Screw death - escorts have given me a new lease on life!

[Guest ncm2169]

First, there have been several touching posts recently about death and dying and the need to reach out and feel like a member of one of more communities, primarily if one is older.

 

Second, the recent announcements of horribly untimely early deaths punctuate that need.

 

Both of those things said, I just want to chime in and say that, as someone who is, as I put it, in rapidly advancing middle age, my discovery of escorts/escorting 5 years ago has opened up a whole new vista for me and has given me a new lease on life. Indeed, the escorting "connection" has resulted in a "living arrangement" (no sugar daddy involved) and a deep friendship which I could never have imagined at my age. He keeps me young. He makes me feel young. We have a fuckin blast together. And, if he'll put up with me, it's waaaaay better having him help me up the stairs when I'm 80 than being at some goddamn "home."

 

And so, as I said in response to a request for "goodbyes" to the recently departed HB a while back, this site changed my life.

 

I wish all of you such happiness! :*

[+ deej]

>as someone who is, as I put it, in rapidly advancing middle age

 

Or as my dear (younger) sister (THAT BITCH!) often says to me....

 

You may not be over the hill but you can sure see over the top.

 

I'll raise a glass in toast to all of us who remain. Every day.

 

::sounds of glass clinking together:: TINK!

[Guest O solo mio]

>Indeed, the escorting "connection" has

>resulted in a "living arrangement" (no sugar daddy involved)

>and a deep friendship which I could never have imagined at my

>age.

 

I hope you know how lucky you are to have that at this stage of the game. What I wouldn't give to have such an arrangement and friendship. You have given me hope and inspiration!

[+ purplekow]

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>I hope you know how lucky you are to have that at this stage

>of the game. What I wouldn't give to have such an arrangement

>and friendship. You have given me hope and inspiration!

 

And I hope when I that when I reach your advanced, perhaps decrepit age, (32 isn't it) that I too shall be able to find some 25 year old to help me pick up the soap in the shower and to feed me some mush in the morning.

[Guest ncm2169]

Growing old is a fact of life. My philosophy is, absent medical conditions which dictate limits, we all have a choice in how we deal with aging. For me, surrounding myself with people my age and then some (eg. mid 50's-70's) only serves to remind me of my mortality and invites me to stagnate. I much prefer the company of young/younger people because they are much more vibrant and intoxicated with life. I find their thirst for knowledge and their ability to incorporate modern technology (eg. ipods) into their lives is a huge challenge to me to "keep up." The same goes for their music. I've always loved modern music but when some (too many?) of my "old friends" are stuck on The Beachboys or The Beatles to the exclusion of anything more recent than that, I call that stagnation.

 

I sounded almost boastful in my post last evening and that was not my intent at all. I realize I am the (in my world) luckiest guy around right now. FYI, my "roommate" is not an escort I hired and then got to know, he is someone I knew casually who I introduced to escorting. That we should share what we have together is utterly improbable --- totally different backgrounds, etc., etc., but we complement each other in nearly perfect ways. How the money comes in and goes out is far less important than that we fill so many voids in each other's lives. The best gift we give each other is leading the other to explore and experience places, things, ideas, which would otherwise be foreign to each of us. Is our relationship perfect? Hell no. Do we sometimes fight? Of course. We're both human. But, when push comes to shove, are we always there for each other? Yep!!:-)

 

OK, I've rambled enough. I'll close this post with the opening line of one of my all time favorite songs:

 

"Fairy tales can come true, it can happen to you, if you're young at heart."

[+ deej]

You are indeed fortunate. But since you brought up lyrics, this hit my inbox just this afternoon:

 

 

 

Well, at least there's a little good news for baby boomers...some of the biggest artists of the 60's are giving their old hits new lyrics to accommodate the aging baby boomers. They include ..

 

 

Herman's Hermits: Mrs. Brown, You've Got a Lovely Walker

Ringo Starr: I Get By With a Little Help From Depends

The Bee Gees: How Can You Mend a Broken Hip?

Bobby Darin: Splish, Splash, I Was Havin' a Flash

Roberta Flack: The First Time Ever I Forgot Your Face

Johnny Nash: I Can't See Clearly Now

Paul Simon: Fifty Ways to Lose Your Liver

The Commodores: Once, Twice, Three Times to the Bathroom

Marvin Gaye: I Heard It Through the Grape Nuts

Procol Harem: A Whiter Shade of Hair

Leo Sayer: You Make Me Feel Like Napping

The Temptations Papa's Got a Kidney Stone

Abba: Denture Queen

Tony Orlando: Knock 3 Times On The Ceiling If You Hear Me Fall

Helen Reddy: I Am Woman, Hear Me Snore

Leslie Gore: It's My Procedure, and I'll Cry If I Want To

 

And , one last "oldie"...but certainly a "goodie"........

Willie Nelson: On the Commode Again

[Guest ncm2169]

LMFAOROFL :+

 

OTOH, I'll take all those original songs/lyrics and simply add something from 1990 forward to my collection. Hell my fave tune by Meatloaf (Paradise by the Dashboard Lights/Let me Sleep on it) dates back to 1995. Techno, anyone? }(