Not on the first “date”

[Cliff]

Now I’ve heard everything. After a half dozen back and forth texts, an escort who I tried to hire eventually tells me he won’t fuck on the first appointment because it is an intimate act and he wants to get to know his clients better before he has anal sex with them. WTF!! He’s an escort!! (This protest, despite the fact that “anal” is checked off on his ad.) Hey, I’m primarily interested in getting my brains fucked out by a super hot guy - not courting them in hopes of a long-term relationship and maybe marrying them. Jesus! Getting fed up lately with the NY escort scene.

[marylander1940]

Now I’ve heard everything. After a half dozen back and forth texts, an escort who I tried to hire eventually tells me he won’t fuck on the first appointment because it is an intimate act and he wants to get to know his clients better before he has anal sex with them. WTF!! He’s an escort!! (This protest, despite the fact that “anal” is checked off on his ad.) Hey, I’m primarily interested in getting my brains fucked out by a super hot guy - not courting them in hopes of a long-term relationship and maybe marrying them. Jesus! Getting fed up lately with the NY escort scene.

 

His business model won’t last...

 

Fed up with the NY scene? You have hundreds of guys in New York City I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for.

 

Believe me he was an exception.

[Cliff]

His business model won’t last...

 

Fed up with the NY scene? You have hundreds of guys in New York City I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for.

 

Believe me he was an exception.

Fed up also because of the frequent last-minute cancellations, the chronic lateness and excuses, and the flaking.

[+ tassojunior]

Now I’ve heard everything. After a half dozen back and forth texts, an escort who I tried to hire eventually tells me he won’t fuck on the first appointment because it is an intimate act and he wants to get to know his clients better before he has anal sex with them. WTF!! He’s an escort!! (This protest, despite the fact that “anal” is checked off on his ad.) Hey, I’m primarily interested in getting my brains fucked out by a super hot guy - not courting them in hopes of a long-term relationship and maybe marrying them. Jesus! Getting fed up lately with the NY escort scene.

 

Set the fee according to what you do. You will have no problems.

 

In the rest of the country we have problems with gays falling in love with providers. In NYC it's the reverse because of rent (and insecurity).

[marylander1940]

Fed up also because of the frequent last-minute cancellations, the chronic lateness and excuses, and the flaking.

 

I’m sorry to hear that. They same happens to escorts every single day.

 

I have hundreds of guys available In a very competitive market a few must be reliable

[Raven]

I don't hire for sex, is call something else here, so I don't expect for a ESCORT to have sex with me in any "date" and since is a consensual act, how can you expect it? .-.

 

My comment sound judmental, I realize, sorry not my intention but I prefer a escort who sex is not his only thing he can thinks with a client

 

And yes...it suck when you hire a escort and in the end you realize you hire a sex worker...hell no...at least you find you not compatible before planning and spending money

Edited October 13, 2018 by Raven

[+ azdr0710]

at least he was honest with you before you met in person.....if I was suddenly told by some provider, "nope, ain't gonna happen", 38 minutes into a meeting, I'd be fuming.....

 

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[Cliff]

at least he was honest with you before you met in person.....if I was suddenly told by some provider, "nope, ain't gonna happen", 38 minutes into a meeting, I'd be fuming.....

 

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He should include “no fucking on the first date” very clearly in his ad so people (like me) wouldn’t waste time texting back and forth over the course of a day and a half. I could have booked someone else during that length of time.

[marylander1940]

@Cliff at least he told you after several text messages.

 

Time for you to move on and hire one of the hundreds of escorts who either bottom, top or bot (sometimes without a condom) all over NYC.

 

Gentlemen: that's why I'd rather talk on the phone for 2 mins instead of texting for hours.

 

"What do you get into?" is one of my first questions. If the escort doesn't want to be direct he can always answer: "In my private life I enjoy being a top yet sometimes I also bottom" (code language for vers/top).

[Cliff]

@Cliff at least he told you after several text messages.

 

Time for you to move on and hire one of the hundreds of escorts who either bottom, top or bot (sometimes without a condom) all over NYC.

 

Gentlemen: that's why I'd rather talk on the phone for 2 mins instead of texting for hours.

 

"What do you get into?" is one of my first questions. If the escort doesn't want to be direct he can always answer: "In my private life I enjoy being a top yet sometimes I also bottom" (code language for vers/top).

Marylander, I use this awesome forum for many reasons including helping out other forum members with my recommendations on escorts and also to get incredibly valuable guidance from you guys, as well. Today it was simply to vent, which I did and now I’m moving on.

[marylander1940]

Marylander, I use this awesome forum for many reasons including helping out other forum members with my recommendations on escorts and also to get incredibly valuable guidance from you guys, as well. Today it was simply to vent, which I did and now I’m moving on.

 

Good for you.

 

thank you for posting!

 

I'm sure you'll find what you want in NYC.

 

Are we the only ones using our states flags for avatar?

 

[Cliff]

Good for you.

 

thank you for posting!

 

I'm sure you'll find what you want in NYC.

 

Are we the only ones using our states flags for avatar?

 

My avatar is a “C” version of the “S” in Superman.

[marylander1940]

My avatar is a “C” version of the “S” in Superman.

 

well, at least I made you smile!

[thickornotatall]

Now I’ve heard everything. After a half dozen back and forth texts, an escort who I tried to hire eventually tells me he won’t fuck on the first appointment because it is an intimate act and he wants to get to know his clients better before he has anal sex with them. WTF!! He’s an escort!! (This protest, despite the fact that “anal” is checked off on his ad.) Hey, I’m primarily interested in getting my brains fucked out by a super hot guy - not courting them in hopes of a long-term relationship and maybe marrying them. Jesus! Getting fed up lately with the NY escort scene.

 

Did he promise a ring? Every kiss begins with K..not certain about a fuck..

Edited October 13, 2018 by thickornotatall

[adventurous old guy]

His business model won’t last...

 

Agree. This same thing happened to me. Once, Years ago in Vegas. Wrote a review. His ad disappeared. Nice guy, but he needed a lesson about the sequelae of deceptive advertising.

[ny344556]

Along these lines, I asked an escort who listed "Ask me" on his profile what that meant -- his response was he is safe the first time he meets a client but than anything goes.

[sexymonk]

He should include “no fucking on the first date” very clearly in his ad so people (like me) wouldn’t waste time texting back and forth over the course of a day and a half. I could have booked someone else during that length of time.

If he writes that then it means he is openly declaring that he exchanges money for sex and that is not legal! I don't think it will be appropriate to explicitly write something like that on the ad!

Edited October 14, 2018 by sexymonk

[Cliff]

If he writes that then it means he is openly declaring that he exchanges mo ru for sex and that is not legal! I don't think it will be appropriate to explicitly write something like that on the ad!

I was being facetious. I realize he could not use those exact words.