411 How can I work with heavy clients without offending them?

[Guest]

A liquor store near where I live offers free wine tastings on Fridays. One of the employees who pours during those tastings, while very knowledgeable regarding wines, has a BMI over 50, and has a bad odor which makes it difficult to go through the tasing. I'm not sure if it's from under his abdominal skin folds or from his rectum (that I can't imagine he can reach), but I dread the thought of his running the wine tasing. I may be one of the few people who prefers my fiance does not shower right before sex. I don't like to taste soap (as long as there isn't heavy BO, of course). Rinsing off the deodorant with plain water is best for me.

[+ sync]

Personal hygiene is such a high-priority for me, I just don't have the words to adequately address the willful neglect of it, particularly if the individual is contemplating intimacy.

[Guy Fawkes]

How can we be offended by you wanting to learn how do do you job better?

 

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended. I thank y’all for the constructive comments herein... I am blessed to be in this forum to hear y’all and take in all the suggestions and advice...I was just seeking advice and I am glad I got it. I offered my client a shower yday but he didn’t really reach down there to clean the backyard properly so I had a hard time breathing in whilst massaging. In this instance and as some have suggested, I would have to take a shower with him and soap him down to ensure all the hard to reach places for him are attended to. I do not have any qualms with size but hygiene is. Thanks for all your advice. Love y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

[Guy Fawkes]

Not all soaps taste bad.

 

Making sure your shower has good tasting soap and good shower tools helps all around.

 

In my case being diabetic without constant vigilance involves having an odor that smells like nail polish. My mouth can also be "sweet and fruity" both can be simply solved.

 

A liquor store near where I live offers free wine tastings on Fridays. One of the employees who pours during those tastings, while very knowledgeable regarding wines, has a BMI over 50, and has a bad odor which makes it difficult to go through the tasing. I'm not sure if it's from under his abdominal skin folds or from his rectum (that I can't imagine he can reach), but I dread the thought of his running the wine tasing. I may be one of the few people who prefers my fiance does not shower right before sex. I don't like to taste soap (as long as there isn't heavy BO, of course). Rinsing off the deodorant with plain water is best for me.

[rocky]

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended. I thank y’all for the constructive comments herein... I am blessed to be in this forum to hear y’all and take in all the suggestions and advice...I was just seeking advice and I am glad I got it. I offered my client a shower yday but he didn’t really reach down there to clean the backyard properly so I had a hard time breathing in whilst massaging. In this instance and as some have suggested, I would have to take a shower with him and soap him down to ensure all the hard to reach places for him are attended to. I do not have any qualms with size but hygiene is. Thanks for all your advice. Love y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

Hi again and thanks for t his thread as I mentioned I'm a larger bodied guy, well 250 pounds, 5'6". I always tell my escort that up front and say, if that isn't your thing, I understand. I would never think of not being clean as I can but isn't there a degree of risk when agreed to take on a really big guy that this might happen?

[+ Travis69]

Wasn't there another thread recently about people's diets and origins that can produce body odors that some may find offensive. For some people that are very sensitive to any type of odor being a masseur or an escort would not be a wise choice of profession.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Dear @socialguy... my humble apologies dear and to everyone whom I may have offended.

 

You really have no reason to apologize.

[BgMstr4u]

A very helpful thread. Especially helpful is @Monarchy79’s comment about the odoriferous realities of everyday life. Sometimes there just is no way to be squeaky clean by the time you arrive. In which case a shower is just the trick.

 

A suggestion to providers: A designer bathroom with clean towels, good quality toiletries and no evidence of your personal life is ideal but not always possible. But everyone can achieve neatness and cleanliness. Fresh washcloth and towels, good soap and shampoo, sparkling clean shower and personal stuff carefully stowed away are within reach of everyone’s grasp, as it were. And they speak welcome to your client.

[+ Pensant]

Make it a spa experience.

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