Escort tops.

[bendable2019]

If you’re top, and the escort is also a top, how do you decide on who gets to bottom? ?

[+ MasssageGuy]

Take turns?

[bendable2019]

Take turns?

 

Some have indicated they are strictly top...

[MidwestCoastal]

Communication.... Be specific on your expectations/wants/desires. If they still say "strict top, no bottoming', then may not be a match!

[+ FrankR]

If you’re top, and the escort is also a top, how do you decide on who gets to bottom? ?

In this case, two total tops, nobody bttms. Lots of fun can be had without topping. But if you have your heart set on topping there is a compatibility problem.

 

Over the years I have walked away from a number of people I found very attractive because we were not compatible. Politely disengage and move on.

[bendable2019]

In this case, two total tops, nobody bttms. Lots of fun can be had without topping. But if you have your heart set on topping there is a compatibility problem.

 

Over the years I have walked away from a number of people I found very attractive because we were not compatible. Politely disengage and move on.

 

Thanks @FrankR yep there are moments when you’re head over heels over a hottie but then there’s the comparability issue...cheers!

[MidwestCoastal]

Head over heels, but apparently not heels over head....(Ba-dum-dum-Ssss)

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Flipping a dildo is a lot more fun than flipping a coin

[+ ITakeItDeep]

Interesting wording...If there are two tops how do you decide who gets to bottom (instead of who gets to top)...

[nsguy45]

I've been a top all my life, never bottomed once. And yet, I've had numerous incredibly satisfying sexual experiences with other tops. It's not all about penetration.

[TruthBTold]

And even top/versatile labels can be tenuous. Many times it is a top just wanting to do what he has to do. I really want my partner to enjoy himself and if he is just bottoming because I have to top then I would not enjoy it. Everyone has different views on this so you have to think about it. All I am saying is to be wary and think about it because you will be spending money and you want to be comfortable and make yourself happy.

[hypothetically]

If you’re top, and the escort is also a top, how do you decide on who gets to bottom? ?

 

No one, because neither of you are prepped to bottom.