Canceling due to sickness

[+ RJD]

Sorry to hear. I can appreciate your disappointment.

 

I recently had a guy cancel on me with similar timing - in NYC so unlikely to be the same guy.....I had set something up a few days prior, and communication was great. We confirmed the day of around lunch time and we were all set for 9pm after I had dinner with colleagues. While I’m at dinner, he texts me that he pulled a muscle at the gym and needs to cancel. While unfortunate, these things happen (Easy to say now, but like you, I was pretty bummed at the time).

 

I too was disappointed- he has great reviews on line, but the joy of being in NYC - I was able to contact and see someone else - a little later than I was initially planning, but for me, not the same disappointment you had.

 

plan B worked for me (although I do need to say, I would still have preferred to see plan A!).

 

My plan B was keeping the “Boston Entertainment Fund” in the envelope and nursing some major wood on my own. ? In the end, it all worked out. That envelope became my “Christmas Entertainment Fund” which I used last weekend when I met a local Brazilian god who completely rocked my world. Santa came early and often this year.

[+ Reisr30]

Wow- this must be more common than I thought! We need to start a support group!!

 

ps - I would have rated your post, but the ? didn’t seem appropriate, and then I was going with a ?, the didn’t want you to think I didn’t like you post, but I was sharing your sadness......?‍♂️

 

Thank you!

[+ RJD]

Wow- this must be more common than I thought! We need to start a support group!!

 

That could be interesting.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

There's one fine gentleman I've wanted to meet for quite some time. We had arranged for him to visit me last weekend. I awoke the morning of his arrival with a cough. I immediately contacted him with the information and let him know I didn't think it was anything, but I wanted to disclose the situation before he got on the plane. Given his plans for the holidays, we decided to cancel and will reschedule for a future date.