Escort egos

[+ keroscenefire]

As a client, have you had to deal with the big egos of some of these escorts? I recently contacted the self-described "Best reviewed in Las Vegas" but found the messaging so off-putting that it was a big turn off. He ended up blocking me simply because I was at work after asking him some preliminary information and by the time I got the (11!) messages he "didn't have time to deal with some idiot who is going to waste his time." There is another escort in Denver who after looking at his pictures, messages me almost badgering with messages like "How come you haven't contacted me? You know I'm the hottest one on here."

 

To me that is a huge turn off, but maybe the cocky asshole thing turns some guys on. Generally I am kind of turned off by profiles with all-caps "HOTTEST GUY IN X" or "MOST REVERED ADULT ENTERTAINER!!!" To me that seems like they are big on themselves and maybe the session will suffer as a result. What do you think?

Edited February 23, 2019 by keroscenefire

[marylander1940]

As a client, have you had to deal with the big egos of some of these escorts? I recently contacted the self-described "Best reviewed in Las Vegas" but found the messaging so off-putting that it was a big turn off. He ended up blocking me simply because I was at work after asking him some preliminary information and by the time I got he messages he "didn't have time to deal with some idiot who is going to waste his time." There is another escort in Denver who after looking at his pictures, messages me almost badgering with messages like "How come you haven't contacted me? You know I'm the hottest one on here."

 

To me that is a huge turn off, but maybe the cocky asshole thing turns some guys on. Generally I am kind of turned off by profiles with all-caps "HOTTEST GUY IN X" or "MOST REVERED ADULT ENTERTAINER!!!" To me that seems like they are big on themselves and maybe the session will suffer as a result. What do you think?

 

I agree with you but it's a tough profession and guys without thick skin and the stomach to do the "deed" don't last.

 

At the same time escorts have to deal with clients egos, games and attitudes. Some clients even lie about their age, income, body type, etc. Attitude goes both ways!

[caliguy]

I am kind of turned off by profiles with all-caps "HOTTEST GUY IN X" or "MOST REVERED ADULT ENTERTAINER!!!" To me that seems like they are big on themselves and maybe the session will suffer as a result. What do you think?

I get a kick out of those that complain about prices and ego when they're always going for those exact types as if one day they'll run into a model with a nice personality that offers a BF experience. Well, they might but the price is going to match.

 

I also think it just comes down to supply and demand. Those in demand are naturally going to turn into prima donna's.

[marylander1940]

I get a kick out of those that complain about prices

 

And the clients who bargain about prices... I wonder if they describe their appearance, age, and BB demands accurately to the escorts?

 

Some of them even talk about defending and fighting for the poor while asking for a cheaper price. The whole process reminds me of exploitation.

 

 

and ego when they're always going for those exact types as if one day they'll run into a model with a nice personality that offers a BF experience.

 

I also think it just comes down to supply and demand. Those in demand are naturally going to turn into prima donna's.

 

Exactly, escorting is NOT for everybody, some guys just can't do it!

[+ WilliamM]

As a client, have you had to deal with the big egos of some of these escorts? I recently contacted the self-described "Best reviewed in Las Vegas" but found the messaging so off-putting that it was a big turn off. He ended up blocking me simply because I was at work after asking him some preliminary information and by the time I got he messages he "didn't have time to deal with some idiot who is going to waste his time." There is another escort in Denver who after looking at his pictures, messages me almost badgering with messages like "How come you haven't contacted me? You know I'm the hottest one on here."

 

To me that is a huge turn off, but maybe the cocky asshole thing turns some guys on. Generally I am kind of turned off by profiles with all-caps "HOTTEST GUY IN X" or "MOST REVERED ADULT ENTERTAINER!!!" To me that seems like they are big on themselves and maybe the session will suffer as a result. What do you think?

 

I remember a long dispute about an overnight cost with a young guy who once posted here frequently. Perhaps because we knew each other from here, it never got ugly. But we never reached an agreement, and I greatly regret it.

 

You are completely right to be angry about the way you were treated.

[caliguy]

And the clients who bargain about prices... I wonder if they describe their appearance, age, and BB demands accurately to the escorts?

 

Yeah, some are just completely unrealistic. As if they're paying for a wind up toy. If the escort has their own demands it's WW3 on this site. He's a horrible escort! Real escorts don't care what you look like or are into. They'll have sex with anything and love it!!!!

 

Of course there are many ads that cater to that expectation. The one's the check off on everything. Of course they're all BS but hey.

[+ glutes]

Egoic escorts, HA! Look at me, look at ME!

I was recently with a provider, who asked me if I knew of a (house hold name) singer, I said of course. "Well, he's my client and supports me." I wondered why this provider pulled up in a new Land Rover.

Why I bring this up is that a few years ago another provider mentioned the very same famous singer. He even proved his 'relationship' by showing me a fur coat singed by said singer.

Just glad I am not famous or rich with these ego hounds...

[rvwnsd]

Thankfully, I've only encountered a couple of guys who were very full of themselves. One that comes to mind wrote in his initial reply to my RM message that he was very selective about who he allows to hire him and wanted me to know that I'd have to prove that I would make the cut. I told him that I was also very selective (it's true!) and that I would not be moving forward. He kept messaging me via the RM email system until I blocked him. He no longer escorts.

 

I've also encountered guys who did a better job of stating they were trying to assess my seriousness about meeting. That's completely fine with me. Time is valuable. For me, it is all in the delivery.

[sexymonk]

As a client, have you had to deal with the big egos of some of these escorts? I recently contacted the self-described "Best reviewed in Las Vegas" but found the messaging so off-putting that it was a big turn off. He ended up blocking me simply because I was at work after asking him some preliminary information and by the time I got he messages he "didn't have time to deal with some idiot who is going to waste his time." There is another escort in Denver who after looking at his pictures, messages me almost badgering with messages like "How come you haven't contacted me? You know I'm the hottest one on here."

 

To me that is a huge turn off, but maybe the cocky asshole thing turns some guys on. Generally I am kind of turned off by profiles with all-caps "HOTTEST GUY IN X" or "MOST REVERED ADULT ENTERTAINER!!!" To me that seems like they are big on themselves and maybe the session will suffer as a result. What do you think?

I agree! Just move on. That was hilarious statement from the escort that how come you didn't contacted me as I am the hottest escort in the town! Lol

[sexymonk]

I agree with you but it's a tough profession and guys without thick skin and the stomach to do the "deed" don't last.

 

At the same time escorts have to deal with clients egos, games and attitudes. Some clients even lie about their age, income, body type, etc. Attitude goes both ways!

I just wonder that why clients have to emotion about their income? Isn't it rude bothways to ask that thing?

[caliguy]

I agree! Just move on. That was hilarious statement from the escort that how come you didn't contacted me as I am the hottest escort in the town! Lol

I'm surprised his head would even fit through the door.

[marylander1940]

Egoic escorts, HA! Look at me, look at ME!

I was recently with a provider, who asked me if I knew of a (house hold name) singer, I said of course. "Well, he's my client and supports me." I wondered why this provider pulled up in a new Land Rover.

Why I bring this up is that a few years ago another provider mentioned the very same famous singer. He even proved his 'relationship' by showing me a fur coat singed by said singer.

Just glad I am not famous or rich with these ego hounds...

 

That wasn't about ego, was about gossiping.... I'm sure they have talked to other clients about the singer and they've lost a lot of business, considering most clients aren't humble and think they're:

 

[+ WilliamM]

That wasn't about ego, was about gossiping.... I'm sure they have talked to other clients about the singer and they've lost a lot of business, considering most clients aren't humble and think they're:

 

 

If you hired the same man for over a year or longer, of course, you will know about his personal life. For example, His husband/partner may work for a fellow who is often in the news. The "gossip" is not always intentional.

[+ glutes]

That wasn't about ego, was about gossiping....

 

And lack of discretion!

[marylander1940]

If you hired the same man for over a year or longer, of course, you will know about his personal life. For example, His husband/partner may work for a fellow who is often in the news. The "gossip" is not always intentional.

 

Hell yeah... some escorts have become my friends but it took years before they told me they had someone famous.

[+ keroscenefire]

That said..almost all of the escorts I've actually met up with were really nice people who genuinely wanted to make sure everyone had a great time. I've only had one just outright bad escort experience and it was more about flakiness than ego. But I think I've naturally become a bit selective for guys that don't seem to have big egos.

 

But like I said before, maybe being kind of cocky and sure of yourself is a turn on for some. To me I appreciate confidence but do find there is a fine line between that and cockiness.