonned, gym fit etc does it put you off? any other chunky guys have recommendations for good top escorts in london would be appreciated.

[+ VictorPowers]

I’m not in London but I meet people of all ages, shapes, and sizes. If you feel your weight will be an issue, I’d recommend bringing it up in conversation leading up to setting your appointment. Say something like hello my name is x I’m a bottom and describe myself as a bigger guy. Do you think we will be a match?

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I am a bigger guy, my opening text or email is like this

 

Hi I .m a late 50's large bear looking for .....

 

The odd provider replays back , not going to work, some never return your call

 

BUT it's better than turning up and being rejected which has happened

[hypothetically]

how do escorts deal with clients who are not tonned, gym fit etc

 

...babe, that’s all of our clients. Your body is the last thing we’re looking at, I assure you.

 

What you look like has no relevance to why the escort is there. If the escort cares or ask, he did you a favor and now you know who not to hire.

[Mocha]

...babe, that’s all of our clients. Your body is the last thing we’re looking at, I assure you.

 

What you look like has no relevance to why the escort is there. If the escort cares or ask, he did you a favor and now you know who not to hire.

 

I agree with you on the 1st half, but the last sentence I’m a little on the edge about. I my ad, I have 3 things clients must provide as written here

 

?? All types welcome. If using text to arrange a visit, please introduce yourself:

 

1) Name:

2) Age/Basic Stats:

3) City You’re In:

 

I try to emphasis “all types welcome” to let people know that it’s not about what they look like...it’s just me not wanting to meet someone solely based off of a few text messages. I also do want to have an idea of whom I’m meeting. If they’ve got 50+ photos of me to stare at, I feel it doesn’t hurt for them to share something about them. I don’t need a picture. I already know what 5’9 and 200 pounds looks like, or 5’9 and 160 pounds looks like.

 

Majority of callers don’t have an issue doing so. Even the timewasters. Remember, even when anonymous Craigslist and face-less a4a ruled the hookup world, people still had to put in atleast their most basic info like age, to get started.

 

I didn’t start asking until calls and emails were taken over texts. If I hear a voice, I can atleast tell whether it’s a 50 year old or a 20 year old.

[hypothetically]

I agree with you on the 1st half, but the last sentence I’m a little on the edge about. I my ad, I have 3 things clients must provide as written here

 

?? All types welcome. If using text to arrange a visit, please introduce yourself:

 

1) Name:

2) Age/Basic Stats:

3) City You’re In:

 

I try to emphasis “all types welcome” to let people know that it’s not about what they look like...it’s just me not wanting to meet someone solely based off of a few text messages. I also do want to have an idea of whom I’m meeting. If they’ve got 50+ photos of me to stare at, I feel it doesn’t hurt for them to share something about them. I don’t need a picture. I already know what 5’9 and 200 pounds looks like, or 5’9 and 160 pounds looks like.

 

Majority of callers don’t have an issue doing so. Even the timewasters. Remember, even when anonymous Craigslist and face-less a4a ruled the hookup world, people still had to put in atleast their most basic info like age, to get started.

 

I didn’t start asking until calls and emails were taken over texts. If I hear a voice, I can atleast tell whether it’s a 50 year old or a 20 year old.

 

...”if the escort asks or cares” about his weight @Mocha.

Edited July 27, 2019 by hypothetically

[Mocha]

...”if the escort asks are cares” about his weight @Mocha.

 

ah, gotcha...my misunderstanding.

[Topseeka]

thanks guys