Seeking Arrangements vs Escorts

[CBA]

I am curious if there are any thoughts on the difference in compensation between a guy on Seeking Arrangements (that is not also an escort) and escorts such as you find on Rentmen. I find that most escorts are very high for overnight/weekend/vacations vs men on Seeking Arrangement. Is there a difference or is it just what can be negotiated?

[sexymonk]

SA guys are unaware of market price whereas most RM guys know it. It is all about the market awareness thing. Few RM guys are expensive like brodysinclair!

[Studsearcher]

I’ve had guys from SA wanting insane amounts and some hot ones who are happy with $200/hr. Or $1000 for a weekend. How you present yourself is part of that equation, I believe. I really feel the best guys on there aren’t looking to meet just anyone who has a checkbook.

 

From my experience with SA, move the conversation to texting and then be very clear about what you have to offer and what you expect in return. Be willing to turn down a hot guy if he isn’t into what you’re looking for because you will only end up frustrated. I suggest that once you think you have a match, take your guy out for a dinner date to make sure it’s a fit. Some guys on there are essentially escorts, some want you to pay them to be a platonic friend, and some just want a hand out. And for the love of God don’t send anyone money until you’ve met in person - even if you’ve verified them through Snapchat or other social media!

[+ Keith30309]

I’ll continue to meet the guys I found on SA - I met one last night - and my uniform allowance amount is $200 and I steadfastly refuse to budge from that. And time duration never enters the equation. Anywhere from an hour to overnight at my hotel.

[marylander1940]

SA guys are unaware of market price whereas most RM guys know it. It is all about the market awareness thing. Few RM guys are expensive like brodysinclair!

 

You nailed it!

 

I’ve had guys from SA wanting insane amounts and some hot ones who are happy with $200/hr. Or $1000 for a weekend. How you present yourself is part of that equation, I believe. I really feel the best guys on there aren’t looking to meet just anyone who has a checkbook.

 

From my experience with SA, move the conversation to texting and then be very clear about what you have to offer and what you expect in return. Be willing to turn down a hot guy if he isn’t into what you’re looking for because you will only end up frustrated. I suggest that once you think you have a match, take your guy out for a dinner date to make sure it’s a fit. Some guys on there are essentially escorts, some want you to pay them to be a platonic friend, and some just want a hand out. And for the love of God don’t send anyone money until you’ve met in person - even if you’ve verified them through Snapchat or other social media!

 

I think most guys looking to hire from S.A. describe themselves younger, in better shape, and wealthier than they truly are.

 

Someone told me by PM he wasn't hiring escorts he was paying guys from S.A. and a rotating "horse stable" I replied to him saying: "now your hire guys who escort from S.A." that was the end of the conversation.

Edited March 15, 2019 by marylander1940