Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?

[Nvr2Thick]

How about setting up a playlist with 60 minutes of mood music or silence followed by this?

 

 

 

Even better, there's an app for that.

 

https://www.fastcompany.com/3042731/finally-an-app-that-lets-you-play-off-rambling-coworkers-like-oscar-acceptance-speeches

 

Finally, An App That Lets You “Play Off” Rambling Coworkers Like Oscar Acceptance Speeches

BY JOE BERKOWITZ

1 MINUTE READ

There is no graceful way to tell someone to stop talking in most situations. Award shows, however, do not have that problem. When that wrap-it-up overture starts swelling while you’re still on stage, it means it’s time to thank your mom and your spouse and call it a night. And it works, too. Even the most heroically defiant speech-maker at this year’s Oscars, Best Foreign Language Film director Pawel Pawlikowski,

only lasted 45 seconds

after the music started (though it seemed more like a half-hour). If only there was a way to harness this powerful efficiency tool into your social and professional life! Whoops, there already is.

 

Agency

Rethink

has just rolled out a new app that recreates the award show play-off music, placing it right inside your phone.

“You’re Cut Off”

tells anybody who has gone on too long that it’s time to do a dismount. Whether it’s a conversation that seems inescapable, a boring presentation that is getting

Groundhog Day

-level repetitive, or maybe even a quarterly state of the union address from the CEO if you’re truly bold, this app says everything you need to say for you. A word of warning, though, this app will be a well-received and tolerated office gag precisely one time per person it’s used upon, so make it count!

 

http://rethinkcanada.com/timesup/index.html

[Colby G]

A different twist on this...I once hired a guy in Orlando that I was very much looking forward to being with. Lots of anticipation and, in retrospect, also a few red flags. When he arrived at my hotel, he sat on the edge of one bed and I sat across from him on the other bed while he went on about his family, life in Tennessee, Christmas gifts he bought for his parents, his boyfriend who really wants him to bottom and on and on. I made subtle advances by touching his knee, taking his hand, etc. to move toward some intimacy. This went on for about twenty minutes before things got started.

 

We ended at an hour with more talking at the end. I take an active part in managing time and always move to the side of the escort if we go over...in other words round up if there is any doubt of time. But this seemed unfair and I had a difficult time moving things along. I thought about saying something like ‘you have an interesting story but I’d like to move on ‘ but wasn’t sure that was the right approach. This one left me a bit dumbfounded. Of course, the opposite is always interesting too when my pants are taken down before the door closes!

[Guest Indianamasseuse]

Interesting. I think some escorts like to get to know their clients a bit just to establish some type of connection. I know I don’t like to look at my clients as simply a number. I also don’t want them to feel pressed for time. That’s just me though.

 

I think if you wanted him to move along you should have voiced your opinion. Chances are he was just trying to establish a connection and/or calm both of your nerves before anything started.

[Guest Indianamasseuse]

A different twist on this...I once hired a guy in Orlando that I was very much looking forward to being with. Lots of anticipation and, in retrospect, also a few red flags. When he arrived at my hotel, he sat on the edge of one bed and I sat across from him on the other bed while he went on about his family, life in Tennessee, Christmas gifts he bought for his parents, his boyfriend who really wants him to bottom and on and on. I made subtle advances by touching his knee, taking his hand, etc. to move toward some intimacy. This went on for about twenty minutes before things got started.

 

We ended at an hour with more talking at the end. I take an active part in managing time and always move to the side of the escort if we go over...in other words round up if there is any doubt of time. But this seemed unfair and I had a difficult time moving things along. I thought about saying something like ‘you have an interesting story but I’d like to move on ‘ but wasn’t sure that was the right approach. This one left me a bit dumbfounded. Of course, the opposite is always interesting too when my pants are taken down before the door closes!

 

My post above was directed to this quote. Sorry for any confusion

[+ Pensant]

I’ve never had an experience like that in 20 years. Guess I’ve been lucky. The other night, we actually sat on the deck looking at the skyline and enjoyed a glass of wine afterwards.