Erotic photos: difference between erection and ejaculation?

[Guest]

I have found it strange at how bad I am sometimes at predicting which erotic photos will get me off. On days I'm not having sex, I often pick out photos from the internet of men who are totally my type, and think I'm going to explode. Well, sometimes I do, but sometimes I don't get off, and have to move to some other photos, often one of my "old stand-by" photos. There's this one photo I have that I keep getting off on, and I can't understand why. The man is totally not my type. He's kind of chunky, balding, pasty, with hair on his shoulders. I'm completely "flabber-gasted" as to why he gets me off. Usually men who give me raging hard-ons are kind of the opposite: muscular, nice thick hair (not necessarily long), caramel-colored skin... But what makes me erect and what makes me ejaculate are often quite different. Another thing that's been happening is that often I can't get off unless I'm looking at photos of my domestic partner. I have such a huge porn collection, I'd love to get off from it. But on some days I go from one photo to another and won't get off until I look at my partner. The other part (not reaching orgasm with photos of hot men) has happened to me before, the partner thing is a new phenomenon for me. I guess maybe arousal and orgasm are separated. Have any of you had this phenomenon? By the way, I've never met the chunky, balding man whose picture has been getting me off for 30 years. I completely dumb-founded as to why sometimes I just need to look at that photo. I'll be trying with the muscle stud photo, and something in my brain tells me "You'll need to look at this man if you want to get off."

[MscleLovr]

Photos/porn can be arousing but I need a person in the flesh to get me off.

[liubit]

Photos/porn can be arousing but I need a person in the flesh to get me off.

Same here.

[+ bashful]

Photos/porn can be arousing but I need a person in the flesh to get me off.

 

I began hiring in 2015 after a long period of solo gratification. Since then, I may look at visuals, and get aroused to some extent, but rarely use them to get off. Much prefer, and it's much better with someone.